I thought this would make a good topic after just reading another repeat post by Marietta. Whenever the claim of sponsors telling sponcees not to take drugs she pipes up with "show me the evidence". Let's give it a go.
In my home town, Brighton in Sussex, there is a guy who is very active in AA and also one of the good oldtimers. Let's call him "Huggie" Mike, for no other reason than that is what people call him. He gives everyone a hug on meeting. Mike has had a long term and serious problem with schizophrenia. He has been medically evaluated and monitored for most of his life because it will not go away - it has to be managed.
When he first entered AA (late 70s, early 80s) his sponsor told him he couldn't be properly sober until he quit the meds he was on. Wanting to please his sponsor (dangerous, but often happens) he quit. 3 weeks later he jumped from a motorway flyover. He didn't die, but was several months in hospital. That is fact. Anyone can go to that town, ask for him, and ask him.
The following is from page 5 of Orange's letter :-
"Orange. Thank you so much for this on-line book. I lost a friend to the "anti-drug therapy" crowd. She was bi-polar and to be accepted and belong she went off her medication got drunk fell asleep and burned to death (nobody wanted anything to do with her after she went off her meds). I am still sober, inspite of the people in aa. I hope many more good and trusting people read more of your book...
thanks
Daisy
Hi. Thanks for the complements. Sorry to hear about your friend. I fear for a friend of mine, too, for the same reasons. Congratulations on your sobriety, and keep up the good work.
By the way, I just ran across a survey on A.A. members' attitudes towards medications, and it claimed that A.A. members were not at all dogmatic about medications — only 17% of the sponsors were against them. What the writer of the article did not seem to be able to realize is: that meant that any person with both a psychiatric and a drug or alcohol problem had a 17% chance of getting a bad sponsor who just might kill him or her with stupid orders...
(See: Alcoholics Anonymous and the Use of Medications to Prevent Relapse: An Anonymous Survey of Member Attitudes. ROBERT G. RYCHTARIK; GERARD J. CONNORS; KURT H. DERMEN; PAUL R. STASIEWICZ. Journal of Studies on Alcohol, Jan 2000 v61 i1 p134.)
What I know is, the very first friend of mine who went to Dual Diagnosis Anonymous ended up in the "lucky" 17% — he got told to quit taking the Paxil that he really depended on to keep his head together. Fortunately, he ignored the "advice" of his sponsor and the other old-timers, and stayed on his meds, and was still okay the last time I saw him. I am, of course, telling him to ignore those fools and just stay on his meds. I'm keeping my fingers crossed.
— Orange
P.S.: Oh, by the way, 17% is almost exactly the odds of death if you play Russian Roulette with an old Colt 45 6-shooter. One bullet in one of the 6 chambers gives odds of 16 2/3% of blowing your head off.
It seems like Alcoholics Anonymous is just as dangerous as Russian Roulette, for people with psychiatric problems."
It seems that AAs take on not using drugs is similar to the Catholic Churches take on abusing alter boys. Everyone knows it goes on, but God forbid we admit it.
This question about meds comes up regularly, so why not try and set up a thread that answers it.
Brett
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 16:19
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More of clarissa's billshit
ur up in the air over lots of things, "just smile at 'em & go on with the doc's advice" what about those that don't, what about people who are so sick & vulnerable thet listen to this common cult advice. For no-one the program is all they needed. probably more coorrect all they never needed. get a job sponger.
Brett
Clara
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 16:23
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What is a sponger, Brett? I
What is a sponger, Brett? I am afraid I am not up on your slang.
Read the literature. What is the matter, Brett? When you smiled and told them the dr was more qualified and they then responded as they did... you didn't feel you could just walk away? I would have.
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Brett
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 16:33
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spongen cult members
suck the life blood literally from the newcommers it's a bit like vampires, they also refuse to take self responsibility or work, pretty much like urself. once again what about those that don;t walk away & have added to the A.A death lists. get a job bludger.
Brett
Clara
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 16:42
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Brett, I have had a job and a
Brett, I have had a job and a career, and I have retired. I understand that you are angry that others have a different life than you do, but try to deal with it appropriately.
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Brett
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 17:03
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Prospect hunting
Aint no job much less a career. I couldn't give a flying fat rats arse that others have a diff life to me, only clancy dick succkers care about that sort of thing, dealing with the likes of you appropiately would involve firearms or at least a rope. get a real job, bludger
Brett
gigi
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 16:50
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Walk away Clara
Don't you feel that you can just walk away from the OP forum? You clearly want nothing that any of us have. Walk away Clara. Do it now. Your 90 in 90 is up. Walk away. Just go.
"If I forget who I am, I am myself. If I remember who I am, I am you."
btnben
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 16:52
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Just Walk Away, Clara
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fjFzUVCQ1vM
God damn it, get me a whiskey
Bill W, Deathbed
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causeandeffect
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 17:40
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You know Gigi, after I made
You know Gigi, after I made it absolutely clear that she was harming people with her presence, she just couldn't wait to tell me how she was going to come back today and tell me off. Well, I suppose she probably has done that somewhere here in this blog, but I don't care what she has to say. Still, what kind of pure unadulterated arrogance does it take for a person to keep returning againandagainandagain when not only are they aware that they are unwanted, but that their presence is actually harming people and preventing them from healing. It really is the height of egotism and arrogance.
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Clara
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 17:46
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Cause, when I see remarks
Cause, when I see remarks such as that AA tells people not to take birth control pills and other such lies, I realize that there has to be someone willing to step up to the plate so that people won't believe those lies. I don't believe that I am harming anyone that might believe the stories that some disgruntled people spread. I am sorry that you feel "told off." That certainly wasn't the intention. But you too lie about me because you can't wait to try to discredit a person that has fared well by AA just because I haven't told you a year by year history of my life.
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causeandeffect
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 18:00
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clara, I don't feel "told off
clara, I don't feel "told off" and if you did tell me off, I didn't see it. Nor do I care. It is true that people have been told to get off all kinds of medication, that was admitted in the living sober book, and AAcultwatch among other areas you didn't not want to look at, so that you can claim you've never seen it. But yes it happens with all kinds of meds.
Speaking of meds, what is clancy's email address? You said I was free to email him, so I will. Thank you in advance.
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Clara
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 18:19
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It was never my intent for
It was never my intent for you or anyone else to feel that way. I don't see where it as "admitted' in the Living Sober book. It address drug misuse as a threat to sobriety.
If you want to link me to something, fine. I'll read it, but I am not going to ferret through everything in AAcultwatch to get to some sentence that might say something about Clancy. I also have to weigh what some disgruntled ex-AA might say verses what has been my own experience. I personally know that Clancy takes some meds for physical conditions, which is how I know that he isn't anti meds for legitimate purposes. What they are, I do not know.
Clancy's email is listed at the Mission website. Go for it! It is publicly available. No one needs to give it to you.
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causeandeffect
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 18:41
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Clara, I can't believe you
Clara, I can't believe you can't see that Living Sober admitted that there has suicides due to people being told to get off their meds. It clearly states that is exactly what happened. I have given you link after link. I've copied and pasted for you. I've even typed this shit out for you, word for word.
Why can you not just give me Clancy's email address. I have no idea what mission website you are referring to. There must be a million mission websites.
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Clara
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 19:04
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It is called The Mission,
It is called The Mission, Cause.
It's a personal belief of mine that people that commit suicide would generally do so regardless of what they were taking and sometimes even because of it. We had two people commit suicide within that past two week in MB that were coincidentally AA members. Both were taking their meds. One was a mess but the other seemed fine and engaged. I am not for saying anything to anyone about their meds unless if it obvious that abuse is taking place. Anyone doing so is remiss and doing so in clear disagreement with the AA stance.
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causeandeffect
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 19:14
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I googled it clara, and there
I googled it clara, and there's the word staff is not on the page. You are trying to obfuscate because you don't want me to ask clancy. Just give me the addy.
I bet at least one of those suicides were because they got off their meds. The other was probably due to an insufferable AA member. Doesn't it seem odd that you would have 2 suicides in the same area within 2 weeks?
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Clara
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 19:18
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No, it is called Midnight
No, it is called Midnight mIssion and you can find his email addy under staff if you look on the right for the drop down.
I am not sure how "odd" I would find it, Cause. You don't know what is going on in someone's head and I didn't go to any meetings with them to know their stories or conflicts. One wasn't a real surprise and she had just started coming, but the other just apparently came out of the blue.
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causeandeffect
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 19:29
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I looked that up clara, and
I looked that up clara, and there's no drop down on the right. Just give the url for the staff page please. I have been more than accommodating for information you have asked for.
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Clara
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 19:33
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Yes, you have and I
Yes, you have and I appreciate it. But I have also told you where you can get his email address, and I have also told you that I would not be posting it on this board. Go to midnight mission in LA. Look under staff, and Clancy's name and email are both there.
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Pennywise
Fri, 04/20/2012 - 04:11
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Clara said: unless if it obvious that abuse is taking place
Clara said: I am not for saying anything to anyone about their meds unless if it obvious that abuse is taking place.
So AA does have a stance on drugs. Interesting that AA, a support group, does not give people who violate AA's stance on abusing drugs the chance to talk about their struggles with those drugs.
New Prospect during share: I fucked up bad last night. After 3 months dry, I chopped up my Oxy pills and snorted them.
Stepper: I'm sorry to hear that. Such drug use goes against the AA program. Time to start over. Would you like your first 24 hour chip?
Prospect: Thanks. It's like I could just feel the powder going up my nose before I even chopped up the pills. Now I'm having thoughts about injecting it. I don't know what to do. I'm really scared.
Stepper: Hey now, we don't talk about drug use here. You'll have to confine your comments to alcohol.
"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."
avogadno
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 19:51
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denial
Give me a D. Give me an E. Give me an N, I, A, L.
What's that spell? Full of shit.
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Persephone In Exile
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 20:03
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HHAHAHAHAHA, Avo!!
HHAHAHAHAHA, Avo!!
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causeandeffect
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 20:11
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LOL! That's funny. Not as
LOL! That's funny. Not as funny as cult member clara going to a cult meeting that the cult deems to be a cult. There's so much circular logic in that it's like watching a dog chase its tail.
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Clara
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 20:16
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Hey, I am an openminded lass
Hey, I am an openminded lass sowe would have a go at it. After all, the last meeting that was considered so challenging was determined to be pretty tame, so who knows what we will find in AZ?
Have a good night, alll. Off to pop soap from the molds.
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causeandeffect
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 20:20
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Clara, I think those meetings
Clara, I think those meetings would be perfect for you. Right up your alley. Fit you like a glove. I bet they even have singleness of purpose. Sweet dreams.
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Brett
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 21:27
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opened minded lass
so bloody open minded ya brains have fallen out, open legged I belive, bet they was always open when you was drinking, somthing ya miss isn't it, bloody opened mouthed too, but ya got the function of ya arse & ya mouth all mixed up, an all that spews forth is just stepper shit. fk off troll, go get a real job
Brett
becket
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 21:55
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Dear Brett:
Dear Brett:
Yo mama was an opened minded lass - so bloody open minded her brains fell out, open legged I belive, bet they was always open when she was drinking, somthing she missed, eh? Bloody opened mouthed too, but she got the function of her arse & her mouth all mixed up, an all that spewed forth was just bullshit. fk off troll, go get a real job.
Love,
becket
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gigi
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 17:47
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People like Clara are who I
People like Clara are who I wanted to get the hell away from by leaving AA. And lo and behold, here she is polluting my eyeballs with her serenity.
"If I forget who I am, I am myself. If I remember who I am, I am you."
becket
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 18:24
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Uh . . . don't look, do as
Uh . . . don't look, do as you please?
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Clara
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 17:42
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Gigi, I learn a lot from this
Gigi, I learn a lot from this forum. The bullies' behavior says more for their lack of recovery than anything else.
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Brett
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 17:50
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Billshit bully girl
we aint sick diseased individuals, thats your forte, most here have recovered, unlike steppers. You the biggest bully here your just more polite about it than I am, so fuck off, go slurp some more of clancy's line of dick.
Brett
becket
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 18:21
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You win, Brett. You're
You win, Brett. You're sicker than JR Harris.
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Brett
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 18:36
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how would you know
whether I'm sick or not, ya just jumping to conclusions like the dick sucken prograam encourages ya to do. ya dont even know urself, ya just yet enother billshit dick sucken drone, fk off & get a job,
Brett
gigi
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 17:52
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Well Clara, I can't say that
Well Clara, I can't say that I learn anything from you. Everything that you have to say has already been said at any number of meetings I sat through. I'm not interested in what you have to sell. The behavior of others on this forum says nothing about their recovery. It says a lot about you being an insufferable pain in the arse.
"If I forget who I am, I am myself. If I remember who I am, I am you."
Clara
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 18:14
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Gigi, I am not here to sell
Gigi, I am not here to sell you anything. I have never been abusive, mean spirited or crude. People are that way on this forum to anyone from the gitgo that said they didn't have a miserable time in AA. They would behave that way toward anyone that felt that way, not just Clara, so I realize that it is them, not me.
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gigi
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 20:08
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No. I think it's mostly you.
No. I think it's mostly you.
"If I forget who I am, I am myself. If I remember who I am, I am you."
Clara
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 20:11
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I don't think so. I have
I don't think so. I have seen the behavior leveled toward others.
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btnben
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 16:22
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Depression is really self-pity
I've just been reading the aacultwatch take on meds and this paragraphed jumped out - made me laugh.
"Nevertheless according to these self-appointed “professionals” depression has been re-diagnosed as self pity (in one instance that we know of this masterly insight was presented not by a psychiatrist or psychoanalyst, nor by a general practitioner or consultant – no, this profound conclusion was arrived at via the services of a plumber!)."
http://www.aacultwatch.co.uk/p/medication.html
God damn it, get me a whiskey
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gigi
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 16:56
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Yep.
And the anxiety I felt during meetings and after inventory was all due to my dishonesty. The only way to cure those feelings was by going out and finding a new guy to work with. Right. The meeting I used to go to is on that site. I think the guys at aacultwatch might be on to something. Good times.
"If I forget who I am, I am myself. If I remember who I am, I am you."
causeandeffect
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 17:49
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Ben that plumber bit was the
Ben that plumber bit was the only way I found the correspondence I was looking for. It was a link off that page.
http://aacultwatcharticles.blogspot.com/2011/12/transcription-1.html
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avogadno
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 19:47
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That's odd Ben, I was reading
That's odd Ben, I was reading another angle about Depression. They said it was repressed anger towards themselves. I tend to think it's a chemical problem. I remember being a little girl and depressed.
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causeandeffect
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 20:03
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Yeah, avo, I never bought
Yeah, avo, I never bought that "repressed anger towards the self" but that's what AA would say, and I have heard them say that. I think it's possible that it might be that in some instances, but I think it's MUCH more likely to be other issues. (And I was depressed as a small child too)
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btnben
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 17:12
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This is real - It's Clancy
God damn it, get me a whiskey
Bill W, Deathbed
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