What do they want?

I always hear the same people on here talking about picketing, protesting courthouses, speaking up in meetings and writing letters about the dangers of AA. So what do they want? A disclaimer printed into the AA literature? Armed guards in mtgs? Electing some poor AA sap to take the 13 step/fraud/murder/ embezzlement commitment? What do they want? The courts to stop mandating? What do they want? What will make it safe enough for these people?

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cindee33's picture

Hey massive, I give you credit for trying to get things changed. But there are so many groups, all I can see happening is groups hanging out together. Like rich people with rich people, or how they have special groups for police, and special groups for people in the medical field already, next I guess you would be interviewed like they did in the beginning to see where you belong, no cross discussions. I don't know maybe the whole steps should be changed, they were written in the 1930's and to basically say go to church, A.A. to stop using and drinking doesn't work so well anymore. I do appreciate what you are trying to do. Maybe this isn't the place to say this but my sister went to A.A. for years then got sick. I have 5 family members in AA. Anyway, the sister who has been hospitalized for over 2 years now, gets visits every week from her two A.A. friends non-stop even though her thinking isn't clear. I just appreciate that these people do this for her. One part of me so hates the way A.A. and N.A. are set up but I am eternally grateful for these women visiting her on their own volition. Maybe she was just lucky and made good friends in her A.A. I realize this is off-topic but I don't think I will be posting here anymore so power to all of you on your journey and massive I hope you do achieve the changes you are seeking to help A.A. progress in the future, if it lasts.
P.S. I didn't know this was a site for A.A. haters. I thought it was a site to discuss what can be done, or different experiences. Spending all your time hating anything isn't good for the "soul" either.

Clara's picture

Hi, Cindee. It is my experience that people can look around to see for themselves where they "fit." It makes sense from the standpoint of anonymity for some to have "special groups." My sponsor goes to a group in the courthouse that is closed to anyone but people that work there - people from the DA's Office, legislators, judges and the like attend that meeting. My husband is a hospital professional and there are groups that cater to nurses, doctors, and others. It was ironic to hear someone claim that medical people are tested randomly when my husband has never seen that in the 5 hospitals he has worked at... If that were so, the problems would be caught much sooner.

I don't mind changes to some things in AA, but the fashion is unprofessional at best.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

massive's picture

cindee33 - I understand about your sister. Im sorry she is so sick. I know friends from years ago that are superb people and they are still my friends. We aren't saying everyone in AA is bad. But I wont be doing much posting here either. Its gotten completely taken over by trolls. ANd this was an anti exposing site.

Take care.

Massive

becket's picture

Do you allow other posters to debate issues? Do you allow others to question your sources? By what criteria do you "judge" a "troll", massive?

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

Clara's picture

It's not safe? How is that, Massive? I think it is just because things don't go your way, you then jump up and scream that it isn't safe. I notice when one poster was abusing another, you sat back and didn't say a word. Others applauded the cleverness of his poetry. But it was alright due to who his target was, not that there was a problem with the behavior. You are a hypocrite at best, lass. Abuse is acceptable depending on which side of the AA line you sit on... That is one reason you come off as simply flakey.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

you consider my lyrics abuse? fer fks sake how thin is your skin? I've reread the posts, sounds like normal molluck poking discourse to me, I suppose someone who is so sensitive that 6 beers is a binge, would take it like that.
6 beer binge, ya bloody pretender.

Brett

becket's picture

Who would pay for the training, the workshops and background checks? You don't think AA would actually pay for it themselves, do you? This would also narrow the field for the person looking for a sponsor; s/he may not like the three "trained specialists" who are available.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

Clara's picture

We are not professionals and do not claim to be. One alcoholic helping another. I think it would help Massive to actually read the sponsorship pamphlet for a better idea as to what AA has in mind verses what she's experienced.

There actually are some groups that comport themselves with a steering committee, and they keep records as to who sponsor's whom, phone numbers and the like. Nothing she is suggesting is particularly new or hasn't been utilized in the past. The point is that there is no requirement for this. It is a group vote.

I am stil trying to find the areas and districts that have 20k laying around. The treasuries are usually cleared out at the end of the year

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

JR Harris's picture

Therefore of no value, we need Standard Operation Procedures (SOP) and a way to enforce them. AA does not provide that and should if they are going to go to jails and prisons looking for prospects.

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

JR Harris's picture

Non professionals have no place in going to jails and prisons in an attempt to hunt for prospects for the cult of Alcoholics Anonymous.

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

becket's picture

What sort of professional would satisfy you, to go into jails or hospitals? Would not any professional be suspect as well?

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

alkieanon's picture

Olly olly oxen free! Any prisoner can freely leave jails and prisons to attend Alcoholics Anonymous meetings if they so desire. Not!

massive's picture

West SIde LA District has 20 k.

Massive

brisbane australia, last I heard they had nearly 25 grand banked

Brett

I think most people want a valid and effective treatment for alcoholism/addiction. A religious cult with strange and contradictory dogma is not the answer. AA does not help people overcome their addiction any better than no treatment, therefore it is useless and often can be harmful to those seeking help. Don't addicts deserve better?

massive's picture

flannigan, yes they do deserve better. Hank Hayes book You've Been Lied to .... is excellent.

Massive

Ironic's picture

At the end of the day, the best thing to do is to avoid the cult of Steppism in all its forms.

If I can get some of clara's crab soup, some of what Patti is smoking, & a couple of stubbys (I'll need more than 6 though) of what Massives drinking. Who needs reality when you can live in the dizzyland this crew inhabits.
What do they want? I've no idea & they don't either.
What do they need? A bloody job--- A real one.

Brett

becket's picture

Brett, what is your obsession with employment all about? Did you father fail to support his family? What's the deal?

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

are the scourge of the earth. A.A is a breeding/training ground for these sort of diseased slackers. A bloody decent days work ud kill the average A.Aer.

Brett

becket's picture

How compassionate.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

do parasitic welfare grabbers deserve?

Brett

becket's picture

So everyone out of work is on welfare? Wake up. Wake the fuck up.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

A lot of the A.A fellowship just sponge & use other people, we used to have a troll called marietta who was big on that, she'd never worked a day in her life.

Brett

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becket's picture

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“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

sitting around being a diseased alcoholic, focusing on self, in a group that supports this thinking idiotcracy, bastards need a real job, in the real world, once they're half starved sweating away, shaking with it, they're working that hard, with their guts all knotted up wid the stress of it, won't be no "I'm an alcoholic"
I got a new slogan for ya IF YA CAN GO TO A MEETING,YA CAN GO TO WORK.
I tell ya if I was the boss of the show, I'd take their welfare handouts offa 'em, put 'em in a chain gang digging ditches, & flog 'em with a cat 'o' nine till their arms & legs got moving.
I bet when I knock 'em off for smoko (they get smoko, I'm not a slave driver fer fks sake) no one says lets have a meeting "I'm an alcoholic" be the furthest thing from their mind when I got thru wid 'em.
Thats how I got sober, head down & bum up, work hard, if in doubt work harder. Fk sitting around in meetings go get some oxygen in ya blood,fk sitting around being alcoholic, be a worker, go achieve somthing, go earn a living.

Brett

becket's picture

What do you tell qualified, sober, intelligent people who cannot find employment at this time?

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

you can get. If still can't get a job go work for charity, or just go clean up the local pk, eventually it will pay off & you'll end up with a real job. stop sitten around on ya ring bludgen & advoid A.A meetings is my advice to the unemployed.

Brett

becket's picture

Why do you think all people who are out of work are sitting on their asses? That's preposterous.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

your starting to twist my words, somthing you learned in A.A? It would be more correct to say I think people who frequent A.A meetings are unemployed (& unemployable) & sit on their arses all day.

Brett

becket's picture

I've asked almost a dozen questions on this blog, none of which massive or JR Harris or any other self-appointed guardian of the masses has chosen to address.

You're all weak and spiritless storefront advocates.

Yes, Brett, it would be smarter to say what you actually mean instead of just tossing out lyrical licks without a thought as to what they actually mean or how they will be perceived. Show me specifically where I supposedly "twisted" your words, Brett, and I will open the door to a whole new way for you to look at yourself.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

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