Open question to Clara or Becket, and any other apologists

Is there ANYTHING you feel AA does improperly?

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Clara's picture

I might have read her post wrong.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

Pennywise's picture

Whose post? Trisha's? She does not know what she is talking about. I said no such thing. Please don't let her speak for me.

"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."

Trisha K.'s picture

You explained in more detail there why you chose AA over SMART.

“The more I traveled the more I realized that fear makes strangers of people who should be friends.”
Shirley MacLaine

Trisha K.'s picture

Now I can't speak for you. You spoke for her for days. Penny you don't want the same rules to apply to you. You are the exception.
Well we want you to answer some questions for a change, OK

“The more I traveled the more I realized that fear makes strangers of people who should be friends.”
Shirley MacLaine

becket's picture

Pennywise almost always answers my questions, Trisha. There are a lot of inequities on this forum; we calls em as we sees em and then keep trudging toward some kind of "truth", although I've certainly noticed my truth is different than Persephone's, and I wouldn't trade my truth for patti's under any circumstances.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

becket's picture

Depends on who you run with, Pennywise.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

Trisha K.'s picture

Stop fucking your employer over. What more can a rational person say here. Lfod, get your priorities in line and stop screwing around or you will lose your job.

“The more I traveled the more I realized that fear makes strangers of people who should be friends.”
Shirley MacLaine

JR Harris's picture

You know Danny, claiming that someone is drinking or drugging because they disagree and dislike the cult of Alcoholics Anonymous is a tactic of the "confrontational therapy" that you learned and then eventual forced on the other resident there at the age of 17.

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

Trisha K.'s picture

It doesn't seem like you did. Why doesn't your daughter want anything to do with you. Why is it your ex-wife had a restraining order put out on you. Jr why don't people know these things about you.
I got this information from posts here and on various other sites.
Before you try to call me by names that are not my name and defame my character. Please mke sure your background doesn't leak out and poison the environment you reside in.

“The more I traveled the more I realized that fear makes strangers of people who should be friends.”
Shirley MacLaine

JR Harris's picture

How many of them does it make now? Well at least your not recruiting in jails or prisons. Please stay away from teen camps....

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

Trisha K.'s picture

You are funny guy. You are the only person I know who can be having a meltdown and at the same time accuse another of the same breakdown.
JR, no meltdown just the same defensive actions I have always taken when you come around hurling accusations.

“The more I traveled the more I realized that fear makes strangers of people who should be friends.”
Shirley MacLaine

JR Harris's picture

Danny you were the one that gave out Clara's personal info to get into the "secret forum" on the Orange Papers, remember. I actually just ignored it.

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

live_free_or_die's picture

What are you talking about Danny B II? you are one messed up dude.

Alcoholics Anonymous: MyNotGodHasItCovered®
http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/

becket's picture

Is AA ever wrong about what? It would be good to narrow the field a little.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

live_free_or_die's picture

How's that Trish. Clear enough for ya?

Alcoholics Anonymous: MyNotGodHasItCovered®
http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/

alkieanon's picture

"Our house is clean enough to be healthy, and dirty enough to be happy." -Anonymous

jonnijoy's picture

Patti says; The meetings where you go are

The meetings where you go are full. Full of what though? How many of the people attending are there voluntarily? How many of the people there are forced to attend? How many people that are there are the core group who belong more than a few weeks, months or less than a year?

JJ says; The mtgs out here on long island are booming, parking lots are full to the hilt. Standing room only at the giant hospital mtg on sunday morning. Speaker needs a microphone so the back of the room can hear them. Oh yeah, there are NO mandates on Long Island. Check it out, try to prove me wrong. They are currently selling tickets to the SHARATHON at ST Josephs college in august. AA is going strong in NY. Dont fool yourself into believing that these silly little anti-AA forums are closing ANY AA mtg doors. Just saying.

JJ,
who thinks these anti AA forums are effecting AA. AA always been a failure, less than 5% become sober & clean that try AA. AA fails over 95% of the people who try it, AA has failed all on its own. AA has rooms full of mandated attendees, they have been AAs bread & butter for years. This is common knowledge. Terrible, damaging abuses occur in AA daily. Of course they do, that is what happens when a bunch of unqualified brain washed cult members parrot the unqualified & dangerous anecdotal psychiatric advise of the immoral Wilson. No AA is going to bury itself all by itself. No one has to do it. Its going to hang itself, not an if, it is just a matter of when.

patti

becket's picture

"JJ, who thinks these anti AA forums are effecting AA . . . " What does this mean? Did you lose your dictionary again?

Of the 95% AA "has failed all on its own", what percentage never intended to quit drinking in the first place? How many were strong-armed into going by an employer or a spouse and then decided to just blow them off, that it wasn't worth it, that they'd rather just drink? How many left and decided to implement some of what they heard in meetings but to discard the rest? You have no way of knowing the answers to these questions, so don't even try. They are rhetorical questions, patti. r-h-e-t-o-r-i-c-a-l.

If AA is going to bury itself, please explain your insistence on being heard from the hate corner. If AA needs no help in imploding, please find a hobby. You could be a perfect art critic: someone who has no artistic talent but insists on critiquing the efforts of others.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

NoAAUK's picture

"If AA is going to bury itself, please explain your insistence on being heard from the hate corner. If AA needs no help in imploding, please find a hobby."

We like to help it implode.................its a satsfying hobby to have.

......and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Matthew 24:11

Becket,
you know it is healthy to ventilate. what AA calls a rant & belittles members for doing. its common knowledge that it is healthy to ventilate. was asking questions about Clara's meetings & she would know the answers, therefore not rhetorical. Oh Becket, these desperate attempts of yours where you play attorney. come on, your questions are always rhetorical & always combative. although in your mind they are very compelling, insightful & intelligent like you. you are more like Wilson than you will ever know or face about your self.

patti

becket's picture

Can't answer em, huh?

;D

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

Trisha K.'s picture

Stop being submissive patti. Your anti-AA guru's do not really care about you. They just need another mouth or poster.

“The more I traveled the more I realized that fear makes strangers of people who should be friends.”
Shirley MacLaine

Oh Trisha,
what is astonishing about you & the other trolls is that you all actually think any one is bothered by any thing you say or write. Not.

patti

becket's picture

Were you not bothered by anything the opposition writes, you would not be compelled to quash the ideas that are posted.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

JR Harris's picture

Don't you ever get tired of this "Patti says", "JJ says" crap, it reminds me of a kindergartener trying to brown nose the teacher..................

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

jonnijoy's picture

Patti says; . No AA is going to bury itself all by itself. No one has to do it. Its going to hang itself, not an if, it is just a matter of when.
JJ laughs his butt off and say when is this gonna happen? I also have to add that I totally see why nobody in AA liked you and why the roofer you were in love with chose the better looking more refined woman over you. Dont be bitter, its such an ugly emotion. I have seen it happen many times in and outside of AA. A woman gets rejected or used and starts hating on everything. Some scream 13th step!

JR Harris's picture

Reminds me of a 5 year old running to tell his mommy. Grow up...

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

Wow, writing that AA is going to bury itself all it itself. Not an if, but a when. Sure hit a nerve with all of you trolls. Only one missing is Clara. JJ, really me or any other ex member has to be "bitter" to think AA is going to collapse due to its own failures, you are grasping. This is what AA has to offer you trolls & the craziness in your minds that you write here. Yes its not an if its a when. Let the crying, attacks & deflecting begin. Knock your selves out trolls!

patti

becket's picture

If AA were to collapse, it certainly would not be from any criticism or insight you have offered here on the forum.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

Becket,
O M G there is that brilliant & insightful mind & perception. No kidding & really? AA isn't going to collapse because I don't like it & see it for the failing & crazy cult it is. As I've clearly written prior & am now re writing so that you comprehend: AA is going to bury itself. Going to hang itself. Its not if it is when. Going to happen. AA is going to self destruct & bury itself. AA is going to get busted.

patti

jonnijoy's picture

Awww poor JR, he dont like it lol Ya gotta hangover?? Patti represents you lol

JJ
"honestly" how old are you? you do sound like a child.

patti

Trisha K.'s picture

patti, just how far do you have to crawl up JR's ass for you to feel, "a part of". Being submissive stinks doesn't it.

“The more I traveled the more I realized that fear makes strangers of people who should be friends.”
Shirley MacLaine

you & Becket & J J really went to bat on this one. Somehow in your minds you think that attacking me personally somehow defends AA & its miserable failure rate. It doesn't matter what I write or who I am or how I feel. The trolls desperate & childish personal attacks do not matter either. The attacks are a glaring indication of how crazy all of you are & how defensive all of you get when anyone describes AA truthfully instead of the propaganda & the lying promotion & advertising. Anyway this sure hit a nerve. Did any of you happen to notice how all of your defenses of the cult were nothing more than name calling of me? That is what you all have got. Childish name calling, nothing more. This is what AA has all of you & more like you. You all responded alike. All of you one & the same. This is typical cult behavior & typical cult persona's one & the same. Back to the topic AA is going to bury itself. You all might want to consider getting over it & growing up. Let the troll name calling begin. Let the childish attempts to defend the cult begin! Knock yourselves out trolls! Go to bat for the cult of AA by name calling! This is what AA has got JJ, Trish & Becket. Wow, cult life & mind sure isn't pretty.

patti

becket's picture

"question" = "attack".

Is this the sum total of your coping skills, patti?

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

becket's picture

"It doesn't matter what I write or who I am or how I feel."

You finally got it right.

If there are several of us who responded to your insane shit similarly, there's a reason for that. Don't hurt yourself trying to figure it out, patti. Have you ever noticed, sweetie, how similar your posts are to JR Harris'? The language, the ever-running mouth, the lumping together of individuals under one black umbrella? You go him one better, though, because you make accusation after accusation which you can't back up with a link or an article or anything tangible. Your facts are products of your limp imagination.

Were you ever able to answer those questions I asked you? Oh, that's right: they were rhetorical.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

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