I thought this would make a good topic after just reading another repeat post by Marietta. Whenever the claim of sponsors telling sponcees not to take drugs she pipes up with "show me the evidence". Let's give it a go.
In my home town, Brighton in Sussex, there is a guy who is very active in AA and also one of the good oldtimers. Let's call him "Huggie" Mike, for no other reason than that is what people call him. He gives everyone a hug on meeting. Mike has had a long term and serious problem with schizophrenia. He has been medically evaluated and monitored for most of his life because it will not go away - it has to be managed.
When he first entered AA (late 70s, early 80s) his sponsor told him he couldn't be properly sober until he quit the meds he was on. Wanting to please his sponsor (dangerous, but often happens) he quit. 3 weeks later he jumped from a motorway flyover. He didn't die, but was several months in hospital. That is fact. Anyone can go to that town, ask for him, and ask him.
The following is from page 5 of Orange's letter :-
"Orange. Thank you so much for this on-line book. I lost a friend to the "anti-drug therapy" crowd. She was bi-polar and to be accepted and belong she went off her medication got drunk fell asleep and burned to death (nobody wanted anything to do with her after she went off her meds). I am still sober, inspite of the people in aa. I hope many more good and trusting people read more of your book...
thanks
Daisy
Hi. Thanks for the complements. Sorry to hear about your friend. I fear for a friend of mine, too, for the same reasons. Congratulations on your sobriety, and keep up the good work.
By the way, I just ran across a survey on A.A. members' attitudes towards medications, and it claimed that A.A. members were not at all dogmatic about medications — only 17% of the sponsors were against them. What the writer of the article did not seem to be able to realize is: that meant that any person with both a psychiatric and a drug or alcohol problem had a 17% chance of getting a bad sponsor who just might kill him or her with stupid orders...
(See: Alcoholics Anonymous and the Use of Medications to Prevent Relapse: An Anonymous Survey of Member Attitudes. ROBERT G. RYCHTARIK; GERARD J. CONNORS; KURT H. DERMEN; PAUL R. STASIEWICZ. Journal of Studies on Alcohol, Jan 2000 v61 i1 p134.)
What I know is, the very first friend of mine who went to Dual Diagnosis Anonymous ended up in the "lucky" 17% — he got told to quit taking the Paxil that he really depended on to keep his head together. Fortunately, he ignored the "advice" of his sponsor and the other old-timers, and stayed on his meds, and was still okay the last time I saw him. I am, of course, telling him to ignore those fools and just stay on his meds. I'm keeping my fingers crossed.
— Orange
P.S.: Oh, by the way, 17% is almost exactly the odds of death if you play Russian Roulette with an old Colt 45 6-shooter. One bullet in one of the 6 chambers gives odds of 16 2/3% of blowing your head off.
It seems like Alcoholics Anonymous is just as dangerous as Russian Roulette, for people with psychiatric problems."
It seems that AAs take on not using drugs is similar to the Catholic Churches take on abusing alter boys. Everyone knows it goes on, but God forbid we admit it.
This question about meds comes up regularly, so why not try and set up a thread that answers it.
causeandeffect
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 19:44
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Oh please do, clara. Here's
Oh please do, clara. Here's the meeting list.
http://www.aacultwatch.co.uk/p/cult-where-to-find-us.html
Now, can you give me clancy's email addy, please?
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Clara
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 19:25
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Gigi, I am not pretending to
Gigi, I am not pretending to be stupid, if that is what you want to call it. I have never paid any attention to the site to form any opinion. There, you taught me something so I will keep an eye out for it now.
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Brett
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 19:28
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verbatim: in her own words
she aint pretending to be stupid, it just comes naturally to those that slurp down the clancy line of stepdick.
Brett
Clara
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 19:10
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My apologies, Cause.
My apologies, Cause. MIDNIGHT Mission under staff.
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Pennywise
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 19:32
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It is clancyi@midnightmission
It is clancyi@midnightmission.org
"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."
causeandeffect
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 19:47
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Thank You Pennywise! I'll be
Thank You Pennywise! I'll be emailing him over the weekend. It's too late tonight.
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Pennywise
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 19:48
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Out of curiosity, I wonder
Out of curiosity, I wonder what his position is on addicts in AA?
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Clara
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 19:54
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I understand that he doesn't
I understand that he doesn't prefer drug talk in AA. I mentioned the lack of singleness of purpose here in EP.
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becket
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 21:45
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When is it "too late to email
When is it "too late to email"?!
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JR Harris
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 21:51
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Clancy is too busy chasing tail to respond
He's after the Clara's, etc .....in AA.He's following in the footsteps of the original 13 Stepper Bill Wilson. open your eyes, you are not powerless like the cult of Alcoholics Anonymous has told you. Not being in a meeting for 22 years should have deprogrammed you. Unless you are a liar.............
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becket
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 22:01
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No, JR Harris, I am certainly
No, JR Harris, I am certainly not powerless. I have the power to think for myself. This is a very fine-tuned power, one which tells me repeatedly that you are an embittered, lonely curmudgeon whose happiest moments occur when he clicks "save" on the OPF.
Who are you to say what 22 years should have done? You have no idea what has transpired in my life for the last 22 years or any of the rest of it except for what I have volunteered on this forum. You don't know what I've had to deal with, you don't know anything about my successes and my defeats. I'm no liar, sir. There's nothing to be gained by lying, is there?
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JR Harris
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 22:15
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You don't act like it. You seems enamored with Bill Wilson
Of course most brainwashed drones of the AA faith act that way. Don't worry though, only a small portion of the 5% that stay get made into martyrs of the well known adulterous, occultist and con man known as Bill Wilson. You may get lucky (just stay away from Clancy, the "lucky" I am talking about is not the "lucky" that the unemployable con man started.)
P.S. Thank-you for giving me a chance to highlight the cult of Alcoholics Anonymous once again.
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billybudd
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 22:36
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ben link
Wow. The link offers irrefutable proof of ben's always-rightness. But wait! I found this thrice-vetted rebuttal:
"btnben will link any silliness that appears to support his preconceptions, no matter that its flimsiness approaches absurdity; and ben promotes anti-enacted AA!)"
http://www.benisadoofus.lol/youcandobetter
becket
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 16:01
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Where's that link I asked you
Where's that link I asked you about yesterday, causeandeffect?
becket
Wed, 04/18/2012 - 04:12
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causeandeffect
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 17:04
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Interesting that you know
Interesting that you know what date and time you asked me something on one day, but on another day you confuse your very own posts as being JR's. Very weird.
Ok, what link did you ask me for? What was it about?
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causeandeffect
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 18:57
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becket I thought you wanted
becket I thought you wanted the answer to this
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Brett
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 15:25
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No justifying you Clara
youre here getting into peoples faces in pretty much the same way as the "literature" suggests, piss off back to ya cult cave witch.
Brett
Clara
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 16:01
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What do you mean, Brett?
What do you mean, Brett? What is the need for name calling like a 5 year old?
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Brett
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 16:12
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stems from the anger
I feel about decietful lying cult pushers like urself. ur nothing but a dick sucking wilsonite, get a job ya bludger.
Brett
Clara
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 16:19
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You know you've won when
You know you've won when someone resorts to this type of childish behavior.
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Brett
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 17:08
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Wynning are ya
like bills mistressess, your nothing more than a program whore, sucking 12 step dick, Try a real one & try a real job.
Brett
JR Harris
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 15:50
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Clara, I'm not "Prospect Hunting"
I am more the Green Peace ship sailing into the prime prospect hunting grounds of the AA faith. Chasing away the newcomers they have set their sights on for asset depletion and conversion into more prospect hunters. You're in a sick cult that is killing people and destroying lives. The fact that 95% of the "prospects" that come through the doors of your cult leave, should tell you something.
I don't use this information to try and get people to perform weird rituals in church basements. I use this information to prove that the emissaries of the cult that are trying to get people to perform these occultist ceremonies can not be trusted. There is a big difference.
I'm not worried about the 95% that leave and I only wish to protect the small percentage from the 5% that stay from being made a martyr by their death by the angels of death that AA breeds. You only have 5 years in the cult. How many martyrs have you seen and heard about? While your at it, why don't you ask Clancy the same thing.
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becket
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 16:00
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Damn, you are one sick human
Damn, you are one sick human being, JR Harris. I use the term "human being" lightly.
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JR Harris
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 16:08
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You're only as sick as your secrets..... Marrietta
You should talk....
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Clara
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 16:04
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That's bull, JR. You do it
That's bull, JR. You do it to try to make it out as if you are some computer cyberstalker. You've been wrong on everything you've ever posted about me.
It doesn't mean anything to me, if the statistic is even real. Plenty of people move on to other things but that doesn't mean they've gone back out. They may have gotten just what they needed and moved on with life. That most of the people I know have more than 10 years of continuous sobriety means more to me than any statistic put out by anyone.
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JR Harris
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 16:04
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That isn't what Google says...... cribbisque
Or Yahoo, Bing, etc........
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Clara
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 16:17
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JR, nothing points to
JR, nothing points to Cribbisque more than I did myself when the girls had that Huff piece submitted. You are claiming something that I outed myself on. So what? So much for all your silly references to soup. How lame.
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becket
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 13:15
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And no one was willing to
And no one was willing to walk him through a suspended sentence or a revisitation of charges?
Was he driving the car? Did he have insurance? Yes, cancer is a bitch but it doesn't sound as if he got slapped around by it as badly as many people without family, transportation, or insurance do.
You just don't want to answer these very pointed questions. What would the law have done if he had just blown off the mandate? Arrest him? Why didn't you just go to NA for him and leave him alone to watch t.v.? No one would have asked for your i.d.
I'm the reason AA is loathed? Bullshit. Clancy is the reason, gossip is the reason, murder is the reason, probing into personal details of people's lives is the reason - get is straight, hater.
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JR Harris
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 13:26
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Are you a complete moron?
The guy was dying. He didn't want to spend his last days fighting a DUI charge, working some stupid steps with cult members. It's stupid statements like what you are saying is exactly what he didn't want to hear. I just got him into a meeting and his card signed as quick as possible and took him away so he could go back to his family without having someone like you making stupid statements. Could I have done it differently, of course I could have. He didn't know and I didn't know if he was going to die the next day or not. He certainly didn't need a bunch of idiot cult members making statements like you are.
I can tell you're one of those low life's that goes to funerals and start praising the cult to make a martyr out of some poor guy. They are the sickest people on the face of the earth.
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becket
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 13:40
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If the guy was dying, what
If the guy was dying, what made you think it was a good idea to pack him up and drag him to NA meetings? You're the moron.
You were behaving more like a cult member than I ever would have. You're the one who thought it was a better idea to drag his cancer-stricken body to an NA meeting instead of leaving him at home and going in his place to get his card signed.
You can tell nothing about me. The fact that you're angry just illustrates that you're looking at your own behavior and rightly feeling ashamed of your short-sightedness. It's your own cult mentality and fear of the law that makes your participation in this charade despicable. Moron.
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JR Harris
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 13:53
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How would you know anyway, you haven't been for 22 years?
I took him to the victim impact panel and a AA meetings first. He didn't want all of the idiot Bill Wilson chanters prying into his life, so I found a meeting that was known for just signing your card and letting you go. Bill Wilson chanting is the same cult whether it is AA or NA and the probation department just wants a 12 Step Group. AA meetings and NA meetings were held at the same place at different times. Simple problem solved in the time constraints needed.
Why don't you start going back to AA before you answer. You haven't been there in 22 years. Things have changed.
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becket
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 15:56
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It doesn't matter how long it
It doesn't matter how long it's been since I've been to a meeting. I know the program and I have a pretty good idea what is and is not tolerated with regard to slip signage. If you "found a meeting that was known for just signing your card and letting you go", then you did this poor cancer-riddled man a disservice by dragging him to the meeting when you could have gone anonymously in his place, had his stupid card signed, and let that be that. You just didn't want to have to sit through the chanting yourself, did you?
Yes, things have changed, but ways around the system have not. Sorry you didn't have the gumption to follow through. Sorry, but not surprised.
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Brett
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 15:08
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Moronic stepptards
Or stupid steppers, or sucked in steppers, there's no point arguing with or questioning brainwashed idiots JR, it's like trying to teach a pig to talk, it upsets the pig & makes you look silly. & the A.A faithfull we gets around here are definetly swine mate.
Brett
becket
Thu, 04/19/2012 - 15:57
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"Babe"
"Babe"
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causeandeffect
Tue, 04/17/2012 - 19:56
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"I don't think that would happen in America"
For god's sake clara, your buddy Clancy is that father of the anti-med cult. And his sponsee Mike Q operated in DC where you claim you're from. I don't believe you for a minute that you've never heard any of the anti-med stance. Not even for a second.
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Clara
Tue, 04/17/2012 - 21:44
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All you have to do is read
All you have to do is read what it says in the back of Living Sober to know what I have heard. I don't know Mike Q and while I lived in DC from 1993 to 1997, I wasn't in recovery there. I've talked to Clancy on two occasions, never about meds of any kind. You are assuming a great deal, Cause, just so you can disagree with me. Personalities...
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JR Harris
Tue, 04/17/2012 - 22:08
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Clancy I around the web................
Treasure trove: http://www.aacultwatch.co.uk/search/label/Clancy%20I
Orange papers on Clancy: http://orange-papers.org/orange-clancy_i.html
AA Group Accused of Cult-like Practices: http://www.wheremostneeded.org/2007/05/aa_group_accuse.html
The Cult of AA topic posted Wed, May 2, 2007: http://fobw.tribe.net/thread/8da36487-4d8a-4221-bb5d-cf478e564ee5
For starters..................
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causeandeffect
Tue, 04/17/2012 - 22:16
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Yeah clara, here's a site by
Yeah clara, here's a site by AA members who are concerned about these behaviors. The first links says
"Clancy is an exponent of the anti-prescribed medication perspective!)"
But you can keep denying it if you want to.
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becket
Wed, 04/18/2012 - 01:12
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What site is that?
What site is that?
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Clara
Wed, 04/18/2012 - 07:36
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That takes me nowhere, Cause.
That takes me nowhere, Cause. Can you give me something real? I mean, the AA stance is good enough for me. If you are under the care of a physician, ine. If you are buying it out back of an NA meeting, not fine. Why wouldn't it be good for someone else?
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JR Harris
Wed, 04/18/2012 - 07:39
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If you want something real, don't read the fairytales of AA
And don't worship an occultist, spiritualist, adulterer and pusher of pagan rituals in church basements called Bill Wilson.
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Clara
Wed, 04/18/2012 - 07:49
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Cause, it's because I know
Cause, it's because I know personally that Clancy takes meds. I was his host for the El Paso Jamboree, and he specifically called me to tell me that he needed a fridge in his room for his meds, as well as a few items because some of them had to be take with food. He wanted a particular kind of cheese and cracker in his gift basket. The man is in his 80's. He probably takes the same meds for his diabetes, blood pressure and eye ailments as many of his peers.
You'll have to give me a better link.
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JR Harris
Wed, 04/18/2012 - 07:59
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More fun on the Internet about Clancy I
http://community.mentalhelp.net/archive/index.php/t-17.html
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causeandeffect
Wed, 04/18/2012 - 08:43
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If Clancy takes meds all it
If Clancy takes meds all it means is that he's a hypocrite. Why do I have to give you a better link. There are plenty of good links on this thread. It's not my fault if you can't see that which you don't want to see. If we could show you a video of Clancy telling someone to not take their medications, you still wouldn't see it. Trying to prove anything to you is pointless.
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Clara
Wed, 04/18/2012 - 09:06
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Your link didn't go anywhere,
Your link didn't go anywhere, Cause. I would have liked to have seen it.
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JR Harris
Wed, 04/18/2012 - 09:10
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Yet more about this Clancy guy.........
How about this one.........
http://xsteppers.multiply.com/journal/item/1259/Yet_more_about_this_Clan...
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dolson
Wed, 04/18/2012 - 09:17
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I Would
Just as I would like to see a research paper, or the thesis paper you wrote to earn your fake master's degree Clara?
You better have marietta becket produce one for you ASAP.
Go ahead, enjoy yourselves - it's getting late, much later than you think.
Clara
Wed, 04/18/2012 - 09:19
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Go on about your game, Dolson
Go on about your game, Dolson. Not interested in playing it.
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dolson
Wed, 04/18/2012 - 09:20
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Your game of lies clarietta?
Your game of lies clarietta?
Go ahead, enjoy yourselves - it's getting late, much later than you think.
Clara
Wed, 04/18/2012 - 09:27
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Move on, Dolson.
Move on, Dolson.
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