AA Sponsors' "No Meds" stance over the years.

I thought this would make a good topic after just reading another repeat post by Marietta. Whenever the claim of sponsors telling sponcees not to take drugs she pipes up with "show me the evidence". Let's give it a go.

In my home town, Brighton in Sussex, there is a guy who is very active in AA and also one of the good oldtimers. Let's call him "Huggie" Mike, for no other reason than that is what people call him. He gives everyone a hug on meeting. Mike has had a long term and serious problem with schizophrenia. He has been medically evaluated and monitored for most of his life because it will not go away - it has to be managed.

When he first entered AA (late 70s, early 80s) his sponsor told him he couldn't be properly sober until he quit the meds he was on. Wanting to please his sponsor (dangerous, but often happens) he quit. 3 weeks later he jumped from a motorway flyover. He didn't die, but was several months in hospital. That is fact. Anyone can go to that town, ask for him, and ask him.

The following is from page 5 of Orange's letter :-

"Orange. Thank you so much for this on-line book. I lost a friend to the "anti-drug therapy" crowd. She was bi-polar and to be accepted and belong she went off her medication got drunk fell asleep and burned to death (nobody wanted anything to do with her after she went off her meds). I am still sober, inspite of the people in aa. I hope many more good and trusting people read more of your book...
thanks
Daisy
Hi. Thanks for the complements. Sorry to hear about your friend. I fear for a friend of mine, too, for the same reasons. Congratulations on your sobriety, and keep up the good work.

By the way, I just ran across a survey on A.A. members' attitudes towards medications, and it claimed that A.A. members were not at all dogmatic about medications — only 17% of the sponsors were against them. What the writer of the article did not seem to be able to realize is: that meant that any person with both a psychiatric and a drug or alcohol problem had a 17% chance of getting a bad sponsor who just might kill him or her with stupid orders...

(See: Alcoholics Anonymous and the Use of Medications to Prevent Relapse: An Anonymous Survey of Member Attitudes. ROBERT G. RYCHTARIK; GERARD J. CONNORS; KURT H. DERMEN; PAUL R. STASIEWICZ. Journal of Studies on Alcohol, Jan 2000 v61 i1 p134.)

What I know is, the very first friend of mine who went to Dual Diagnosis Anonymous ended up in the "lucky" 17% — he got told to quit taking the Paxil that he really depended on to keep his head together. Fortunately, he ignored the "advice" of his sponsor and the other old-timers, and stayed on his meds, and was still okay the last time I saw him. I am, of course, telling him to ignore those fools and just stay on his meds. I'm keeping my fingers crossed.

— Orange

P.S.: Oh, by the way, 17% is almost exactly the odds of death if you play Russian Roulette with an old Colt 45 6-shooter. One bullet in one of the 6 chambers gives odds of 16 2/3% of blowing your head off.

It seems like Alcoholics Anonymous is just as dangerous as Russian Roulette, for people with psychiatric problems."

It seems that AAs take on not using drugs is similar to the Catholic Churches take on abusing alter boys. Everyone knows it goes on, but God forbid we admit it.

This question about meds comes up regularly, so why not try and set up a thread that answers it.

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Move on, Dolson.

Don't bet on it troll.

Go ahead, enjoy yourselves - it's getting late, much later than you think.

Clara's picture

No one is trolling but you.

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Technically you are the troll here, clara.

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I disagree, Cause. A differing opinion, and all opinions were welcome. But thank you for agreeing that is all that is necessary to be branded, even if Orange doesn't agree with you.

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May I suggest:

Defender of the AA faith.
AA Prospect hunter in training.
AA propagandist.
Outright AA liar.
AA scarecrow trying to chase newcomers away from the Orange Papers....

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AA Apologist. 12-Step Sympathizer. AA Faithful. Evangelistic AA. AA Probey.

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LOL!

AA harpy
AA enforcer
AA nag
serenity hornet
whackaloon

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I don't get the anger that someone else didn't have the same miserable experience you did and you fault them for it.

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At least you could try something original for a change. We aren't newcomers defender of the AA faith.

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There is a lot that you don't 'get', it seems. If anyone who spends as much time as you do on this forum still doesn't 'get' why people are angry about AA, then you are obviously either not reading carefully enough or suffer from a complete lack of human understanding.

Could I refer you to PIE's blog from yesterday, and then can you explain to us all why in your opinion she has no right to be angry?

& the result is obvious. She don't want to get why people are angry at A.A, she just wants ta troll & defend her cult. Ya dont need to drink to enjoy the advantages of alcohol clara, just go hang out round the pub about closing, a line like "hey lonesome" oughta do it. Once ya get a bit you'll feel a lot betta & things'll clear up for ya

Brett

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I don't know which link you are referring to. All you have to do is look at JR's links.

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I went to one, but you have to wade through a bunch of stuff from 2008 and I never found what he alluded to. But what of your link, Cause? You are the one that cited a non-named study and then something about Clancy.

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Clara's picture

No, JR, I haven't.

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Boulder police: Laureano Sifuentes used AA position to grope woman
By Erica Meltzer, Camera Staff Writer
Posted: 02/10/2012 01:59:45 PM MST

Police arrested a man this week who is suspected of using his position within Alcoholics Anonymous to inappropriately touch a woman during a meeting at a Boulder hotel.

Laureano Sifuentes, 64, of Longmont, had been under investigation by Boulder police since November. He was arrested Wednesday.

According to police, Sifuentes is associated with a local Alcoholics Anonymous group, and he persuaded at least two women that he would help them through one of AA's 12 steps, which requires disclosure of information in a private, one-on-one meeting.

Police said Sifuentes arranged a private meeting at a hotel with the victim and another woman. The victim told police that during the meeting, Sifuentes touched her sexually. She fled from the room and called a friend to pick her up.

The other woman told police she did not see what happened between the two, but she did see the woman run from the hotel.

Sifuentes was arrested on suspicion of unlawful sexual contact. He bonded out of the Boulder County Jail on Thursday. He could not be reached for comment Friday night.

In an informational packet sent to the Camera, the Colorado AA states, "AA experience does suggest that it is best for men to sponsor men, women to sponsor women. This custom usually helps our members stay focused on the AA program."

Anyone with information about the case is asked to call Boulder police Detective Colleen Wilcox at 303-441-4483.

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Clara's picture

Good for them. I wonder why they would agree to meet anyone at a hotel? Even if you were doing your 5th step with a person of the opposite sex, it doesn't require a hotel room. I met with the professional in a professional office environment.

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Actions like this were spawned from Midtown and the cult tactics of the Pacific Group which is known Internationally as an anti-medication cult. The Pacific groups and its leaders should be delisted from every Intergroup and banned from public assembly.

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The study is named in the subject of this thread, clara. Just look at the top of the page. People have the same odds of going off their meds as a game of Russian Roulette.

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I just read this through again. So... that a person went off the bipolar meds, got DRUNK and burned to death is necessarily all linked? What would have happened if the person had stayed on the meds but got DRUNK and burned to death?

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The Orange Papers Forum members nearly uniformly find it absolutely criminal if someone in AA recommends that a person in the program stop taking maintenance medications.

The Orange Papers Forum members nearly uniformly find it absolutely gut-bustingly hilarious to characterize a poster who disagrees with them as someone who is off his or her "head meds."

How is it that something so somber and serious when it serves you is suddenly a topic of such mockery and contempt when it does not? I don't find this funny and I don't find it defensible.

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AA members, on many occasions, some written about here, have told people to stop taking doctor prescribed medication.

Whenever you start blowing a gasket we take it as a sign that you are NOT taking your head meds and remind you to do so.

Can you not see the difference between telling someone not to take meds and reminding them to do so? It's a social service...lol

God damn it, get me a whiskey

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Exactly. You presume that someone has "blown a gasket". So if anyone dares to disagree you dismiss them as, what, mentally ill and unable to maintain their own health? If they took their medications and were good little boys and girls who agreed with everything you said, then there wouldn't be this nasty problem?

I see it, btnben. I see it and I think it's pathetically two-faced. You are the main offender in this group, as you well know. Why do you think it's funny? Because you believe it buys your way out of a lame or limited argument? Is that your default position when you don't want to substantiate a claim? What's funny about it? What do you know about these medications and how they work? What's your experience with them? Do you have any?

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You're getting too boring. Every once in a while you go on about treating people with respect and then what happens? Straight on here moaning and trying to start a fight. I will always tell you to get on the head meds if it pisses you off...lol. Are you too dumb to see that? You keep asking what the OPF is for - why are you here? Putting an alternative view? alternative to what? AA is insanity. You haven't been for 22 years so any opinion you have isn't worth jack shit. Again - why are you here if not to cause trouble?

God damn it, get me a whiskey

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I'm here for a variety of reasons, btnben, but where you're concerned I'm here to educate, to illuminate, to point out your little quirks that expose your true nature. If I'm getting boring it's because I'm not talking about you. That much is perfectly clear.

Please return to your hovel and discover the vaccine for AIDS, won't you?

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"Please return to your hovel and discover the vaccine for AIDS, won't you?"

Meds Marietta...lol

And who are you to educate anyone? Got any qualifications? Any subject you're expert in?...lol

God damn it, get me a whiskey

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Yes, I do have a few subjects I'm quite well versed in. But that has nothing to do with my ability to identify a "blowhard without a license".

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What are you illuminating? We've already been to AA. It's a simple (minded) program. Now that we've established that, there's no need for you to stick around. Try to find something you enjoy doing, or go to a meeting.

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I am attempting to educate btnben on the ways of presenting himself without ugliness. Sometimes it just isn't possible.

I don't go to AA meetings. I thought you understood that.

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Persephone In Exile's picture

To be fair, the only time I'd mock people for being off their "head meds" is if I saw my old NA group, because they really are off their meds and they really are effing crazy.

Clara's picture

Some of them probably are, which is where the love and tolerance comes in...

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Funny to see you mentioning "love and tolerance" in regards to people you'd never let in your AA meeting. To be fair, I wouldn't let them in my zip code, but that's an entirely different matter.

Clara's picture

But why, PIE? Why is there a different standard applied to a different person when you seem to share a similar viewpoint? Personalities before principles rather than how it is supposed to be practiced.

And so what? AA is about alcoholism. If an addict doesn't mind coming in and listening to all of that, fine and dandy. Why should someone come into an event and then dictate how it should be done? No one minds as long as the shares are general. What I don't understand is why someone just doesn't start an NA group for your peers. That is how AA groups get started. I know many people that have meetings in their homes and people are privately invited to participate. Why couldn't some woman with a pain med management problem start something like that? Frankly, I wouldn't have been able to stay in a room such as you described. But, gosh, if you bring it up, suddenly you are an elitist or someone that views something as "icky." I notice you aren't getting the same abuse I got about it. But it would be naive to not recognize that there are some aspects to it all that are rather unsavory and not everyone wants to be envolved in it. While it is good to know that is where a drug could take you, it isn't an environment that I could thrive in...

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Can't you come up with anything more original? What about principles before personalities? In other words, why do you feel like you can tell BS story after BS story about the "program" of an adulterous, occultist, con man called Bill Wilson? You have been called on it numerous times. Why do you continue to do it?

P.S.If you just read Dianetics, more will be revealed and you will realize that AA and Scientology are both cults. look for the similarities, not the differences.

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I'm surprised I don't get flack about it. It's just how I honestly feel, but it's based on the people and their standards, not the substances they were addicted to. That has little to do with it.

Someone who actually likes the steps and NA perhaps should start a support group, but that's not for me to do, Clara. I hate the steps.

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Okay, very well. But my problem is that one person could say something about the people verses the substance, yet another is slammed for it because then we aren't about "recovery" and if we are, then we don't care what people talk about... But this is how different groups were started. Even if you were in SMART or SOS or any other recovery group, there might be the type of people you describe in the NA meetings you went to.

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No, the reason you were "slammed" for it was because you didn't want people like me, who don't have a problem with alcohol, in AA meetings when the NA meetings (at least here) are filled with the scum of humanity, and when all of the non-scuzzy addicts DO go (with no local outcry, according to anyone here) to AA meetings if they even choose to do 12 step at all.

And yes, slam me all you want, anyone here, for calling those people the "scum of humanity", I think I can live with that...lol. I'm sure that's not NA across the board, but here, it is. Sorry, it just is.

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PIE, I have few experiences with NA. They opened a meeting to me in Nebraska when I drove back for my uncle's funeral. Turns out that what had been an AA meeting (and advertised) was an NA meeting that took over the slot when the AA meeting disbanded. They opened the meeting to me provided that I respected the nature of the meeting and didn't share. Believe me, for the first time I understood when people say they are grateful to be an alcoholic. Up to that point, anything I heard about NA was repeated from someone else and their pov.

I personally don't care if people want to "slam" me for recognizing different aspects of groups. I cared about the double standard. That you or another anti could say the same thing with impunity while it was open field day on Clara if she addressed the socieo/economic of the makeup of some groups. There are many meetings that are not publicized and open to just everyone, yet Penny et al would scream that those people don't care about recovery as much as they selfishly care about themselves. Yes, there is a meeting at the Capitol in DC that you and I would never be permitted to gain access. I don't see anything wrong with that, either.

What I don't understand is that anyone would feel that AA needs to adjust its protocols to suit people without alcohol problems. It is what it has addressed for 75 years. Plus, you seem put out by that thought when you also agree that you don't believe in 12 steps, anyway. What could have happened in an AA meeting that would have made you want to stay?

No one on this board wants to be in AA, yet they come up with all sorts of improvements that should be made. I don't understand it.

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Well, I get that Clara, I really do. I think it's a bit foolish to ignore socioeconomic issues completely. I think the point before was in regards to newcomers who were seeking help being possibly turned away, people in early sobriety who were looking for help and wanted to be in 12 step meetings, not us at the present time on this board. That, and the fact that in many AA meetings they do allow for people who WANT to be there who are primarily addicts to be present and sponsored if they so wish, due to the very fact that there's a different dynamic in many NA groups. A great many AAs don't have a problem with this, especially these days when it's more and more rare to find people who have both problems, at least to some extent.

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I think most alcoholics don't have a problem with it, and you are right. These days, it is rare to find people that are addicted to just one thing. But this isn't the same thing as people feeling that it is up to AA to change, to "keep up" or whatever... when people can just respect the program for what it is. What a person talks to with a sponsor is their own business. Dena often works with dual addicted people. I have a friend whose story started with valium addiction that went to booze when she kicked pills. I am not going to say that it isn't there. Even Bill W. acknowledged that in the 50's. But AA has a right to dictate it's terms and groups can accept them or reject them. I just don't understand finding fault with a program for being what it is - alcoholics helping other alcoholics. If I went to an OA meeting and discussed booze, is it up to OC to accomodate Clara?

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Clara said:

What I don't understand is that anyone would feel that AA needs to adjust its protocols to suit people without alcohol problems.

Clara, I don't think AA needs to do a damn thing about it. You can abide by your silly traditions if you want to. I just think it would be the decent thing to do. I get that AA doesn't really care that much about sharing its solution to substance abuse with all comers. AA has that right. I think it is pretty ruthless of them to exercise that right, but it's their right nonetheless. Just don't think you are fooling me or anyone here when it comes to what AA is all about. You're some cold-blooded separatists, at least when it comes to those who don't fit in with your image.

"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."

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So now we are coldhearted for wanting to focus on what AA is about - alcohol? AA never wanted to be all things to all people. I think you just want to find something to argue. You don't like the program, but then think it should be open to everyone. That's rich.

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I've explained this multiple times, Clara. It does not matter what I think about AA or whether AA is effective. What matters is that you (not just you, but AA as a whole) think that AA works, yet you nevertheless refuse to give addicts the full benefit of participating in your lifesaving solution to substance abuse.

Look at it like this:

Let's say I have a pill that I think cures cancer. It's really a placebo someone gave me, but I am 100% convinced that the pill is true and genuinely works. Let's then say that I only choose to share this pill (which I think works) with only those people with brain cancer. Although I believe the pill works on all forms of cancer, let's say I refuse to give it to lung cancer sufferers because I think smoking is icky and I can't relate to it. I think that would make me a pretty shitty person regardless of the fact that, unbeknownst to me, the pill is actually a placebo. Got it now?

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Clara's picture

I understand what you are saying, Penny, and always have. But AA wants to be about alcohol only, so why shouldn't they be? "We deal with alcohol." If all the other programs are "just like" AA, why it is up to AA to bend?

What if we have a person that has a cancer cure pill that we know works on brain cancer, but Clara wants it for breast cancer. In all generosity, Penny shares his cancer pill with Clara and it doesn't work for her cancer. What is she to do then? Blog about what a crappy pill Penny gave her even though he told her it was for brain cancer?

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Billshit you deal with cult religion & faith healing. stop sucking the clancy dick & get a job ya bludger

Brett

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You are losing, my child.

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Christ it's a shivering thought that brainless grubs like you can actually breed, ya shoulda bin nuetered at birth or dropped into a becket of water. I read in a recent post you said you'd leave, & wouldn't attend a meet where someone was talking about sucking dick but you suck the clancy line of dick, so how about ya fuck off, & I'll never lose to a bludgen stepper, get a job slacko.

Brett

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It is not a matter of whether it is up to AA to bend. AA should do it because it is the decent thing to do. People's lives are at stake and AA supposedly has a solution that it thinks works. Let the addict decide for himself whether he belongs. If he decides AA is for him, don't treat him like a second class member.

"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."

Clara's picture

As he can do. As I have said, we have many dual addicted people in the fellowship. It's a non-starter, Penny.

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Pennywise's picture

No, you treat him as a second class member by not letting him discuss the substance abuse problem that is killing him. It's kind of like saying a yatch club is integrated because it employs a few black dock hands.

"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."

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