I hope it is safe to assume that these shortcomings are the famous 'character defects' so often referred to in stepper meetings?
The big question for me is 'does God remove these shortcomings if humbly asked?’ And if he does, then why is there a need to do Step 10. Why is there a need for continued personal inventory, if God has already removed our shortcomings in Step 7?
This raises a number of questions:-
1) Does step 7 actually work?
2) Does God only remove our shortcomings temporarily and if so for how long.....do they return at midnight like Cinderella at the Ball (come to think of it steppism is a fairy story) or can you have them removed for longer periods and if so, what’s the maximum time God will remove a shortcoming for?
3) Or do steppers constantly develop new shortcomings as a result of doing the 12 steps and going to meetings, and have to constantly take inventory and admit they are wrong? Steppism is therefore ANTIspiritual (not religious) and actually creates shortcomings and therefore spiritual diseases
4) Or do steppers hang on to shortcomings and it is these that have to acknowledged in Step 10 Or perhaps a combination of hung onto shortcomings and new shortcomings?
5) Can you partially hang on to a shortcoming so you only have half a shortcoming to acknowledge and admit you are wrong in step 10?
6) Can/will God remove a shortcoming that you are hanging on to?
7) Why do steppers humbly ask God to REMOVE their shortcomings in step 7 but only PROMTLY ADMIT THEY ARE WRONG when they find new or hung onto shortcomings in step 10?
8) Is Step 10 really a way to keep hung onto shortcomings, by just promptly admitting you are wrong, but not humbly asking God to remove them and therefore does Step 10 actually jeopardise a steppers sobriety?
9) Why not skip step 6 and go directly to step 7, a bit like playing snakes and ladders?
Can any of our resident stepper Gurus enlighten me as I want to understand the 'message'
Comments
Pennywise
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 16:13
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Great insight, Becket. I
Great insight, Becket. I certainly don't think you are an "AA whore." You'd get chastised at my meetings, which says a good thing about you.
"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."
causeandeffect
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 17:04
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Yes, a big thumbs up. Except
Yes, a big thumbs up. Except the DeadSetAgainstIt part. What you seem to be forgetting is that we DID in fact try it. And having done so, we reject it. Knowing that it's ineffective, we reject it. And we all have our own reasons, all of them valid.
But thanks for your post Becket. : )
Troll free AA critical forum
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becket
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 17:42
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I understand you "tried it",
I understand you "tried it", but I have no way of knowing how committed any of you may have been (and I do not mean that as a criticism but, instead, as a statement of fact: how could I know?) Even at 100% commitment, the program is not for everyone. But please acknowledge that it is for some people, including me, who found a way to take unpalatable concepts and work them to my advantage. I saw "To Wives" for what it was and decided not to be offended. I saw the intrusion of the inventory and decided that, with the right sponsor instead of just any AA lackey, I might be able to gather some insight about myself. I saw pain and shame going into the inventory and came out pain- and shame-free. I just decided to do what was suggested without resisting, because resisting would mean failure for me. I always diligently watched over my shoulder for something that didn't seem right - too much interest from any man, gossiping, nuclear evangelizing. But I had been on watch for these things since I was a little kid; it was nothing new to me. I became adept at tuning out that which was unhelpful to me and distilling the things that I found to be thoughtful or meaningful or practical. Among the best things I took away from AA were the life skills to be informed and aware. And part of that awareness is to understand that others may not understand my experience in AA, and that that's all right.
I think that to reject AA after having giving it an honest try is perfectly sensible and necessary for the person for whom AA does not fit. But can anyone explain to me this obsession with McDonald's and murders and cons, as if Bill Wilson himself instructed these alleged perps from the grave to carry out such nefarious deeds in his name? I read fluff like that and I am beyond distrustful - to what ends does this junk get posted? How is it helpful to anyone in any way?
As far as the DeadSetAgainstIt crowd, these are the people who will not book a ticket to the Grey Area because it's impossible for them to allow for differences among people. I find it sad and narrow and non-productive. Maybe I'm missing something they have, but some days I wait in the Grey Area all day and no one else comes there to try it. Today was different. Today was good. Thanks for your nice responses.
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
Clara
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 17:47
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Love it!
Love it!
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
JR Harris
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 17:59
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Have you tried the cult of Scientology? Try it...
"It works if you work it" also......... just like any cult.....
"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.
gigi
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 18:24
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Grey area
"As far as the DeadSetAgainstIt crowd, these are the people who will not book a ticket to the Grey Area because it's impossible for them to allow for differences among people. I find it sad and narrow and non-productive. Maybe I'm missing something they have, but some days I wait in the Grey Area all day and no one else comes there to try it."
It's interesting that you describe your exerience on the OPF this way, Becket. And I completely understand where you are coming from. I felt exactly that way almost every day that I was an active member of AA. It was a lonely, frustrating, often sad experience. So I left; still searching for that grey area myself.
"If I forget who I am, I am myself. If I remember who I am, I am you."
becket
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:13
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The Grey Area
The most accurate way I can describe it is Tolerance. It's one of the most confounding areas we can approach because it requires that we be prepared to dampen our own experiences and truths in order to allow others to share theirs, no matter how wacky or evil or immature we find them. I'm thinking it's a matter of balance, but here on the OPF, there is no balance - the site by its very nature is extremely intolerant, first of AA, then of the founders of AA, then of attendees of AA, then of the courts and AA, then of religion itself, then - and in particular - of the posters who disagree with them, and on and on. I know many people can't find that balance in AA, and some of these are people who otherwise enjoy a fair amount of balance in their lives. I concede that AA can be counterproductive, but that does not mean that I refuse to try to comprehend the other guy simply because I suspect he's going to come off with something contrary to what I believe or know to be right or truthful. I'm actually fool enough to read the posts. There are some people here who are reconciling their having left AA, others who are fairly new at being out of AA, still others whose experiences sweep several years without the influence of AA. I see different levels of "wisdom" on that front, but instead of stepping forward with independent thinking, most make the posts read as an All For One! collection. I don't believe in All For One. I believe in one for one. I decide for myself. I live according to what I know and hold dear. I learn and borrow, yes; but I don't join in on the gangbang, no matter what the topic. To my mind, independent thinking is the ticket. There is no safety in numbers, not in AA, not on the OPF.
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
live_free_or_die
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:31
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Tolerance becket?
AA is intolerant.
AA does not allow independent thinking.
AA offers nothing but god to the alcohol abuser.
What is AA becket?
Alcoholics Anonymous: MyNotGodHasItCovered®
http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/
becket
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:40
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Did I ever mention to you,
Did I ever mention to you, live_ that I am not a member of AA? I am advocating for anyone and everyone's independent thinking, in or out of AA.
GET IT??
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
live_free_or_die
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:50
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becker you are a dry drunk - I GET IT.
I am just pointing the facts.
AA is not gray.
AA is NOT a tolerant "fellowship".
AA does not allow independent thinking.
AA is not treatment for anything.
What is AA?
Alcoholics Anonymous: MyNotGodHasItCovered®
http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/
becket
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 20:03
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SALVE REGINA, Mater
SALVE REGINA, Mater misericordiae. Vita, dulcedo, et spes nostra, salve. Ad te clamamus exsules filii Hevae. Ad te Suspiramus, gementes et flentes in hac lacrimarum valle. Eia ergo, Advocata nostra, illos tuos misericordes oculos ad nos converte. Et Iesum, benedictum fructum ventris tui, nobis post hoc exsilium ostende. O clemens, o pia, o dulcis Virgo Maria.
V. Ora pro nobis, Sancta Dei Genitrix.
R. Ut digni efficiamur promissionibus Christi.
(I will pray for you, l_)
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
btnben
Sat, 06/09/2012 - 05:46
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Oh, What a Circus...lol
"She did nothing for years"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B51m_sMEUGg
God damn it, get me a whiskey
Bill W, Deathbed
http://www.youtube.com/watch?source=patrick.net&v=Sdn3O6aaMNc
NoAAUK
Sat, 06/09/2012 - 07:18
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Live Free
What is AA?
Wilson's religious cult
......and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Matthew 24:11
Pennywise
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:40
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Reading your posts in this
Reading your posts in this thread, a paradox of sorts comes to mind. Mainly, if you are correct, it seems that a program of brainwashing (AA) benefits those who are immune to brainwashing more than it does those who thoughtlessly assimilate. When you think about it, it does make some sense.
"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."
gigi
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:47
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I think you're on to
I think you're on to something with this, Pennywise. The stronger and more self-assured you are, the better you'll fare in AA. And the sooner you'll leave and get on with your life.
"If I forget who I am, I am myself. If I remember who I am, I am you."
Pennywise
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:50
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Also, the more likely you are
Also, the more likely you are to take the benefits from the program without incurring the detriments. Make no mistake about it, there are some real gems of wisdom shared in the roomz.
"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."
Clara
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:53
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Thank you, Penny. That is
Thank you, Penny. That is very true.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
gigi
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:56
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Yep. I always called them
Yep. I always called them nuggets of truth.
"If I forget who I am, I am myself. If I remember who I am, I am you."
becket
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:56
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That's interesting, Pennywise
That's interesting, Pennywise. I don't know if it's completely true, but I can't argue against what you're proposing. So what advice would you have for those who tend more toward thoughtless assimilation? What sort of program or non-program do you think would be of most benefit to this type of person? I mean aside from "just put down the drink and don't pick it up again", because I think they need a little more information and guidance than that.
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
Pennywise
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:57
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I'm not sure I'm qualified to
I'm not sure I'm qualified to answer that question, Becket.
"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."
becket
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 20:10
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It's certainly something to
It's certainly something to ponder. We have a lot of information about what does not work for some people, and some things that do work for some people as they reach for sobriety. I think it's a broader palette than anyone realizes - that is, anyone in the business of recovery. Giving people one option is not giving them much hope and it does not offer any choice. The other assisting methods should be more widely available for those who feel they need them. And I think people need to be educated about self and responsibility - especially people around the age of 2 on up. Kids need to learn that they can choose - maybe up to a point, I don't know - but if they find they need help they have a menu of choices and not just one that seems to cause so much strife among people who believe it is not a solution to the drink problem.
Don't get me wrong - if someone asks me about AA I will tell them my story, which I consider to be a success story. I have many, many friends who sobered up in AA, but there are also many others who went right back to drinking/using after four or five years of tumultuous sobriety.
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
Pennywise
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 20:13
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Yeah, i agree with that.
Yeah, i agree with that.
"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."
Clara
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 20:25
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I do, too. What you do in
I do, too. What you do in sobriety is important, and it is important to me not only to be sober but that it be a fun sobriety.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
NoAAUK
Sat, 06/09/2012 - 07:10
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I took away from AA were the
I took away from AA were the life skills to be informed and aware.
Informed about what, that you are powerless against a dead plant that has gone past the rotting phase, that God will stop you drinking and remove your shortcomings if you go to cult meetings and recruit new members.
Yes you learn to be aware, aware of Control Freaks, Sexual Predators and Cult BS and Scaremongering
......and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Matthew 24:11
becket
Sat, 06/09/2012 - 13:17
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I don't defend the care and
I don't defend the care and feeding of contemporary extrapolations of the program of AA. Your questions are asking me to do so. I have no answers for you that you will understand, as evidenced by your responses to my recent, carefully-crafted and honest attempts to share my opinions and insights with you. That goes for your following post as well. If you want the answers to your questions about contemporary AA, ask someone who is currently a member of AA and is inspired to provide you with answers - answers that you will reject and deny, I might add. I'm done continually posting in earnest so you can take your cheap shots at me. I'm not your enemy. If you cannot fathom that, it's your loss.
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
NoAAUK
Sat, 06/09/2012 - 06:15
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Becket
Becket
"Realize that change inside and outside of AA is slow to come - we cannot even truly see the wheels moving."
There is NO change in AA, thats a major part of the problem. That was what made me walk out mid meeting at my last cult indoctrination session. A woman did what I call the "They told me...I want what they've got....character defect" speech that I first heard more or less word for word 30 odd years earlier. Its the same cult talk repeated over and over and over again, week in week out, year in year out, now century in century out
"We are culpable for those things we actually did have a part in. It's our responsibility to carry that message,"
Those things we actually did have a part in are actually done, what does sitting in meetings constantly waffling on and on about the past achieve other that mounting guilt (a vital part of cult indoctrination) and does steppism qualify you as some kind of spiritual guru to whomever is in a formative state, or are you just a cult indoctrinator for steppism
"I had a series of sponsors that didn't fit, and then I found the one I could zip through the steps with"
"Realize that change inside and outside of AA is slow to come - we cannot even truly see the wheels moving."
Stepper contradiction?
"Of course Bill Wilson's writings were a reflection of who he was - how else could or should it have been?"
Rarely have we seen a person fail blah! blah! blah! his book was claimed to be a cure for every so called alcoholic not just wilson
"there's a tremendous lot of fixed information that will be good till the end of time."
So does God actually remove shortcomings?
"and I would want the surgeon to be current on his book-learnin',"
so you would agree the Alcohol/Drug Problems treatment industry needs to move beyond 12 step?
"Best of intentions, not the greatest outcome. There are no guarantees"
I think we need better guarantees than this:-
http://www.orange-papers.org/orange-effectiveness.html
Especially if Iain Duncan Smith is intending to force unemployed Brits into AA
"I hate seeing people assume leadership roles in any capacity when they are clearly unqualified. It's surgery with a bad outcome"
Alcoholics Anonymous? http://www.orange-papers.org/orange-effectiveness.html
"when I left AA, not many people were listening; the lion's share of them were talking, talking, talking in treatmentese, which sounded like shit to me."
So why advocate something which sounded like shit.....stepper contradiction?
"I'm all for freedom, and I don't much mind how anyone gets there. But I don't see how anyone who is dead set against learning something new is ever going to find it."
Again why advocate AA, steppism is more dead set against hearing something new than any organisation, church cult or whatever
......and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Matthew 24:11
gigi
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 15:59
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Thumbs up.
Thumbs up.
"If I forget who I am, I am myself. If I remember who I am, I am you."
alkieanon
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:08
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avogadno
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:32
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I'm not in agreement with
I'm not in agreement with that part becket, that it should be attempted and tried diligently. For some the wholehearted attempt can be harmful. Because I believe that it is a process of brainwashing the attempts allow for more pressure to comply. I honestly believe this. Perhaps you didn't witness or experience this part, but being told to trust "them" and not your own instincts is a red flag. I think that is a wrong message to tell anyone at any time. Especially a person that had previously been harmed. Like a woman that had been assaulted. Does that mean that after you try all the different meetings you shouldn't stop? Different sponsors as wekk (and with me different groups, NA to AA)? Should we continually not trust ourselves? I don't buy it for a minute. There is absolutely no reason that anyone should be told to not trust their instincts and not to think. I find it ridiculous and the expectation isn't reasonable at all. I was also told that I was safe. Not true. They told me that my anxiety would lesson the more I attended. Not true either, it's actually the opposite....I don't see any good reason that a stand up organization could have for that kind of advice.
Pro Empowerment!
Truth about AA: http://orange-papers.org/menu1.html
Expose AA: http://www.expaa.org/
becket
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:36
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I will concede that point in
I will concede that point in the interest of people's right to maintain whatever measure of sanity they come into the program with. If some know intuitively that to continue would do more harm than good, they should probably leave. Those who are bullshitting and just want to slide know who they are, and they might be the ones who should try to stay a little longer and quit "operating" as if the whole thing is a game.
Bear in mind, I had been sexually assaulted before I ever hit my teens, repeatedly, and had been raped, had had multiple miscarriages, and my marriage was totally on the rocks when I went into AA. I didn't feel any special dispensation was in order because the program might "hurt" me. What could hurt me after that? Setting me on fire? I stuck it out and I did what was right for me. But each person should decide for himself what is best.
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
Clara
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:35
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Some also come in so damage
Some also come in so damage by their addictions that they cannot think. It depends on what you come in with...
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
becket
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:38
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I had guts, that's what I
I had guts, that's what I brought with me and that's what I usually stand on today. I drank more than any woman should ever drink and took every drug anyone handed me without even asking what it was, but I did not sustain liver damage and my mind was fairly well intact. It's interesting to see what's under there when we get away from the substances and we see how strong and bright we are.
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
JR Harris
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:39
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And the cult of Alcoholics Anonymous herds them in
AA herds the damaged and criminal element into the rooms of AA, where they can be "Anonymous."
"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.
becket
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:50
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So glad you were able to
So glad you were able to appreciate the nuances of my posts, JR Harris.
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
live_free_or_die
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:52
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I'm curious
What was your part in the rapes becket?
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http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/
Clara
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:56
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No interest in any of the
No interest in any of the rest of the post, LFOD?
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
live_free_or_die
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 20:00
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nope
.
Alcoholics Anonymous: MyNotGodHasItCovered®
http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/
becket
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:57
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Why would a sane man even go
Why would a sane man even go there?
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
live_free_or_die
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 20:03
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Sane men
I am asking, becket, because I have seen AA members try to place blame on the victims, you know, what was the victims part in the incident?
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http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/
becket
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 20:17
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Contrition FAIL.
Contrition FAIL.
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
gigi
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 19:58
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Enough already LFOD.
Enough already.
"If I forget who I am, I am myself. If I remember who I am, I am you."
live_free_or_die
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 20:04
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It's a far question gigi.
AA'ers try to blame the victim.
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http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/
gigi
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 20:08
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No. It's a stupid question
No. It's a stupid question whether posed by an AA or someone trying to stick it to an AA.
"If I forget who I am, I am myself. If I remember who I am, I am you."
live_free_or_die
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 20:12
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you are entitled to your opinion
as am I.
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http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/
becket
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 20:16
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. . . as am I.
. . . as am I.
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
becket
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 20:15
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Far be it from me to worry
"It's a far question gigi."
You're right, live_free_or_die, it's far, far from anything a decent man or woman would ask. You say "AAers try to blame the victim", and yet here you are, posing as an anti-AAer, taunting and blaming the victim. How do you explain your absolutely appalling failure to understand the situation and how ignorant you appear?
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
Clara
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 20:22
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I already addressed a similar
I already addressed a similar circumstance in another post, LFOD. Some things are simply random and the only part you have, if you choose to call it that, is that you were breathing.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
live_free_or_die
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 20:37
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The sympathy card?
judge becket, you have on numerous occasions expressed absolute indifference to the actual, factual crimes that occur in AA. Documented crimes becket.
You have expressed an uncaring attitude towards these victims, your attitude is one of "hey, it's a cruel mean world out there, and shit happens. You have said yourself that rapes can happen anywhere out there in this cruel, cold wprld becket.
Where was your sympathy for these victims becket?
Am I incorrect in assessing your attitude in this becket?
And here you are playing the sympathy card?
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http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/
becket
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 21:09
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You are referring to crimes
You are referring to crimes that occurred in or near AA meetings. I am not convinced that a single perpetrator of any of these crimes was involved in the program of AA. My position on the OPF is as someone who does not believe that AA is, at is essence, a truly evil program.
I am playing no sympathy card. It's a cold, cruel world out there. Shit happens. I got over it. Why can't you?
You are incorrect in assessing every single thing about me that you have attempted to assess. There is no way you are going to deter me or sway me or persuade me that you are the possessor of anything that I need or want or should know about.
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
alkieanon
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 20:31
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