http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/02/04/effective-addiction-treatment/?...
A groundbreaking report published last year by the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University concluded that “the vast majority of people in need of addiction treatment do not receive anything that approximates evidence-based care.” The report added, “Only a small fraction of individuals receive interventions or treatment consistent with scientific knowledge about what works.”
The Columbia report found that most addiction treatment providers are not medical professionals and are not equipped with the knowledge, skills or credentials needed to provide the full range of evidence-based services, including medication and psychosocial therapy. The authors suggested that such insufficient care could be considered “a form of medical malpractice.”
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Ed
Mon, 02/18/2013 - 09:35
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Pennywise
Mon, 02/18/2013 - 14:50
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But if you have failed one or
Really?! While I agree that 12 Step treatment programs should qualify as medical malpractice, does anyone truly buy this nonsense?
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seagal007
Mon, 02/18/2013 - 15:08
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Actually it is not a persons fault
when they dont have access to knowledge. AA has supressed comprehensive knowledge and forced their quackery on most people suffering from addiction problems.
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Pennywise
Mon, 02/18/2013 - 15:10
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What "knowledge" does it take
What "knowledge" does it take to not voluntarily put alcohol and drugs into your body?
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seagal007
Mon, 02/18/2013 - 15:50
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Empowerment for starters
A person needs to know that they can stop addictive behavior. AA teaches just the opposite, that a person is powerless that drinking is not a choice. This alone screws up many peoples ability to stop addiction.
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Pennywise
Mon, 02/18/2013 - 16:03
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I appreciate what you are
I appreciate what you are saying, but let's think about it for a second. If drinking is a choice, and we are responsible for our choices, how can it not be an alcoholic's fault when he gets out of rehab, goes to the liquor store, pours a cocktail, lifts the glass to his mouth, and then swallows the booze? Was Bill Wilson right that he just goes on autopilot and has no control? And I'm not sure where knowledge fits into the equation here. Even if the person believes he is powerless, isn't he still making a choice for which he is responsible when he cracks a beer? How is that not his fault? Indeed, no doubt his 12 Step treatment center advised him against it. He chose to ignore that advice, no?
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seagal007
Mon, 02/18/2013 - 16:52
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Powerlesness = hopelessnes and depression
I consider it AA's fault because they caused the person to have false beliefs with their lies.
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Pennywise
Mon, 02/18/2013 - 17:05
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I don't mean to defend AA,
I don't mean to defend AA, but let me ask you something:
How can AA, or anyone, cause another person to belive something? Don't we live in a marketplace of ideas, and aren't we subject to all sorts of ideas we freely reject every day? Moreover, doesn't a big part of having personal autonomy involve the idea that although people may try to persuade us even when we are vulnerable, we are nonetheless free agents with the ability to make the ultimate decision of what to believe for ourselves? Additionally, if we do in fact have power over alcohol, how is that power negated by a mistaken belief that we are powerless? Do we become powerless just because AA says so and we believe it? If so, wouldn't that make AA right in its assertion that one can be powerless over alcohol?
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Gunthar2000
Mon, 02/18/2013 - 18:12
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Penny...
Perhaps you have been to one too many AA meetings. It seems that you are slowly but surely becoming a stepper. If people are free agents, then why are you allowing them to force you to go to cult meetings?
Do you believe that effective brainwashing techniques even exist?... or all of us impervious to these types of behaviors?
AA is a religious cult dressed up to look like a treatment for alcoholism.
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Pennywise
Mon, 02/18/2013 - 18:27
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I'm free insofar as what I
I'm free insofar as what I choose to believe (well, sort of). Anyway, while i might have to go to meetings, I don't have to believe the rubbish. If you think I'm a stepper, so be it. But I think I'm asking reasonable questions. See, I agree the 12 Steps are nonsense. But now you imply that I might be a stepper because I question the proposition that the alcoholic is not at fault when he chooses to drink again. This seems strange to me because I'm emphasizing free choice over alcohol, which runs directly counter to AA dogma. But the corollary to free choice is responsibility. You want to have it both ways. You want to say that we all have power over alcohol, but that we are not responsible if we choose to drink it (provided we were exposed to AA dogma). This doesn't make much sense to me.
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Gunthar2000
Mon, 02/18/2013 - 18:30
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I believe...
that a person can be manipulated to believe that they are powerless over alcohol.
I'll ask you again... Do you believe that brainwashing tactics can be responsible for what some people believe about themselves?
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8997790
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Pennywise
Mon, 02/18/2013 - 18:57
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That's good question, and a
That's good question, and a complicated one. I do believe in the power of persuasion, most certainly. And I won't quibble if you want to call it brainwashing, as it seems an appropriate term. But responsibility is a different matter, and I'm not sure how I really want to put this (and I'm not sure I have my own beliefs sorted out on this question). I do think at some point the brainwashed person becomes responsible. For example, I think the Manson Family members who participated in the murders were all responsible, brainwashed or not. But I also have to grant that outside influences can have a tremendous impact on what people think. I guess what I'm saying is at the end of the day we are all responsible for the actions we freely choose to take, but then again an action might not be taken freely if the actor is under a serious misconception of the facts. I'm having trouble with this one, to be honest. Can you help explain how stepper dogma influences a person in such a way that makes that person not responsible for picking up the next drink or drug? It seems very foreign to me, but just because I can't relate doesn't mean it isn't real. I might not be answering your question directly, but I don't want to do you an injustice by shooting from the hip without adequately considering it. What do you think about the Manson followers? Assuming they were brainwashed to at least the same degree as steppers, do you think they should have been held responsible like they were?
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Gunthar2000
Mon, 02/18/2013 - 19:05
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I never siad that people are not responsible...
for their behaviors.
What I'm saying is that Alcoholics Anonymous effects people in such a way as to make drinking more likely... Therefore Alcoholics Anonymous is, in part, responsible for drinking behavior.
Charles Manson was not at any of the murder scenes, yet he is widely recognized as the perpetrator. He was responsible for the Tate and Labyanka murders and he never actually participated.
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Pennywise
Mon, 02/18/2013 - 19:16
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Then perhaps we misunderstood
Then perhaps we misunderstood each other's opinions. Here is the statement I was responding to:
My position in this thread is NOT that AA shares no blame. I did not address that question. Rather, I was arguing that the person who drinks again IS at fault for that choice. As the Manson case illustrates, more than one party can be at fault. Just as the Manson family members were held responsible for the murders (along with Charlie), I am suggesting that the alcoholic in AA is likewise at fault if he chooses to drink again. In other words, just as the Manson cult members were not exculpated by virtue of being brainwashed, I'm saying that the relapser is not faultless by virtue of his 12 Step indoctrination. Whether AA is also at fault for the relapser's choice to pick up again is a separate question.
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Gunthar2000
Mon, 02/18/2013 - 19:24
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Actually...
You did suggest that AA was not to blame...
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Pennywise
Mon, 02/18/2013 - 19:33
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Nowhere in that quote did I
Nowhere in that quote did I say AA was not to blame. My statement was meant to argue that the person who chooses to drink again is at fault. I apologize for not being more clear.
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Pennywise
Tue, 02/19/2013 - 17:03
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Ok, I thought about this
Ok, I thought about this today and perhaps this is a better answer:
In order to clarify my position, I would like to distinguish fault from blame. For purposes of this discussion, by "fault," I mean that the agent made a conscious choice to perform a particular action that he had the power to avoid. Whether a person is at fault is therefore an objective inquiry. By "blame," I mean the moral value judgement we choose to place on an action, e.g., whether the actor should be shamed or punished. This of course is a subjective inquiry. Now, when a person chooses to do something due to brainwashing, he is nonetheless at fault. This is because his actions were the product of choice, regardless of the idea that he may have been acting under the strong influence of the person(s) doing the brainwashing. However, depending on the circumstances, we might say that the manipulative influences were so powerful and persuasive that the agent should be held blameless (or at least blamed less).
As applied to this conversation, no doubt the alcoholic is at fault when he chooses to drink again. This is a straightforward analysis given that he made a conscious decision to consume the alcohol when he could have chosen to abstain. But when it comes to blame, I think his personal belief that he is powerless can serve as a mitigating factor. While we may blame him for the bad acts he does when drunk, I do not think he should be shamed or punished simply for picking up again. Getting sober can be painful even without AA indoctrination, and I have a great deal of sympathy for people who struggle with abstinence.
My main point in my opening comment in this thread is not that a relapser is a weak-minded loser who should be ridiculed and held blameworthy every time he falls off the wagon; my main point is simply that such a person ought to realize that he is the captain of his own ship and that his drunkenness is due to his own choices. The upshot, naturally, is that he has the power to make healthier choices, notwithstanding whatever nonsense they told him in the roomz.
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causeandeffect
Wed, 02/20/2013 - 19:36
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Pennywise, while do believe
Pennywise, while do believe it's a choice to drink, and that things like blind mental blank spots are pure hogwash, the brainwashing can be a VERY powerful mitigating factor. I'd offer cults like heaven's gate or the people's temple as an extreme example. And once someone takes that first drink, the brainwashing has an even more powerful effect due lessened inhibitions and a message of powerlessness ringing all through their heads.
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causeandeffect
Wed, 02/20/2013 - 19:41
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And when you say " that such
And when you say " that such a person ought to realize that he is the captain of his own ship and that his drunkenness is due to his own choices." Sure, ought to. But *ought to* and *does* are two different things, especially when someone is told every day that they are powerless and they have absolutely no control over their choices.
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Pennywise
Wed, 02/20/2013 - 19:59
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"especially when someone is
"especially when someone is told every day that they are powerless and they have absolutely no control over their choices."
By asserting that a relapser is not at fault, isn't that sort of conceding that he was in fact powerless?
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causeandeffect
Wed, 02/20/2013 - 20:08
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Where did I assert that the
Where did I assert that the relapser is not at fault? I'm looking at your post, not mine at the moment. But I do believe I said it was a choice. If not, I was remiss. I'm asserting no such thing. I believe powerlessness is an erroneous belief, not a fact. People merely act on their beliefs, wrong or right. But that doesn't make them facts. I think you've been spending way too much time in meetings.
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Pennywise
Wed, 02/20/2013 - 20:15
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No, you did not assert the
No, you did not assert the relapser was not at fault. But the article in the opening of this thread did. You have been consistent that alcoholism is a choice.
And why say that I'm spending too much time at meetings? Is that how you respond to someone who raises questions? That sounds almost like a stepper tactic, i.e., ridicule the person who raises an opposing viewpoint.
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causeandeffect
Wed, 02/20/2013 - 20:24
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Pennywise, I'm not trying to
Pennywise, I'm not trying to ridicule you. I realize that you're coerced to go to AA. I just think that if you're asserting that people are in fact powerless over alcohol, they have gotten inside your head. Just below, you pointed out to el oso that he made a choice, yet just above you asserted that people are "in fact" powerless.
All I'm saying is that repetitive statements can have a real impact on the way you think. I really think it's possible that it's effecting you. Is there any way you can cut back on the number of meetings you attend?
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Pennywise
Wed, 02/20/2013 - 20:39
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I think you misunderstood my
I think you misunderstood my point. Let me clarify:
I was not asserting that anyone is powerless over alcohol. What I was saying is that IF a person asserts that the relapser was not at fault, THEN it seems to follow that the person is conceding that the relapser was powerless over alcohol.
I made this point not show that the relapser is in fact powerless, but rather to show that the relapser was at fault. In other words, I don't believe a person can have power on one hand, but not be at fault on the other. That seem like a contradiction. Accordingly, I was asserting that the relapser was at fault and therefore EMPOWERED.
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causeandeffect
Thu, 02/21/2013 - 10:20
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Pennywise, I have to admit I
Pennywise, I have to admit I'm very confused about where you are coming from. In a past discussion, you staunchly argued for powerlessness and that people are hardwired to make the decisions that they make, and as such, have absolutely no choice in their behaviors. I don't believe that the original post's statement is an argument for powerless at all. What I see is a statement that people are not at fault that they were instilled with very faulty information that was either ineffectual to help them stop drinking, or information that was an actual hindrance to their stopping. Sometimes, all that people need is the right information behind their choices. People in general think that AA is the ultimate authority on alcoholism and what to do about it, and therefore believe what they hear in AA is true, even though it's often the exact opposite of what has been proven to be true. In other words, people acting on faulty beliefs will have faulty behaviors. And society is saturated with AA ideas. Say for instance, I move. I need to know when to put out my trash so I call the local sanitation department. They are the ultimate authority on this matter. They tell me that trash day is Tuesday when it's really Monday. I believe them and I put my trash out on Tuesday and it doesn't get picked up. Is it my fault? While I had the power to do something different, butI was acting on the only information I had and it was faulty. Sure I could have knocked on my neighbor's doors and asked them when trash day was, but why would I when I had gotten information from the ultimate authority? But there's also previously been a lengthy discussion about people having a propensity to act on their beliefs, which you denied.
However, I see that I need to dismiss myself from this discussion (as well as future similar discussions) because my input will again be dismissed as "liberal artistry" 101. : )
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causeandeffect
Thu, 02/21/2013 - 10:26
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But I will reiterate, I
But I will reiterate, I believe the article was saying that the person was not at fault that they were given faulty information and faulty treatment that's proven to not work, and part of that faulty information was that they were powerless over alcohol. And NOT that the person was not at fault because they were indeed powerless.
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Pennywise
Thu, 02/21/2013 - 10:35
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Nah, I won't dismiss you as a
Nah, I won't dismiss you as a liberal artist. I like talking about this stuff, and i value your input. Please don't think I'm being judgmental or dismissive of you. I would not bother if i felt that way. Anyway, there is certainly a tension between my argument here that we have choices and my argument in another thread where we are basically slaves to neurology. I'm not sure if that tension can be resolved, to be honest.
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Pennywise
Thu, 02/21/2013 - 10:53
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Let me ask you something. No
Let me ask you something. I never bought the powerlessness argument. Whenever I picked up again, I planned it out and said "screw it, I want to party still." Can you explain your thought process?
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Pennywise
Thu, 02/21/2013 - 12:44
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Actually scratch that. Your
Actually scratch that. Your points are granted.
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causeandeffect
Thu, 02/21/2013 - 13:31
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Oops.
Too late to scratch. How about a tickle? ; )
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Thu, 02/21/2013 - 13:14
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Well, Pennywise, that’s a
Well, Pennywise, that’s a really long story. To try to make it short, I was introduced to the powerless concept as a teenager when I was carted off to Alateen after my Mom was told my Father was a “functional” alcoholic, although I really didn’t like Alateen and eventually refused to go. I’m not entirely sure of my father being an alcoholic. I had only seen him once when he was possibly drunk and it was really late at night. He always drank after the family went to bed. So, while he did drink daily, he did have some element of control. I was also introduced to some of AA’s ideas in high school health class.
Years later a couple of my family members went to AA. It was predicted that I would have the family genetic disease. I really didn’t like drinking early on, though. It was just a social activity that gave me a headache and some nausea, even in small amounts.
Even later, during a really bad marriage I was convinced that there was something wrong with my reaction to my husband’s abuse even though he rarely drank, so I went to Alanon. I now see that my reaction was perfectly normal and healthy. I also see that their ideas did me quite a bit of harm and prolonged my suffering terribly. But with a couple stepper family members I was convinced I was codependent. As you can see, I had many years of the powerlessness concept.
Even later, a bunch of really bad shit started happening in very short order, both to me and especially to my loved ones. One of those really bad things ended up on America’s Most Wanted. What I really needed was grief counseling, but I CHOSE to drink instead. It was just quicker and easier. It was not a party for me at all. I just wanted to sleep and have dreams where none of this shit had happened. But after a short while I started to believe that I had that genetic family disease. I chose every drink I took, yes. And with a “fuck it anyway” attitude. However, I believed I was powerless to do otherwise. Eventually I was physically dependent and the daily physical withdrawals were awful, and I had to drink to feel normalish. I had no idea there was a “marketplace of ideas.” I had ALWAYS thought AA was the ONLY and ultimate authority on drinking but just didn’t want to go, as I had always hated it. However, I really tried to like it when I eventually went, because my family thought it was great, and I respected their opinions. Still, I was seeing some very unhealthy elements and my life experiences told me that some of this shit was just plain wrong.
I sincerely believe had I known there actually was a marketplace of viable alternatives, I would have quit long before I even became dependent in the first place…
And I do have to echo what seagal said. I relapsed until I found RR’s crash course. At the time, though, I was already quite indoctrinated and dismissed it as “not being the steps”. I now see that it was how I actually learned to abstain. It seems to tap into the way most people quit on their own.
I guess some people are just more gullible than others, and I used to be one of them. : (
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Pennywise
Thu, 02/21/2013 - 13:52
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I appriciate you sharing that
I appriciate you sharing that. Hindsight is always 20/20. There are things I was so sure of in my youth that absolutely disgust me now. I wonder how I could have believed some of those things. Indeed, to my great ignominy, I myself was once a liberal artist.
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causeandeffect
Thu, 02/21/2013 - 14:33
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Well, Pennywise, according to
Well, Pennywise, according to your definition, I'm still a liberal artist. Always have been, surely always will be. I find none of the shame or disgust in it that you do. However, I did leave out of my post many of the studies I've found done by liberal artists that show the wrong approach either has no effect on drinking or actually increases drinking and the likelihood of relapse.
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Pennywise
Thu, 02/21/2013 - 14:56
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Right on. I don't shame you
Right on. I don't shame you for liberal artistry. It's more of a personal thing.
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seagal007
Thu, 02/21/2013 - 02:57
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By asserting that a relapser is not at fault.
This is not saying that a relapser is powerless. To me this just says that the relapser was fed the misinformation of AA powerlessness. Without knowledge it is very difficult for a person to act or change. I was a relapser that felt powerless and doomed to a depressing alcoholic death untill I found a rational recovery book. That was the seed of knowledge I needed to change my thinking and stop my addiction. That seed of knowledge was all I needed to open my eyes and build a good healthy life using many resources that fit me.
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Pennywise
Thu, 02/21/2013 - 03:22
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Maybe I'm just splitting
Maybe I'm just splitting hairs here, Seagal. But can you understand why I might be taken aback by the article's statement that the relapser is not at fault when he gets bombed after completing treatment? To me, I interpreted that statement to mean that the author of the article was conceding or suggesting that the relapser was powerless. I mean, to say someone was not at fault seems to imply that the person was powerless to have done something else. You may disagree, but can you see why someone might reach the conclusion I did without being a brainwashed stepper as some here have suggested I am?
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seagal007
Thu, 02/21/2013 - 04:58
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@ Pennywise
I can understand your point. One part of the AA powerless brainwashing is that they have an incurable disease and its not their fault. Thinking about it I can see where you are coming from here. By the way I dont think you are a brainwashed stepper.
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seagal007
Thu, 02/21/2013 - 05:07
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@ Pennywise
I believe many who have escaped the cult are very touchy about blame and fault because AA taught us to blame and fault ourselves about so much.
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Pennywise
Thu, 02/21/2013 - 05:40
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I understand. That's one
I understand. That's one reason I distinguished fault from blame. I don't intentionally try to offend.
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seagal007
Thu, 02/21/2013 - 06:00
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Technically you are correct on fault
All my decisions to drink were mine and mine alone. I believe the heart of the meaning "Its not your fault" was to encourage a person to not give up and to explore other ways to stop addiction. According to AA its all your fault if you dont work their program right and relapse.
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Pennywise
Thu, 02/21/2013 - 07:17
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Thanks Seagal! That's all I
Thanks Seagal! That's all I was saying.
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Pennywise
Wed, 02/20/2013 - 19:55
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I don't deny that. All I'm
I don't deny that. All I'm saying is that no amount of brainwashing negates the idea that the person made a choice to drink and is thus objectively at fault for that choice.
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El Oso
Wed, 02/20/2013 - 20:05
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I had no real choice
I was powerless long before I met AA. Life without drink was a living death, a deep hole of despair, inadequacy, loneliness and despair. I could choose suffering, suicide or seek temporary relief with drink.
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Pennywise
Wed, 02/20/2013 - 20:08
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So you made a choice then, no
"I could choose suffering, suicide or seek temporary relief with drink."
So you made a choice then, no?
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El Oso
Wed, 02/20/2013 - 20:14
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Yes but ..........
its not much of a choice tho It seemed logical at the time
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Pennywise
Wed, 02/20/2013 - 20:25
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Makes sense. Most of us,
Makes sense. Most of us, myself included, drank destructively because for whatever reasons sobriety seemed miserable.
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seagal007
Thu, 02/21/2013 - 03:02
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@ El Oso
I felt exactly like you untill I realized that I was not powerless. The powerlessness thinking kept me in that black hole.
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Persephone In Exile
Fri, 02/22/2013 - 11:10
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While I don't have time to
While I don't have time to fully participate here, I would like to add one thought on this subject. It is my belief that many who self-medicated for trauma/abuse/anxiety issues are subjected to more of these issues by the processes in 12 step programs, and therefore are stuck in the cycle they were using/drinking over in the first place. The ideas of listing character defects, looking for "your part in it" and constantly reliving the worst part of your life can be traumatic for many people, especially if they were traumatized before. If they're still craving, furthermore, hearing constantly (and sharing) about drug use and drinking, while being told they have a disease that makes them powerless against these things (not to mention the whole "relapse is a part of recovery" schtick) can drive many to just go back to the self-medicating. With the excuse, no less, of having an inherent inability to control themselves.
I always did find these ideas incompatible, that one is powerless but must take full responsibility. It doesn't entirely fit (unless viewed in its original sense of notions of original sin and salvation, and how many delve that deep?).
I'm not saying this excuses people, but that 12 step meetings can be an exacerbating factor in chronic relapse, especially as the programs are frequently contradictory and confusing, especially to those who are trying to right their brains from having been twisted up quite a bit by substances. But viewing addiction from the POV of self-medicating instead of disease theory alone, it does make sense (at least to me) that 12 step programs are a causative factor in continued use/relapse.
Apologies for just jumping in there.
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seagal007
Fri, 02/22/2013 - 14:29
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Pie You described my experience
and reaction to AA. AA increased my PTSD and depression I changed from a daily drinker to a binge drinker while going to AA. I had to quit AA and do alot of deprograming to quit drinking and finally heal. Yes I used alcohol to self medicate and numb bad feelings and consiquently became addicted.
Understanding and Empowerment=Freedom
Persephone In Exile
Fri, 02/22/2013 - 20:21
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Thanks, Seagal.
I have been delving into this subject a bit more heavily lately, namely that 12 step programs keep people in a state of stasis based on the fear of their worst moment/fear of relapse. In this case, I think that backfires on quite a few. Under the wrong circumstances (past history, reasons for use, etc.) AA/NA can be a recipe for chronic relapse, or a static state of fear, IMHO. I couldn't break from it either when still having it be the focus of my life, my conversations, everyone else's conversations. Hell, for many, the period of active using/drinking is cause for trauma, or at least compounds the issue they're self-medicating. Why compound it further? Rather, why have the treatment be one size fits all when clearly many have a disastrous reaction?
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