Personal Family Matters

A few months back I made the mistake of revealing on craigslist forums that my son is bisexual.
Since that time another poster on craigslist has been mimicking my handle and posting all kinds of nasty homophobic remarks about my son and I.
This is a sensitive subject for the entire family because, a few years back my son was so confused about his sexuality that he chose to try to commit suicide. It was a very serious suicide attempt. At the time the whole family gathered in support and let him know that his sexuality was his choice, and that no one was going to hate him for the choices that he has made.
Today Clara has chosen to go to another forum and accuse me of saying things about my son that I've never said. She has gone on further to make the same allegations posting on this forum.

I consider this a personal attack against my son and my family.

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Clara's picture

Gunthar, I am sure that you delighted in creating the forum this morning but now it is something that has gone awry. I never brought your son into anything. Never even knew you had one until today. I didn't post those posts - you did - and I hadn't read them.

I think our families are off limits. I think our facebooks and personal photos are, too. I think even our public records are... not that I ever denied numerous arrests and DUIs. This "gotcha" game on OPF, which even includes all the Danny references, should just stop - for everyone. Why do we need to have links to go best someone at a site? If we think Danny is blogging on a site, so what? He eventually trips himself up and gets booted, so why does it have to take over the board? Why is there such a need to feel like we know something about someone else? None of it is necessary.

Why can't everyone just post what they want to?

I propose that we stop it. Orange doesn't have criteria, but the just person cannot be made to be unjust.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

Gunthar2000's picture

My family is off limits to you.
If you are having trouble with others on this forum then that's not my problem.

AA is a religious cult dressed up to look like a treatment for alcoholism.

Gunthar2000

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Clara's picture

I don't have a problem with that. I never blogged about your family, Gunthar.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

Gunthar2000's picture

You followed me to two other forums, gathered some falsified information, and then you brought it back here.

This is the kind of bullshit hypocrisy that drove me away from AA. You motherfuckers run around telling everyone how fucking serene you supposedly are when it's all a bunch of lies.

AA is a religious cult dressed up to look like a treatment for alcoholism.

Gunthar2000

http://www.expaa.org/

LisaMarie's picture

Gunthar, YOU, did this to yourself. Screaming out loud while protesting is not going to change this.

Gunthar2000's picture

You are one of the most disturbed individuals I've ever come across in my entire life.

AA is a religious cult dressed up to look like a treatment for alcoholism.

Gunthar2000

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becket's picture

Not such a joyride when the target is you or someone you love, is it Gunther? Here's hoping you learn something from it.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

Gunthar2000's picture

AA members will stoop to any level to protect their religious cult.

AA is a religious cult dressed up to look like a treatment for alcoholism.

Gunthar2000

http://www.expaa.org/

LisaMarie's picture

Obviously not as low as you have shown us today.

becket's picture

"AA members will stoop to any level to protect their religious cult."

I'm not an AA member, but I will say this all looks like inflated bullshit to me. Why not take it off the air and hash it out?

By the way, Gunder, you are doing a fair job of stooping in order to have the last word and to control the posts coming in. You're no different than any other human being, cult or not.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

Clara's picture

Absolutely untrue, Gunthar. I am not the one that started the forum on Clara this morning. I didn't follow YOU to RFR. Avo invited us there through her link. I DID read your call to arms there as did others. I only went there when you disputed you had posted it. As a moderator, you can delets posts, and you are a moderator at RFR.com.

You are just angry that it didn't have whatever effect you desired. What did you want, Gunthar?

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

Gunthar2000's picture

I'm sitting here talking to all of my friends, and we are all having a terrific laugh at your expense.
It has been my pleasure to sit here and watch you backpedaling and chasing your tail all day long.

AA is a religious cult dressed up to look like a treatment for alcoholism.

Gunthar2000

http://www.expaa.org/

Clara's picture

You haven't been laughing, Gunthar. You've been angry as hell and there is no one to point to but you.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

btnben's picture

I've been talking to Gunthar for nearly 4 hours and we've been laughing our heads off at your madness. You are a fool, but at least you are our fool (Don't try that Danny - "are" and "our" together may cause some internal injuries...lol)

God damn it, get me a whiskey

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Clara's picture

I know you were, Ben. Just you. Chatting is a forum that I never got into, RFR.com or no... In any case, Gunthar has been steaming mad, not laughing. There really hasn't been anything for anyone to "laugh"' their heads off, especially what he wants to term as an attack on his family, surely not for four hours. That's an angry guy.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

Gunthar2000's picture

AA is a religious cult dressed up to look like a treatment for alcoholism.

Gunthar2000

http://www.expaa.org/

LisaMarie's picture

Some one I know has a pic of Gunthar and this pic of you btnben, explains everything we need to know about you. As far as laughing all day or for four hours. i sincerely doubt that Gunthar. Your profanity is your "finger print" when you are angry.
Hey, if I had as much mud on my face as you Gunthar, I would be doing a Michael Jackson moonwalk in swift motion myself.
You two slobs are pathetic.

causeandeffect's picture

That's "you're," danny, not "your." Fornits idiot strikes again.

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becket's picture

Why don't you and your shorts buddy Conan go on back to whatever grimy town you live in and set your sights on shoving the recoveryvsrecovery peeps around again. You belong where people don't realize what shams you are.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

live_free_or_die's picture

The judge is attempting to mandate who says what on the OPF, again.

The judge was banned as marietta davis and came back as the judge. Sham!

The judge continues the charade that he is a woman. Sham!

The judge has admitted here on this forum that the 12 steps are not keeping him sober. He has also admitted that structure and discipline got him sober, not god. AA/12 steps is the sham.

And Behold He Will Come That Talks As A Woman Yet Is Not A Woman.
A Revelation

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massive's picture

Gunthar- I am so sorry this happened. They are pussy's. If they had to write their real names on the internet they wouldn't write this stuff.

WRite to Orange and give him this link and ask him to ban them and delete these posts. It may take him a few days but he will do it.

They arent worth fighting with. I did it when they were attacking Ironic a while back and making fun of someone else ...and it was a good mistake cause after that someone started a new troll free forum. F####k em.

Massive

Clara's picture

Shouldn't that be properly spelled? Ben would had your head that you couldn't spell your insult correctly!

I agree that it shouldn't have happened, Massive. Gunthar never should have linked the craigslist site at RFR.com, looking for reinforcements nor should he have brought it over here.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

LisaMarie's picture

Clara, we know you never brought up his son. Gunthar is playing to the crowd now. He is going to take this lie and play it out, he wants to see how much power he can gain from it. Screw em, Clara.
This guy is one scary dude, just read the comments he posts. He goes on sites where the members can not stand him, and instigates fights. He posts comments that are so disgusting, I can't believe it. He doesn't even have the balls to own them.
Wholly "Banny Danny" Batman, this sounds like the guy they call, Danny. I am beginning to believe, Gunthar, is "mimicking" Danny.
The new excuse from the anti's....There "mimicking me"....

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dolson's picture

Ah clarietta! I just dropped in, only to see you are still living on the forum boards. You just can't stop flooding and carping, as always. Putting your usual drivel aside, you still love to coddle criminals, and apologize for your beloved death cult. I see you are putting your make believe master's degree in justice to good use.

Keep on posting. You belong here.

Go ahead, enjoy yourselves - it's getting late, much later than you think.

becket's picture

Gunthar 0: do you contend that "sexuality is a CHOICE"?

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

Gunthar2000's picture

It's a choice we all make. The decision is up to us as individuals.

AA is a religious cult dressed up to look like a treatment for alcoholism.

Gunthar2000

http://www.expaa.org/

becket's picture

Do you actually know any strictly gay people? I think we all have some measure of bisexuality in us, but there are millions of degrees of it and it manifests differently from person to person. But strictly gay is a something entirely different. And you are saying that every gay man and every lesbian chooses his/her sexuality, that they are not hardwired from birth?

I disagree.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

Gunthar2000's picture

It's a choice that we all make.
There is nothing wrong with choosing one way or the other.

AA is a religious cult dressed up to look like a treatment for alcoholism.

Gunthar2000

http://www.expaa.org/

Pennywise's picture

I think we all have some measure of bisexuality in us

I believe this is true of women, but not men.

"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."

becket's picture

That makes men too fearful and dick-driven to admit it, but I think it's true.

I don't believe it's a choice for all. I think it is less of a choice for men than women. I think some women get sick and tired of the bullshit men put out and find compatibility and deep love and safety and honesty with a partner of the same sex. Some men find the same with a same sex partner, but I think for different reasons, and I also believe there are many men who are simply more xx than xy, but are born in xy bodies.

All theory, but I do agree that whatever the reason, it's not cause for a ruckus. It's no one's business but the person living that life.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

Pennywise's picture

Guys typically find other guys sexually disgusting on a visceral level in a way that women do not view other women.

"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."

becket's picture

"Guys typically find other guys sexually disgusting on a visceral level in a way that women do not view other women."

This is true of hetero men, and sometimes true of gay men; but gay men have their preferences, just like hetero men do. I believe the number of gay men just in this country is minimized. How women view other women is immaterial, an apples and oranges comparison.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

live_free_or_die's picture

The judge opines once again.

Where did you study human sexuality judge? Ass a man, what do you know about it?

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LisaMarie's picture

It is not a choice for just about all gay people, WTF. This conversation has just digressed into total ignorance.

Gunthar2000's picture

Some people have typical families with husband and wife, and later go on to discover that they prefer something else. Either way... It's a choice that's nobody's business but the person making the choice.
I'm sure that there are people out there who live in the closet as to their preference... That is also a choice.

AA is a religious cult dressed up to look like a treatment for alcoholism.

Gunthar2000

http://www.expaa.org/

becket's picture

Yes, but that calls for life experience. How do you explain the gay person who has known since he was 7 or 10 or 13 years of age?

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

DeConstructor's picture

I think it is another reminder that the steptards must not get ahold of personal information.

They will use it against you, and stalk you with it at all opportunities.

Clara's picture

What is ironic, DeCon, is it all started with a little lie that he never linked that site to RFR.com.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

LisaMarie's picture

Oh, this is rich. Coming from a guy that combs every nook and cranny looking for personal information on every pro aa person he meets.
I have already heard about your behavior on many sites.
DeCon, the reminder is, you and your buddies will go to any length to hurt, sabotage, fabricate stories and disparage any one who gets in your way.
DeCon, you are the person, you talk about on this site. Face it, you are a contradiction.

alkieanon's picture

So that's where the two millions hits come from ... craigslist. Mind sharing where?
http://www.craigslist.org/about/sites

JR Harris's picture

I am not to sure what Bill thinks about Internet Stalking and if Sunrise Detox can help with it or not, but he has noted the Chinese boot camps that have been made to stop it. They could be the solution to the Danny B and Clara/cribbisque alliance......

Chinese boot camps tackle Internet addiction

Posted on June 24, 2008 by Bill

Chinese boot camps tackle Internet addiction – International Herald Tribune

BEIJING: Combining sympathy with discipline, a military-style boot camp near Beijing is at the front line of China’s battle against Internet addiction, a disorder afflicting millions of the nation’s youth.

The Internet Addiction Treatment Center in Daxing County uses a blend of therapy and military drills to treat the children of China’s nouveau riche addicted to online games, Internet pornography, cybersex and chats.

Read it all at: http://whatmesober.com/2008/06/24/chinese-boot-camps-tackle-internet-add...

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alkieanon's picture

http://www.nytimes.com/2007/03/12/technology/12iht-addicts.4880894.html

The money quote:
"Therapy includes patients simulating war games with laser guns."

JR Harris's picture

Danny B was a patient at Elan until be became "staff" and really turned up the physical and psychological abuse and took out his narcissistic tendencies on the teens put in the camp. If Danny B and the new Clara alliance were to go to China for Internet Stalking Rehab and they became councilors, they could start an International incident!

Holy doorknob alkienaon! Do you think they should be warned?

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alkieanon's picture

Nope. The drill sergeants won't let the kids touch the keyboards.

Maybe monkeys on the staff. Or is it a case of SLICC. Just for you, JR Harris, knob polisher and number cruncher.

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JR Harris's picture

You think that is bad, you should see the post by Trace Koonan in the New York Post, that nut job takes pleasure in stalking people on the web that are having trouble with their families or divorce, just like that Clara Moorman and cribbisque...... Strange they all have the same agenda, to disrupt and cause pain to the people having problems.

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Clara's picture

Being called a stalker by you is a privilege, JR. Why don't you bring some of those here? We can start calling OPF The Clara Papers.

You actually started it a long time ago, pal.

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JR Harris's picture

I post only under my own name Clara, why do you feel it necessary to have so many different accounts and screen names Clara? You are almost as prolific with fake accounts as your new sidekick and mentor and fellow stalker Danny B. of Elan School Fame.

Why are you hiding under all of those different names and continually tying to get in the middle of family disputes Clara? Your actions seem very narcissistic.... What are you hiding?

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