"The important thing is not how you define a Higher Power. The important thing is that you don't consider yourself to be your own Higher Power, because your own best thinking found your bottom for you."
I have three things to say about this oft-spouted AA mantra.
1. I always thought this type of comment strange. Even if AA uses the phrase "God, as we understand him", it doesn't change the fact that they are still talking about God. The reason it is not important how you define a higher power is because God is God, regardless of your understanding! The mental construct is irrelevant.
BUt I'm not sure that AA members really get this point. "God as you understand him" doesn't mean "just pick any object, concept or whimsy and call it God". So many AA members seem to think they can just use "God" to mean anything, like language has no meaning at all!
That's not to say they prescribe the Abrahamic God, it could be the THor or Zeus, but they ARE talking about a GOD!!! Why is this so difficult for them to understand????
2. Why do AAs tend to equate a lack of belief in a God/HP with thinking yourself to be your own Higher Power? I don't believe in God, but i certainly don't think of myself as a HP. I just believe that the one who stopped me drinking was me (strange as that is to believe). What a load of rubbish!!!!
3. It was not my best thinking that found my bottom for me. My best thinking got me a degree even though i spent more time in the bar that at lectures. What has trouble with the booze got to do with my best thinking? For the life of me, i cant comprehend why AA members woudl conclude my drinking to be a result of my best thinking! Why couldn't it have been my worst thinking, or no thinknig at all????
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becket
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 19:47
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I would say the way I view
I would say the way I view the world and my place in it is a synthesis or an alloy - it comes from Catholicism; it comes from the belief in every person's right to believe or not to believe; it comes from myth and duplicate myths that sprang up independent of one another across the globe. It even comes from Egyptian belief and Native American belief; it comes from the strength of Martin Luther and Martin Luther King. I understand only a little of Buddhism but I value the beliefs I'm familiar with. I draw from art - music, literature, painting, because this is where enduring, tangible examples of freedom come from. I have never thought of my thinking as Eastern per se; but by the time this is all over for me I can see myself leaning more heavily toward Eastern thought than the rigidity and the tyranny of organized Western religion.
As is sometimes said (and often mocked here), I take what I can use and leave the rest. It is the only way I can be true to myself.
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
Pennywise
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 19:59
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That cool. Thanks for typing
That cool. Thanks for typing that. By Eastern, I largely meant that you reject many notions of Western logic. You seem to accept and even embrace contradictions as existing in harmony. Bill Wilson said either God is OR He isn't, whereas you seem to say that God is AND He isn't, perhaps depending on the person.
"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."
becket
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 19:58
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Is this a yin/yang thing?
Is this a yin/yang thing? Your observations are pretty right-on, Pennywise.
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
Persephone In Exile
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 19:52
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C&E, her thinking is so black
C&E, her thinking is so black and white that she just opposes anything anyone else here advocates.
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becket
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 19:57
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Only the sophomoric stuff.
Only the sophomoric stuff.
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
Clara
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 19:59
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Then they can leave, BB.
Then they can leave, BB. There aren't bars on the doors. Even if you were a Christian, you may decide that AA isn't for you. Many newcomers are deperate, be they Christian, Atheist or Agnostic.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
patti
Fri, 05/11/2012 - 23:00
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how can God be a part of an
how can God be a part of an organization that defiantly states over & over that it is not religious?
patti
JR Harris
Fri, 05/11/2012 - 23:17
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How can God be a part of AA that says it isn't religious?
There is a simple answer to that question. They LIE. AA is not an honest organization, they are in deep denial of their main agenda, which is to sell literature for AAWS and promote Hazelden styled Rehabs. They are in it for the money and enlist free salesmen to claim that AA is a "miracle" if you "work it."
The only "miracle" is the multi-billion dollar Recovery Industry that AAWS has spawned which is causing this planet to go into a deep recession.
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becket
Fri, 05/11/2012 - 23:20
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People who despise AA and
People who despise AA and consider it a religious organization deposit a very narrow and indelible concept of God in the minds, hearts, mouths, brains, blood, behaviors and intentions of anyone and everyone who ever attended even one meeting. This is so they can belittle them at a later time.
An organization which is not organized and has no head can state over and over to no one that it is not religious, but those who attend meetings determine whether or when God is present. If an atheist walks in the door s/he may have a problem with this narrow and indelible concept of God if it is manifest in that way. Or an atheist can walk in, take the temp of the room and decide "fuck it - too much God stuff" and leave. Or a Catholic can enter with an Old Testament God in his briefcase, looking to trade him in on a more compassionate God. It's up to the individual whether or not God is present, not the "organization"
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
JR Harris
Fri, 05/11/2012 - 23:26
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I don't despise AA.
Only the fanatics that have taken it over.
http://www.aacultwatch.co.uk/
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becket
Fri, 05/11/2012 - 23:31
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Just how many songs are in
Just how many songs are in your repertoire, JR Harris? Did you get tired of belting the same tune over and over? So now you don't despise AA. How many people have attended AA since you've been aware of its existence? Would you say they are/were all fanatics?
I'd be interested to know what it is you approve of in AA.
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
Persephone In Exile
Sun, 05/13/2012 - 22:07
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It's not so much that they
It's not so much that they keep mentioning "God", it's the entire focus of the program itself that I find to be religious. Period. (I realize this comment is pointless as Becket is unlikely to digest it and respond in a manner that doesn't blame any and everyone who didn't take to "the program", but here goes anyway....). You cannot work "the program", even if you're not a believer, without putting your faith and trust (to control your own behavior, no less) in something outside of yourself. You can't get clean and sober without help in a higher power of some kind, even if it's "the universe", you have to surrender your will to something outside of yourself in order for that thing/being/whatever to restore you to "sanity". That may not be a focus of any of the major religions per se, however, it is religious. It's quite the definition of religion, really. It doesn't matter if you call it "God" or not.
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avogadno
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 20:03
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Perse, that would be a good,
Perse, that would be a good, honest lead for when AA is asked what it is and how recovery is approached. Instead of the Preamble, which gives a completely benign impression. I would have enjoyed going to meetings if that what is presented to society is what I found. Take God out. Take the HP out. No religious step work or "overtones" and perhaps some uplifting and reassuring exercises. A pamphlet for the religious would have been just fine, instead of a pamphlet for the agnostics. Chapter in the text, whatever.
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Persephone In Exile
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 20:15
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Well, I feel that some people
Well, I feel that some people can't see the forest for the trees when it comes to discussing whether or not xA is religious. Everyone focuses too much on comparing it to already established religions, which is a perfectly valid point and thing to do, but it ignores the fact that no matter which religion you're trying to compare the program to, it won't match up on most levels. It matches up, IMO, rather directly with the definition of religion itself. There's a central theme/something revered on the level of a godhead (sobriety), for which believers must be willing to sacrifice everything and "go to any lengths" to try and achieve. And the main point, members must put their faith in something outside of themselves, something mystical and not proven necessarily to exist. Unless, of course you pick a doorknob, which does actually exist in ways that can be measured, but can't be measured in terms of its ability to act as a person's "higher power" at all. (I'm not saying that to be offensive to anyone who does believe in the religion of their choosing, but it's just unlikely that anyone will ever be able to prove the existence of a deity.)
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alkieanon
Sun, 05/13/2012 - 21:09
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Personal Jesus, Not Organizational
Personal Jesus:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personal_Jesus#Inspiration
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personal_Jesus#Cover_versions
Previously posted:
http://www.orange-papers.org/forum/comment/24103#comment-24103
BB Kate
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 17:09
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Spiritual not religious
AA seems to differentiate itself as non-religious on the grounds that it is not affiliated with any religion. But religious affiliation is different to being "religious".
I actually find many AA members to be quite judgemental of religion. Frequently i have heard members say that AA is "spiritual not religious", with the sub-text that religion = bad, spirituality = good. I always found that distinction distasteful.
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becket
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 18:49
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Religion is dogma. A belief
Religion is dogma. A belief in God does not necessarily have its beginnings in dogma. Plenty of people believe in some kind of God/god without being subject to the tyranny of dogma.
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
gigi
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 19:14
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AA is dogma. A desire to get
AA is dogma. A desire to get sober does not necessarily have it's beginnings in dogma. Plenty of people want to get sober without being subject to the tyranny of dogma.
"If I forget who I am, I am myself. If I remember who I am, I am you."
becket
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 19:50
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You will get no argument from
You will get no argument from me. Is this a counterpoint of some kind?
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
gigi
Tue, 05/15/2012 - 08:55
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No counterpoint. I just
No counterpoint. I just liked the way AA was so easily replaced with religion.
"If I forget who I am, I am myself. If I remember who I am, I am you."
alkieanon
Fri, 05/11/2012 - 23:08
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God Lets Us Drink, Too
"Beer is proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy." (misquote)
"Behold the rain which descends from heaven upon our vineyards, there it enters the roots of the vines, to be changed into wine, a constant proof that God loves us, and loves to see us happy."
Sue
Fri, 05/11/2012 - 23:12
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Patti, They havent made up there mind's yet.
Dont forget; Leave your religion at the door. If you want to fit in and be a part of the group; it might be easier if you left your common sense too.
becket
Fri, 05/11/2012 - 23:23
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The haven't made up their
The haven't made up their mind's WHAT yet?
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
patti
Fri, 05/11/2012 - 23:16
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that's the truth, lol! BILL
that's the truth, lol! BILL washing & common sense can't co-exist & are not co-dependent.
patti
avogadno
Fri, 05/11/2012 - 23:19
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Beer is OK but take God out?
Beer is OK but take God out? No way!
"To keep us humble and laughing were developments like the Southern group started via mail through (was his last name Henry?) Anyway, he wrote us flowing reports about his group and its amazing recoveries of memb ers of his group. One of our traveling members stopped in for a visit and his letter to us was an eye opener indeed. It seems that this particular group was based on the theory that all alcoholic beverages were very bad for the alcoholic - except beer. This idea was carried out so thoroughly that beer was served at their A.A. meetings with copious readings of the A .A. book. Oh well - the beer itself soon cured that misconception."
~Ruth Hock’s Recollections (1955)
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Jesus-is-Fraud
Sat, 05/12/2012 - 23:12
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AA Beer!
Ummm Have an AA group that drinks sacramental wine - you know, gods program of recovery and drinking gods wine....
Hmmmmmm
avogadno
Sun, 05/13/2012 - 09:31
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The point is that AA.org has
The point is that AA.org has banned groups from the fellowship because they had removed the word God from the literature. However AA only smirked at the group that served beer during a meeting, allowing them to continue. More proof that AA is a religion and not a quit drinking program.
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alkieanon
Sun, 05/13/2012 - 21:01
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Local Yokels Did It, Not AA.org
Local yokels did It, not AA.org.
JR Harris
Sun, 05/13/2012 - 21:35
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AAWS & GSO/GSB do not govern, they protect
While per the literature AAWS and GSO/GSB do not govern, they protect those beneath them and do lash out if they do not believe that they are doing the correct policies and procedures. Cases in point the German and Mexican "Big Book" lawsuits that were not conference approved. Per AA stated policy:
Step 12 - Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
Tradition 3 - The only requirement for AA membership is a desire to stop drinking.
Due to the governing actions of the German and Mexican lawsuits (they also prevented the members they were suing from ever doing AA related activities again in the lawsuits) against the fellowship members that were following Step 12 and Tradition 3 they should have at least de-listed the Toronto Intergroup that took the actions against the Atheist/Agnostic groups to protect them. They made a legal precedent with those lawsuits.
Dig Deeper before answering, are you Al-Anon, CODA or NAMI?
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alkieanon
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 06:11
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Diverting The Argument
JR Harris says: "... German and Mexican lawsuits ..." And that has anything to do with the current discussion about local decisions and actions? Oh yeah, that's right. Nothing!
Divert Deeper.
JR Harris says: "They made a legal precedent with those lawsuits." Let's hear the spin on that.
avogadno
Sun, 05/13/2012 - 21:59
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They were removed from the
They were removed from the meeting list on the AA.org website because they dissproved of taking God out of the literature.
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Clara
Sun, 05/13/2012 - 21:05
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Where was beer served, Avo?
Where was beer served, Avo?
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
Clara
Sun, 05/13/2012 - 21:11
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Avo, what is being described
Avo, what is being described to me in the site I found about early groups that served beer is that they knew about HARM before Harm Reduction or SMART ever existed. AA leads the way again! And I doubt in those days, anyone would have considered taking God out of the literature.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
avogadno
Sun, 05/13/2012 - 21:57
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Lets here it for AA!! puke.
Lets here it for AA!!
puke.
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avogadno
Sun, 05/13/2012 - 22:01
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They also laughed their asses
They also laughed their asses off at the failures. This doesn't sound like a HARM reduction group.
It sounds like an AA group that decided to play God despite the warnings of Bill Wilson.
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Clara
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 17:36
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They were certainly doing
They were certainly doing things that fly in the face of AA, but, hey, they were keeping someone alive for another day as well and stepping down from harder stuff. How does what were they doing differ much in theory from the wet house idea? I remember hearing stories about how old time AAs would have bourbon and honey in their trunks to help people detox.
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avogadno
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 20:17
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I didn't say what they were
I didn't say what they were doing was wrong. I was noting that by allowing it to continue, AA approved of it. They did not approve of removing God from the opening literature/readings. AA is definitely abstinent based and they are also God based. By not objecting to alcohol consumption during a meeting where a fellow might come alone to find support in abstinence is telling. It shows me that they are more interested in preserving the religious component.
The Bourbon and honey supply for detox was probably wise. I always used to keep a supply of lower grade opiates around in case I started to get sick.
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Brett
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 03:51
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clara leads the way
A.A practicing harm reduction? is that what your doing with ya soup?
6 bloody beer binge, bugger off pretender & get a real job.
Brett
Clara
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 17:37
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Sounds a bit like it to me,
Sounds a bit like it to me, Brett!
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
BB Kate
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 17:40
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The sacramental wine issue is
Teh sacramental wine issue is interesting.
Some catholic members focus on whether they have busted if they drink sacramental wine. But surely the bigger issue is whether or not they went on a allergy-induced drinking rampage!
Ripping the Big Book a new one, One Day at a Time
Clara
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 17:39
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I know both Catholics that
I know both Catholics that put the wine to their lips and others that take it. We Methodists use grape juice so that has never been a concern for me. but, again, it is their issue to deal with... so perhaps it is a non-issue.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
BB Kate
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 17:41
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Not a non-issue if...
Its not a non-issue if AA teaches that a drink will trigger an "allergy" whereby the alcoholic can't stop, when there are clearly alcoholics who drink sacramental wine, LLB etc and don't have this reaction.
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becket
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 18:41
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A true Catholic believes in
A true Catholic believes in transubstantiation. That is the literal changing of the wine into the blood of Christ. To a genuine Catholic it is not symbolic. When a Catholic of this stripe partakes from the chalice, s/he is not drinking wine. S/he is drinking the blood of Christ. If you apply the placebo effect to that, and you understand that they sincerely do not believe they're drinking an alcoholic beverage, you will not see an alcoholic Catholic of this type being "triggered into a drunken frenzy". For any Catholic receiving the "blood of Christ" who is alcoholic and does not believe in transubstantiation, I feel it is a danger unnecessarily solicited.
The sharing of the chalice is way post Vatican II and, in my opinion as a Catholic, it is unsanitary and extraneous, particularly in view of the fact the the Eucharist is already offered and accepted.
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
Persephone In Exile
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 18:50
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Well, for once Becket said
Well, for once Becket said something I was going to say. Then I notice she goes right back to the annoying gnat method of posting.
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Pennywise
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 18:58
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The easy way to test that
The easy way to test that would be to do an alcohol test on someone's blood shortly after the person takes communion.
"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."
live_free_or_die
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 19:00
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Naw, do a blood test
What was christ's blood type?
Perhaps a DNA test.
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becket
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 19:24
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What would you be testing for
What would you be testing for? BAC? What would a concrete fact have to do with belief and susceptibility?
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
live_free_or_die
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 19:41
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blood type becket
If you had christ's blood type then the liquid consumed in communion could be tested to see if it really is His blood, or the holy spirit or that other guy/person/thing.
Bettet yet, if you had the cloth that was used to wipe His face as he struggled with His deathcross then the cloth could be tested against the blood for a DNA match and...........jesus becket, I was kidding.
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becket
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 19:52
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Have you not heard of the
Have you not heard of the Shroud of Turin?
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
live_free_or_die
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 19:59
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The Shroud of Turin?
Nope. Please school me.
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