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Ironic's picture

That's what we all did. We didn't like it, so we left.

Now I suggest you do the same thing with this forum. It's for people that have left AA or are considering leaving, and while I know none of the things mentioned on this site ever happened in YOUR meeting, we have got quite a few members, so I think the chance that we are all fabricating our stories is pretty low.

Ironic's picture

You just wrote a blog post about how great AA is and how it "really works" so why would you need an alternative? Won't that sent you right into jailsinstitutionsanddeath??

Ironic's picture

"If you don't like or feel it doesn't work for you then find something that fits you. It's that simple. People be on all on a cult trip and hating. You all is twisted brothers and sisters. People in A.A. come and go, and believe me, THEY COME AND GO. The darm thing almost has a revolving door at each meeting place. But equally so, like I've said before, it can and does work; if you do the work. If it's not for you fine, go somewhere else; life is often simpler than we make it."

That is the text from your #5. Where does it say that you are looking for a better fit for yourself and/or haven't "kept [your] sobriety?" I just read it again and copy and pasted it and still don't see where you said that.

JR Harris's picture

L. Ron Hubbard is dead also and Scientology is a cult, but Hubbard is still the leader. As for being a Religious organization I would suggest you take that up with the Alcoholics Anonymous World Services at the Interchurch Center on 475 Riverside Drive on any Friday when they have an open AA chanting ritual at 11am closed by the Lords Prayer. You are correct that Alcoholics Anonymous is a heavily recommended cult of the US Judiciary system and AA regularly goes on "canned hunt" prospect hunting trips to jails and prisons to bring their prey back to residential areas to perform weird chanting rituals in church basements and lower housing values. The people that run the evangelistic AA circuit speaker route that pushes AA are often the original prospects recruited from jails and prisons, please listen to your AA speaker tapes to verify this, they usually admit it.

P.S. When AA tells you to "leave your brain at the door", please don't forget to pick it up on your way back out, most Steppers do.

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

Ah FTF,
you are completely zombied up. Your ability to comprehend is gone. Your ability to think critically is gone. You are completely Bill Washed! Bummer for you.

patti

Clara's picture

No, Hubbard dropped his meat body and is on a planet somewhere else in the galaxy. So they believe he is still alive, just not here on earth.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

Many AA's believe AA was divinely inspired through Bill Wilson, very similar.

Clara's picture

I don't know if Hubbard's followers believe he was divinely insired, but I guess it can also depend on your "divine" and what you believe that is. I do believe that AA was divinely inspired because all it is is a compliation of the good things I have found in other religions all over the world. To me, it has very little to do with Bill Wilson, really.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

JR Harris's picture

For an introductory course in the cult of Scientology as opposed to the cult of Alcoholics Anonymous please report in person to:

Church of Scientology of El Paso
1120 N. El Paso St.
El Paso, TX 79902
Tel: 760-745-8008

Plus remember, Scientology doesn't try and tell you it's NOT a religion, unlike the cult of Alcoholics Anonymous.

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

Clara's picture

But, FTF, hate is all they have and the hate they have for AA transfers to anyone that found AA to be anything helpful, even if the room was just a place to hang out with some sober people verses a bar.

Spend some time here and eventually they will even hate you for having your positive attitude and the life it brings you. AA is also about that - attitude change. How simple is that but how difficult for some of them to get. It also makes some sense when you remember that they are sick people and that many here still use. This forum isn't about recovery. This forum is also populated by some people that found their way on the wrong end of Danny B's stick so they are against all rehab, people that find relief in programs, or that just came to love life and what a sober one gave them. While they can preach how dangerous AA is with its predators, dogma and gurus, OPF is the same way and also serves the same purpose. It is a support meeting for people that found AA unsuccessful for them, rehabs that did nothing for them but take their money at family expense, and broken men who lost wives and girlfriends. I never understood why they didn't hate their addictions as much because that is where it all started.

The only difference is that Orange is thankfully not Bill Wilson. But it helps to look at them as the sick people they are and give them compassion as AA suggests. Then you can understand the hate and vindictiveness. Clancy is a smart soul.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

live_free_or_die's picture

Another convicted rapist sentenced to AA
http://www.medhelp.org/user_journals/show/351529/Another-convicted-rapis...

Man sentenced for rape committed in 1984
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/17634482/ns/health-mental_health/t/man-sente...

Women who pleaded insanity set free
http://news.usti.net/home/news/cn/?/world.law/1/wed/be/Uus-woodry.Rwzx_F...

Girl kept detailed diary of rapes by mother's boyfriend
http://www.gmanetwork.com/news/story/75915/news/world/girl-kept-detailed...

Hershey man chooses probation
http://www.northplattebulletin.com/index.asp?show=news&action=readStory&...

An ex-con enrolled in the state’s intensive supervision program (ISP) who was arrested March 7 on drug and weapons charges
http://www.nj.com/cumberland/index.ssf/2012/03/officer_visited_vineland_...

Police: Man pulled gun at church AA meeting, charged with assault
http://www.wfmz.com/news/news-regional-southeasternpa/Police-Man-pulled-...

Lewiston man set to plead guilty to manslaughter in clock death
http://www.sunjournal.com/news/lewiston-auburn/2012/05/23/lewiston-man-s...

Red flags missed
http://www.staradvertiser.com/news/20101107_Red_flags_missed.html?id=106

2-year probation sentence for Mark Dickenson in menacing case
http://www.journal-advocate.com/sterling-local_news/ci_20587520/2-year-p...

Wilker sentenced to 8 years
http://www.westbranchtimes.com/article.php?id=8135

Woodbury Man Given 20 Days In Jail For Threatening to Kill Local Restaurant Manager
http://woodbury.patch.com/articles/woodbury-man-given-20-days-in-jail-fo...

Man indicted for stealing from senior he met at support group
http://www.sanduskyregister.com/port-clinton/news/2012/jan/20/man-indict...

'Risky' child rapist released from jail
http://www.mako.org.au/dexter_williams.html

Two dramatic U-turns for John Kalisz, accused in deadly Hernando County shooting rampage
http://www.tampabay.com/news/publicsafety/crime/two-dramatic-u-turns-for...

Woman Shot in the Head After Fight Spills Out of AA Meeting
http://www.thefix.com/content/woman-shot-head-after-fight-breaks-out-aa-...

'Thelma & Louise' suspect was poster child to Alcoholics Anonymous group
http://www.nydailynews.com/news/crime/thelma-louise-suspect-poster-child...

Rapist Sentenced to 65-Year Term for Assaults on 17 Victims
http://articles.latimes.com/1986-07-26/news/mn-47_1_serial-rapes

Man sentenced to life for '07 rape, murder
http://www.heraldsun.com/view/full_story/6722292/article-Man-sentenced-t...

Man Kills 87 year old Alcoholics Anonymous Female Sponsor
http://www.trentonian.ca/2012/07/03/parent-guilty-of-manslaughter

Suspected car thief goes on wild rampage
http://www.utsandiego.com/news/2012/jun/28/car-thief-goes-on-wild-rampage/

Swimmer charged in sexual assault gets felony conviction
http://www.pleasantonweekly.com/story.php?story_id=8305

Alcoholics Anonymous: MyNotGodHasItCovered®
http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/

over the hills and everywhere go tell it on the mountain that Alcoholics Anonymous is dead!!!

Anthro

becket's picture

If AA were dead this forum would be dead. Get real.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

live_free_or_die's picture

Misty Mountain Hop. Fool in the Rain and Ramble On.

Listen up!

Alcoholics Anonymous: MyNotGodHasItCovered®
http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/

Clara,
how is FTF just another AA member who flunked the steps one with a positive attitude? Do you think FTF is drunk & needs your help?

patti

Persephone In Exile's picture

FTF, with all due respect, you have come to this board in a time of rather intense trolling here. People were rather on edge, and a particularly abusive troll had just been banned. There used to be quite a bit more positive commenting and discussions of what worked on this board, actually. Quite a few people have left here for good, and others simply no longer want to share too much here because everything that is posted here is promptly attacked by a few people who do claim to be AAs "in recovery", but exhibit the very behavior you are discussing by spending hours and hours a day on a web forum solely to attack other people they've never met. In fact, they occasionally get banned and simply come back to spew more hate at people here. If that isn't the "dry drunk" syndrome you're describing, then I'm not sure what is.

Gunthar2000's picture

You are just another passive aggressive, gas lighting AA troll.

AA is a religious cult dressed up to look like a treatment for alcoholism.

Gunthar2000

http://www.expaa.org/

Persephone In Exile's picture

Oh, yes. I do see how you would come to that conclusion about the forum, though I will not comment on Orange's work here. I think most people who still post here came to the very same conclusion, though for very different reasons.

Clara's picture

It's an intresting environment. When I first got here, there was a better mix of objectivity. now it is becoming a forum of people that don't have lives if they post here. It is interesting that a regular posters that posts often does so from AA meetings and the blog helps him get through. Another can post hwile she's at a gym, and others can post as often as any AA, yet these people somehow "have lives" while the AA post so often ... because they don't! Now, that is humorous.

OP is a body of work that is critical toward recovery in general, but Orange does have problems with AA. OPF often had other topics that posters would introduce and discuss as well. I've gotten a lot of help, especially when my dog was on medical marijuana.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

Clara's picture

Yes. Shortly after we moved tot he southwest, we discovered out dog had brain cancer. MMJ is supposedly a help for cancer, particularly brain tumors. While we eventually had to put him down, I believe that it did help Spike. Surely as much or more than the traditional (acceptable) methods. When he was on those, he could barely walk, he was so sedated. It's changed my opinion on that subject, so even though one poster would think that I just focus on anecdotal evidence, it can be enough for me. The pain of that dog's death is with me daily, but there weren't the options I would have wanted to investigate down here. In fact, the closest place for gammaknife surgery is San Diego, and it can start at 10k. Unfortunaty, the animal hospital we entrusted with his care dallied around with false diagnosis (I knew he had brain cancer as I had a previous do succumb to the same thing) until my dog was too fragile to try anything else. Animal care often is no better than human care when it comes to being willing to walk away from a paying client.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

Gunthar2000's picture

Did you use your own personal stash?

AA is a religious cult dressed up to look like a treatment for alcoholism.

Gunthar2000

http://www.expaa.org/

avogadno's picture

Your synopsis of the Orange Papers is from a biased pov, one that is generated by your interpretations of what other people "might" be thinking or doing. Who cares? Right or wrong, it isn't about individuals. It's the religious org of alcoholics anonymous and the mass of members that represent it. When you can't argue the facts, you pick on the messenger. Seems that many AA apologists resort to this in their attempt to protect their beloved AA from proper representation. Regardless, the truth is being told. People will hear it.

Pro Empowerment!
Truth about AA: http://orange-papers.org/menu1.html
Expose AA: http://www.expaa.org/

Clara's picture

That isn't true, Avo. It's based on what they themselves decide to post.

As for AA or anything else, they will work for some, not for others and I don't think any are going anywhere.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

Just my opinion but I think people stop abusing alcohol when they get tired of hurting themselves. May be just that simple. Now if that simple program keeps you sober, then why do you stop working it? You say; when you work it; "works if you work it" you stay sober. To me this means that you give the program all the credit for your sobriety. OK!! I understand because while in AA; I never heard anyone take the credit for their sobriety.

How do you explain someone who is considered to be working a good program and then goes out on a binge. All of a sudden their not working a good program? I think they just decided that they wanted to drink and something their doing is not working; causing them to hurt themselves. Especially, if in spite of feeling guilty they drink to excess. Frankly, the only conclusion I could ever come to is; only those who are sober are considered to be working a good program. Also, time abstinent appeared to be a factor when measuring the quality of your program. I met some questionable individuals with long time sobriety in AA. I knew that I didnt want what they had. What do you consider working a good program?? Is it really a simple program or very complex. Common sense led me to believe that it was not a simple program and I stopped considering that i may be one of the unfortunates.

Clara's picture

It's a simple program that people complicate, Sue. If you want it and are willing to give it a try with Honesty, Openmindedness and Willingness, yes, it can work. Not everyone in AA had something I wanted and I took inventory. I stayed away from those that didn't.

Astinence is wonderful, but that doesn't mean that alcohol was the only problem that a person had. As with society as a whole, you can have peope that don't drink but that are personality disordered, which has its own problems. I meet alot of people that think they are well but who behave irrationally. to others, they look irrationa but to them, since it is an improvement, it constitutes a certain leve of wellness. Some people don't get well, but they do continue to improve and get "better."

Again, if a person doesn't want to be there, AA doesn't make you nor does the organization especially want them there. If someone is mandated to go and doesn't want to, tet he PO to just lock you up. Don't do the crime if you don't like the sentencing options. But that is another discussion.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

JR Harris's picture

Alcoholics Anonymous is nothing but a cult that managed to weave its way into the US judiciary system in 1942 after the Oxford Group had been kicked out of most churches because of its direct cult like tactics. Most people end up in the cult of Alcoholics Anonymous because they are fear mongered into believing that if they don't chant Bill Wilson and hunt for prospects to join the cult they will end up in jails, institutions or death.

Bill Wilson was fanatical over his recruitment tactics and even tracked its growth on "A map showing the growth of AA meetings between 1935 and 1942", proudly displayed at the Stepping Stones Compound in Bedford Hills, New York. http://www.steppingstones.org/archives.html

So much for "attraction, not promotion" of the cult that Bill Wilson built military style in his wolfs lair called "Wit's End" on the grounds on the Stepping Stones Compound. http://www.steppingstones.org/witsend.html

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

"It's a simple program that people complicate, Sue. If you want it and are willing to give it a try with Honesty, Openmindedness and Willingness, yes, it can work."

First of all, I respectfully disagree with that statement you made. I think it could be simple but AA complicates it and confuses people about themselves, their character and ability to make decision. IMO it boils down to whats right/wrong, moral, kindness,compassion and honesty etc. Ive seen new comers walk in the door with more of those excellent qualities. They end up baffled if they believe everything that is said in the literature and at the meetings about the diseased alcoholic personality. Oh, and i forgot that you should consider it normal to label your self a "Drunk" like everyone else. I always thought that was abusive, inappropriate and unnecessary for people supposedly in recovery. Who by the way are now sober. Just my opinion again. I thought it was sad when the group chuckled about being Drunks. I just never thought it was cute.

I have to agree. Of course abstinence is a wonderful thing, for those with personality disorders. Imagine what those people were like when they were drinking!! Unfortunately, I dont think they are motivated or encouraged in AA to get the additional help they desperately need. For the most part they are excused and welcome no matter how outrageous their behavior is.

Your right; your last paragraph is a different subject. These blogs do have a tendency to get insanely off track at times and end up missing the original point entirely. Have a nice day. Im off to work. :-)

Clara's picture

Perhaps that is true of other groups, but we had many people in ours that were involved with other fellowships and protocols. I remember one woman literally having a breakdown in the meeting, and we told her that she simply had to get to a doctor. He put her on anti-depressants for a number of issues, including a horrible menopause. I agree with the Big Book. We are remiss if we overlook what medical communicity can do for us. As for outrageous behavior, it was a rule if you couldn't do it "out there" you couldn't do it "in here." People could get barred from our club. And were.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

I fully expected you to come back and inform me that your group would and has handled the situation appropriately; but from past experience and what i have seen, it is not the Norm.

Clara's picture

It may not be, but there is a big problem with this board "expectations." People think that because they were in AA and that is how it was there, that is how it is everywhere. Or because you are in AA, you think this way or that way. I just saw the board treat someone esle this same way. Just because he isn't saying anything bad about AA, just that it isn't for him, they are all over him.

Why not do what AA suggest and lower your expectations? You might just learn something.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

JR Harris's picture

The cult of Alcoholics Anonymous is a global problem and you yourself said that the cult followers in El Paso, Texas were much more lower class and dangerous than the ones in Myrtle Beach, SC. The list of current problems can be seen by looking up thread at the post that Live Free or Die posted to you, or you can click this link. http://orange-papers.org/forum/comment/46262#comment-46262

P.S. That is only a partial list of the shenanigans of the cult of Alcoholics Anonymous.

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

Clara's picture

JR. I have shared on this orum that I don't go to meetings in EP. I go to meetings in NM, but I have started going to a private start up meeting that is invite only.

Remember too that I never said the people were lower class or dangerous than in MB. I said there wasn't very much singleness of purpose and we had more NA people in AA. I also said we had more mandated persons. You are trying to recreate my responses to support your own agenda. It doesn't work.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

JR Harris's picture

Clara, I am sorry that Alcoholics Anonymous Gratitude West: 225 Derby St./Sunland Park, NM. in Area 66 District 10 is full of court mandated criminals and NA members instead of the beloved Myrtle Beach covens from which you were spawned. Did you ever think of trying other meetings? Have you tried the atheist religion in El Paso, Texas, they have their own TV show.

Atheists in Texas? And they have their own TV show?

Jack Lee
Austin Atheism Examiner

Surprisingly, there is a strong community of atheists in Austin - deep in the heart of otherwise bible-belt Texas. For many of them, Austin is the liberal oasis in an otherwise pretty redneck state, and perhaps that's why this community has grown the way it has.

The main community, the Atheist Community of Austin meet twice weekly: on Sunday mornings at Romeos restaurant on Barton Springs Rd, and on Thursday evenings for happy hour at The Dog and Duck Pub on Guadalupe Street. There are also regular lectures, promos and affiliated blogs that are well worth checking out if you have any kind of interest in atheism.

Sunday afternoon is spent filming The Atheist Experience, a cable access live show that's aimed at non atheists. Live calls come in from near and far afield as the panel are questioned about their atheism. Needless to say, the debate can get quite heated at times! There's a chance to meet and chat afterwards, usually around 6.30 pm, at Threadgills restaurant on Riverside Drive.

And now, since all the shows are streamed live and posted to YouTube and other video hosting providers, Austin's fast becoming a mecca for atheists - and their detractors!

The Austin Atheist Experience can be watched on Channel Austin's Channel 16, if you have Time Warner or Grande Communications cable. There is a weekly radio show, too: The Non Prophets can be heard alternate Saturdays between 2pm and 3.30.

Source: http://www.examiner.com/article/atheists-texas-and-they-have-their-own-t...

I can't get it on satellite, do you know if they still have this show?

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

Clara's picture

I am not an atheist, so I am not interested in that option. I also don't go to meetings at GW.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

I dont agree many times with everything that is said on this board and thats why I dont particapte much. Plus, Im too busy.
I think that both anti-aa's and pro-aa's, personally attack each other far too much and accomplish nothing. None of my business.

Why would I want to do what AA suggest. I left 2 years ago after hearing all I wanted to hear for years. I learned plenty and the experience was a real slice of life for me. I think that you may be insinuating (in your subtle way) that I didnt give AA a chance. There is no need for me to lower my expectations; because I am not interested in the suggestions the program has to offer anymore.

Clara's picture

The same thing everyone says. They left x years ago, but they seem to post as if it was yesterday. But that is how they choose to spend their time, so that is fine. No insinuations at all. You are choosing to read something that isn't there. Just observing that no one lets OTHERS have their experiences as well.

The people in AA share their experiences, strength and hope. It might just be that the sponsor someone is working is had a probem with pills and is a bit cautious about it. But that doesn't mean the sponsee that has no issues with medication can't use it or shouldn't be encouraged to go check out a medical treatment for whatever ails you. I think it people read the matierial, they might be able to divorce someone's experience from what the AA stance is... That is where people become confused. My sponsor doesn't care if I get medication for anything as long as I take it as directed. My girlfriend is having depression over the loss of her husband. I asked her if it wasn't time to look to see if there might be some anti-depressant to take. However, she's had a hard time with pills before and said no. She also becomes obsessive compulsive about it - did I take it right? Is it time for more? What can I eat with it? So, it isn't an option for her.

If you are an atheist, chose someone else that is too to be your sponsor. I don't get some of the "wrongs" people point to in AA.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

DeConstructor's picture

you are less than 2 years from your last drink?

I do not think you have any business lecturing us about anything.

Isn't you reprimanding us for "hating" AA uncalled for also? Or do you hate us for "hating" AA? Just a simple answer will suffice.

patti

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