Let's argue about Step 1

A Critique of the Twelve-step Model

July 9, 2011

Steven Orma

Shot of Whiskey

According to a 2004 report from the National Institutes of Health, an estimated 17.6 million American adults (8.5 percent) meet standard diagnostic criteria for an alcohol use disorder. The most widely known option in the world for people who want to quit drinking is Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), with an estimated membership of over 2,000,000 people in 180 countries. However, is AA the best and only option for recovery from an alcohol problem? In this four-part article, I will provide a critique of AA’s 12-Step model, and provide alternatives to AA that are not as widely known, but have been very effective in helping many people recover from an alcohol problem.

Part One: Step 1

Step One: We admitted we were powerless over alcohol—that our lives had become unmanageable.

If one is powerless over alcohol, how can one ever stop drinking? If AA means by this that a person needs to accept that alcohol is destroying his life, this makes perfect sense. But accepting that one has a problem and saying that one is powerless against that problem are two different things. In fact, those who attend AA are not powerless. They take many actions within their own power, such as attending the meetings, reading the AA literature, and eventually, refraining from drinking. As a clinician, both theoretically and clinically, I would never hold the view that a client is powerless. Even quadriplegics can accomplish many things through their own free will, even though they are paralyzed from the neck down. To communicate to a client that he or she is powerless, whether it’s to depression, anxiety, or drinking, is to communicate to them that they have no control over their lives and that they are fated to their current condition. Not only is this untrue, it would be extremely damaging to a client’s self-esteem and his ability to help himself get better. The fact is, countless people have quit drinking using AA and other approaches (including quitting on their own), which means they did exert power over their problem.

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live_free_or_die's picture

I have a back up generator.

Alcoholics Anonymous: MyNotGodHasItCovered®
http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/

alkieanon's picture

What happens when your "Jerry" cans run dry? Time to find a new fuel source and restart the generator.

JR Harris's picture

Why do you hate the survivors of the cult of AA so much alkieanon? Or are you just a prospect hunter for the cult of Alcoholics Anonymous trying to make sure they end up in jails, institutions or death? Only a dry drunk with the alcoholic DNA gene sequence of Bill Wilson would do that.

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

writes a great deal about why authoritarians have always hated autonomous people. We render ourselves independent by controlling ourselves and having little or no desire to control others. Authoritarians on the other hand, live off of controlling others....so their worse nightmare is someone who cannot be controlled. I suspect people from the cult who feel compelled to come into anti-cult forums are running out of people to control in the cult.

Anthro

alkieanon's picture

What's it going to be?

steve cochrane's picture

Very limited choices on the menu you have there. But lets see . . . . . . . . . . I. . . . choose. . . .chaos!!! Did I win something? A free plate of chaos maybe? What does chaos taste like Alkie? Can you maybe dole some out so we can sample?

alkieanon's picture

Smells like victory or teen spirit.

JR Harris's picture

So what does victory smell like, hater of the escapees of the cult of Alcoholics Anonymous. Why don't you just leave us alone?

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

alkieanon's picture

So what does failure smell like, hater of the survivors of the miracle of Alcoholics Anonymous. Why don't you just leave us (Alcoholics Anonymous) alone?

NoAAUK's picture

Because you self serving freaks mind screw and kill people

......and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Matthew 24:11

alkieanon's picture

Opinion, not fact.

"At that time many will turn away from the faith and will betray and hate each other, ...." Matthew 24:10

JR Harris's picture

What you can't find a meeting to go too? Or are you just out looking for people your cult didn't kill? You're one sick person, get help.

P.S. It;s a good thing you didn't respond to Trisha/Danny/Calinda/Pkats, look at what that fine AA member did to poor Clara. He traded everything he could find out about her just to gain access to some "secret forum on the Orange Papers."

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

alkieanon's picture

What you can't find a another blog to go to? Or are you just out looking for people to despise? You're one sick person, get help.

NoAAUK's picture

"You're one sick person, get help."

Thats a bit rich coming from a stepper................have you heard any voices in your head today?

......and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Matthew 24:11

AA,

but why do so many x AA members have that opinion? why do so many people flee from the cult?
more leave than stay over 95% leave.

patti

NoAAUK's picture

"Opinion, not fact."

Fact, even professor Valiant proved that. Theres too many deaths and suicides for you to hide......its coming out.......your cults days are numbered, all you can do is keep on lying to the bitter end

......and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Matthew 24:11

steve cochrane's picture

Thats it.

alkieanon's picture

Survivors get on with life and don't haunt Orange Papers Forum day in and day out whining and complaining. Survivors walk away. As they say, "Any landing is good landing". LOL!

Why do you hate the members of AA so much JR Harris? AA members who are enjoying life; happy, joyous, and free. Only a Debby Downer with the hater DNA gene sequence of OPF would do that.

JR Harris's picture

You have deep psychological problems and need serious help. It is obvious that the criminals recuited from jails and prison have not helped you, You are an angry dry drunk, get real help before it is too late.

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

steve cochrane's picture

what is said on this forum and what goes on in our lives outside of here Alkie. I am sure that you would like nothing better than for all of us to just go away. Ain't gonna happen. We are here for the people who like myself had had enough and have yet to make a decision. We tell of our experiences. Opinions, viewpoints are what they are and thats it!!!!!!!!!!! I am not here to "save" anyone from the "EVILS of AA". No one hates the individual members of AA it is the ideology of AA that we really really dislike. I don't like to use the word hate as it allows no alternate route. Too nasty of a word. The anti AA people here are only doing what anti AA people do. Get it Charlie? We will all cycle out of this forum one day and new members will replace us to help others like we have been helped. So in a nutshell Alkie we 'aint goin nowhere. You are the interloper here not us!!. I am being nice to you Alkie. I don't know why either .The gloves are comin off for you and all the rest of you who taunt and harass my fellow brothers and sisters here. I have been sitting on the sidelines for too long. Behave yourself and we won't have problems.

becket's picture

"We are here for the people who like myself had had enough and have yet to make a decision."

What does this mean, that you "have yet to make a decision"? Or is it that lurkers may not yet have decided whom to hate?

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

NoAAUK's picture

"What does this mean, that you "have yet to make a decision"?

It means they are SCARED, what do you think it means........scared that they will end up in jail, institutions or die if they leave the cult. That IS the purpose of the statement about jails institutions and death, to scare people into staying........not difficult to work out, once you have surmounted that fear through the joyful totally liberating experience of acceptance of the TRUTH

There's nothing else to induce people into staying in the cult.......like VARITEY, intellectual stimulation or ENJOYMENT.

When you have got sod all attractive going for you FEAR is the only option you have to retain members and steppism has got sweet FA going for it...........so it has to be FEAR and COERCION

The point of the Orange Papers is to counter that fear with truth.......so its goodbye steppism....HELLO REALITY

......and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Matthew 24:11

becket's picture

Good to know that steve cochrane has you on retainer to answer for him while he's asleep, noaauk.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

NoAAUK's picture

Its nice isn't it?

We of the GROWING Anti AA Movement are 'nice' people.....we don't lie or try to terrify people to save our own skins from an imaginary spiritual disease

......and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Matthew 24:11

NoAAUK's picture

"I am not here to "save" anyone from the "EVILS of AA".

I most definitely AM.....................and to do whatever I can to contribute to the end of this disgusting satanic cult

......and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Matthew 24:11

becket's picture

What would that be, noaauk? I mean, other than grousing about the big, bad mind"screw" . . .

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

NoAAUK's picture

Starting with emailing all Nottinghamshire MP's, which includes UK Justice Minister Kenneth Clarke MP

......and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Matthew 24:11

NoAAUK's picture

Then there's plenty more to be doing, its a big world out there to expose the quakery and predation of AA to.

But we'll do it in the end. After all theres plenty of quakery and predation to expose in your satanic cult isn't there?

......and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Matthew 24:11

becket's picture

Well please do return to the OPF and regale us with your tales of AA destruction and mayhem after you have taken all of the above steps. I'm simply breathless with anticipation . . .

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

NoAAUK's picture

"regale us with your tales of AA destruction and mayhem after you have taken all of the above steps"

Won't do, never let your enemy know your true intentions

......and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Matthew 24:11

alkieanon's picture

Do not mistake what is said in AA meetings and what goes on in our lives outside of meetings steve cochrane. I am sure that you would like nothing better than for all of us to just go away. Ain't gonna happen. [snip] So in a nutshell steve cochrane we 'aint goin nowhere. You are the conduit of hate here not us!!. I am being nice to you steve cochrane. I know why [you don't call people names]. The gloves are off for you and all the rest of you who taunt and harass my fellow brothers and sisters here. I am off of the sidelines. Behave yourself and we won't have problems. Ditto!

NoAAUK's picture

"So in a nutshell steve cochrane we 'aint goin nowhere."

There was a meeting in Nottingham in the building where I ran an alternative group.............they all went away. Went from 15 to 20 down to the chairperson in about a year.......it was funny to see it happen. Bet the demise of that meeting saved a few peoples sanity.....and lives

......and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Matthew 24:11

avogadno's picture

Some survivors also have courage and empathy for others in the same predicament. Had it not been for previous survivors I wouldn't have found the support I needed to make a healthy break away from the insanity of the program.

Pro Empowerment!
Truth about AA: http://orange-papers.org/menu1.html
Expose AA: http://www.expaa.org/

NoAAUK's picture

Ditto

......and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Matthew 24:11

Ditto! And Oranges efforts & works have helped many tremendously.

patti

NoAAUK's picture

"AA members who are enjoying life; happy, joyous, and free."

Didn't see any of them at my last meeting, just a bunch of miserable frightened nutjobs

......and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Matthew 24:11

I understand the danger of xa but the first step reads "We admitted we were powerless over alcohol" not we are powerless. I was powerless until I was not powerless. I am sober and clean more than 31 years because I choose to be. Bill W. is dead and xa will follow him.
Long Island Bob O.

NoAAUK's picture

Well spotted Bob.....step one does in fact say WERE powerless over Alcohol. The fact that we were never actually powerless over Alcohol even in the past is irrelevant. Step one says we admitted we WERE powerless over alcohol. So whichever way you look at it, the other 11 steps and AA in general are meaningless BS

......and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Matthew 24:11

I am not powerless.

live_free_or_die's picture

Are you calling me a dry drunk?

Gas is free, but not lunch.

People are not powerless. Wireless, yeah, but not powerless.

Alcoholics Anonymous: MyNotGodHasItCovered®
http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/

alkieanon's picture

live_free_or_die asks: "Are you calling me a dry drunk?" Only if you are "very angry and upset".

Gas is only free if you have a pod, a pump, and a hose.

live_free_or_die's picture

unless you get caught.

But if AA catches you, it ain't free, and ya ain't powerless.

Alcoholics Anonymous: MyNotGodHasItCovered®
http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/

steve cochrane's picture

We are all powerful . Especialy what we 'perceive' in our weakest and painful moment. No matter what do not allow yourself to be categorized. I.E. alcoholic,drug addict,sex addict,gambling addict,air addict. Co dependant, enabler. Do not trust people who study people for a living. Have a healthy amount of skepticism and you will learn to listen more carefuly. If you are having problems with a substance. Realize this. It is a behaviour. Period!! It is NOT who you are!! Peace.

becket's picture

"A healthy amount of skepticism". How are you measuring that, steve?

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

avogadno's picture

Addiction is a behavior that is very difficult to stop, so hard that it sometimes feels impossible. The most important aspect in quitting is developing faith in yourself, the strong belief that you have the ability to overcome the addiction and change the behavior. This faith is the very thing that alcoholics anonymous tries to strip from the members. Upon taking the power away from us, they gain it. We end up under the control of the organization and begin living our lives the way that they want us to.

“Breaking the Self-belief: This is the first step of brainwashing. It involves breaking down a person's morale and the current beliefs.”

http://www.buzzle.com/articles/brainwashing-techniques.html+

This is done by attacking their identity, imposing guilt and humiliation, an coercing victims into denouncing their own beliefs. Often times salvation is offered as a reward for giving yourself over.

Pro Empowerment!
Truth about AA: http://orange-papers.org/menu1.html
Expose AA: http://www.expaa.org/

becket's picture

Man, I totally don't get this shit. Nobody stripped you of your "power" - you gave it away. Now you want to blame them for your indiscretion?

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

live_free_or_die's picture

Mind control

"I will describe the process that a person could expect at their first meeting. Bear in mind that the usual situation for new members is that they are people who have problems and are seeking relief from their situation. Someone who is newly sober will not be thinking clearly. These people are very suggestible and often desperate and very vulnerable. The meetings are very ritualistic: there are certain traditions that are almost never deviated from. Steve Hassan starts the description of behavior control with the regulation of individual's personal reality. The use of rituals that are engaged in by all those surrounding the individual is a highly effective way of controlling the person's behavior and defining the physical reality for this person. Each meeting starts with a moment of silence followed by the Serenity Prayer. The entire group almost always participates in this ritual, heads bowed and chanting in unison. This is followed by a reading from the basic text titled “Alcoholics Anonymous” commonly referred to as "The Big Book." This reading contains the 12 steps, which are the basic structure of the program. The 12 traditions, which are guidelines that each group is expected to follow, are then read aloud."

"Having been a member of AA for many years, I have a different view of it. I consider the program of Alcoholics Anonymous a destructive cult that uses all methods of mind-control tactics for the specific purposes of incorporating its members into a belief system that demolishes their individuality, crushes their independence, and creates numerous psychologically damaging side effects."
http://www.geocities.com/drugsandalcoholinfo/webpagesandpapers/mindcontr...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Streaking
Shit, I thought us high schoolers invented streaking in the middle 1980's. The Damn English invented it!

Alcoholics Anonymous: MyNotGodHasItCovered®
http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/

becket's picture

"They take many actions within their own power, such as attending the meetings, reading the AA literature, and eventually, refraining from drinking."

What about the 95% for whom AA allegedly does not work? Is he including these people in his statistics? They may go to a meeting or two, they may look at the literature, but how many of them "refrain from drinking"? If he wants to try to convince folks that they all refrain from drinking, then that makes AA pretty fucking successful.

"The fact is, countless people have quit drinking using AA and other approaches . . . " Are you going to argue with him? He's the one who said it this time. He says "they exert power over their problem". He does not delve into the nature of that power.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

steve cochrane's picture

that one focus' on even 'after' you have stopped drinking then so be it. You remain stuck in your story.

becket's picture

Not many people transcend their own stories, steve.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

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