Counter Speech

Someone posed the question "I don't know why the steppers choose to read and comment on this site ..."

Guess the short answer is "counter speech".
http://www.cnn.com/2012/03/22/opinion/wolf-rutgers-internet-privacy/inde...

"Speak up: Clicking to report hate speech to an online host is not all we can do. Justice Louis Brandeis, in a 1927 Supreme Court case, extolled the virtues of "counter-speech" to address objectionable speech.

That pre-Internet admonition applies full force to online messages today. Hate speech legitimizes discrimination, and many of the people who post it believe no one objects. So object. Speak up to counter the lies of hate speech or the inappropriate online conduct directed at minorities. Just as the Internet provides thoughtless haters with broadcasting tools, each of us has those same tools at our disposal. A little counter-speech can go a long way."

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Ironic's picture

Is the fact that you are a consistent presence here. Dropping in to share your opinion is different than blatantly trolling, which is what you do.

"Fine if you want to go there. You are as welcome as anyone else." To e-AA? Are you kidding? Questioning the program on e-AA leads to a permanent ban, no matter how respectful you are. I've never joined but I've looked (I've got respect like that, not to go where I am not wanted) and seen it happen a few times, a surprising amount of times for the few seconds I've spent looking there.

I don't care if AA worked for you. There are plenty of places you can go to share about how fantastic your cult is with like minded individuals. This is not one of them. You are here to upset people and upset their process of deprogramming. You say that people have a choice? Well, people that choose to get the fuck out of AA choose to come here, maybe to look at research, maybe for some support.

You are here to try and shame people and because you obviously can't stand anyone expressing their opinion about AA having the last word.

And you are right about one thing. I do not understand the mental dysfunction involved in choosing to spend so many hours a day on a website that opposes your beliefs. It is just kind of pathetic.

Trisha K.'s picture

Don't know what fired you up nor do I care at this point. But beating up Clara is not going to satisfy the hunger you have for vengeance. This is not the site you think it is. You are fantasizing again. Orange made it crystal clear a few weeks ago what this site was and who was considered a member. We are members here.
Ironic do me a favor if you will, look up the definition of troll, copy it, then paste it to your mirror in your bathroom. Maybe then you will not forget what you are doing here today.

“The more I traveled the more I realized that fear makes strangers of people who should be friends.”
Shirley MacLaine

btnben's picture

..

God damn it, get me a whiskey

Bill W, Deathbed

http://www.youtube.com/watch?source=patrick.net&v=Sdn3O6aaMNc

causeandeffect's picture

Orange never said anything about who are members except when it comes to you. He made it crystal clear that you are NOT a member when he banned you THREE TIMES!

Troll free AA critical forum
http://www.expaa.org/

"The good thing about science is that it's true whether or not you believe in it." ~ Neil deGrasse Tyson

Trisha K.'s picture

your garbage here anymore. I call it garbage because it really is. You carry around this smelly old sack of shit, and at specific times you reach in, and grab a handful, and hurl it at a poster.
I feel for ya kiddo, that you can't just let it go. But, I guess this is your mission here on this site.
Yes, Orange was talking to me, Causy. I am sad that you find it necessary to act as if you think what you are saying has any importance where it concerns me.
Like I told your buddies JR and Ben, if you can not accept the fact that I am here to stay, get lost. Calling me Danny and saying I have been banned 3 times can be looked at as an effective strategy for trying to get me to incriminate myself. IDK!!! Maybe you think if you say this enough, Orange will come running to your rescue, and rid this site of my presence....lol.
I personally think you are a freaking jerk, who has nothing better to do then harass other members here, when you feel like a worthless piece of shit. Just my opinion though?

“The more I traveled the more I realized that fear makes strangers of people who should be friends.”
Shirley MacLaine

JR Harris's picture

Google knows, and your Internet foot print is unmistakable...............

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

becket's picture

If you feel shame, Ironic, that's your deal, not Clara's. Perhaps an inventory is in order . . .

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

live_free_or_die's picture

are you attempting to "sponsor" Ironic?

Alcoholics Anonymous: MyNotGodHasItCovered®
http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/

avogadno's picture

"There are plenty of places you can go to share about how fantastic your cult is with like minded individuals. This is not one of them. You are here to upset people and upset their process of deprogramming. You say that people have a choice? Well, people that choose to get the fuck out of AA choose to come here, maybe to look at research, maybe for some support."

Pro Empowerment!
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Expose AA: http://www.expaa.org/

Clara's picture

I have learned a great deal about AA on this very site, Ironic, things I never would ahve thought to question or research. How I choose to spend my time is my business, and I note that you don't say the same about others that spend certainly a larger quantity of time than I do. Why the prejudice?

Orange has welcomed others into what is an open forum. You don't have to like it, but it is a fact.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

Ironic's picture

ARE ANTI-AA. AS IN, THEY SHARE THE BELIEFS FROM WHICH THE ORANGE PAPERS WERE CREATED.

Orange keeps this an open forum so that the whole world may see the trolls defense of AA. Which is not based in scientific fact, as are our beliefs. A creative way to display who has got the facts on their side.

Not you, that is for sure.

Clara's picture

I cannot see why he would possibly care. And I do believe that science has caught up to what many people thought about alcoholics decades ago, and one of them is Bill. What he described in the 30s has been born out by science, and they've been studying the brain and alcoholism since the 50's.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

Trisha K.'s picture

Absolutely!!

“The more I traveled the more I realized that fear makes strangers of people who should be friends.”
Shirley MacLaine

btnben's picture

lol

God damn it, get me a whiskey

Bill W, Deathbed

http://www.youtube.com/watch?source=patrick.net&v=Sdn3O6aaMNc

btnben's picture

lol

God damn it, get me a whiskey

Bill W, Deathbed

http://www.youtube.com/watch?source=patrick.net&v=Sdn3O6aaMNc

Ironic's picture

What did Bill describe in the 30s that was born out by science? I can't think of a single thing.

avogadno's picture

Clara said that, not me.

Bill Wilson said that alcoholism was a spiritual malady and if you fixed yourself up spiritually, that would heal you mentally and er, umm...I believe he said physically too. Page 64 of the big book.

Are saying that SCIENCE has proved Bill Wilson's theory?
Did science also prove that sacrificing your sins before God and another person would work to keep you sober?
Please direct me to the studies engaged by scientists (not Christian Scientists though) that prove Bill Wilson's religion cured alcoholism or at least put alcoholics in remission.
Hurry please, before my alarm goes off and wakes me up.

Pro Empowerment!
Truth about AA: http://orange-papers.org/menu1.html
Expose AA: http://www.expaa.org/

becket's picture

Whaddyou got that's based on "scientific evidence" that cannot be countered by "opposing scientific evidence" So what? If what we each have individually is good enough to get through the day, ain't no studies on predisposition or the alcohol gene gonna make no difference.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

avogadno's picture

It doesn't matter if the results of scientific testings vary occasionally. That isn't the point.

Clara said the science backed up some of Bill W.s findings. I can't think of any, let alone Bill's main theme that alcoholism is a spiritual malady. She should back up that completely bogus statement.

Pro Empowerment!
Truth about AA: http://orange-papers.org/menu1.html
Expose AA: http://www.expaa.org/

What exactly about Bill Wilson's description of alcoholism "has been born out by science"? And who were the "many people" you refer to?

Clara's picture

I am of the personal opinion that alcoholics don't metabolize alcohol the same as non-alcoholics, and I get something more out of that drink than a normal drinker would. My irish great grandmother could tell which of her kids would be drinkers (in a negative sense). I think alcoholics are bioogically different. I felt this way much much sooner than when I joined AA. In Bill's writings, he says much of the same things. Now, I don't think he was an originator as much as he was a compiler, so I don't know where a lot of it came from, but alot of it describes the affect on the pleasure centers as being different than others.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

Pennywise's picture

I am of the personal opinion that alcoholics don't metabolize alcohol the same as non-alcoholics, and I get something more out of that drink than a normal drinker would.

That is not the kind of statement that lends itself to a personal opinion. That is the type of statement that can easily be verified by science and should not be left to a hunch. To be sure, there are people (mostly in Asia) who do metabolize alcohol differently. These people rarely become alcoholics because they get sick as hell when they drink.

"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."

becket's picture

Science is not the big orgasm in the sky, folks. What keeps me sober has little to do with verifiable studies conducted by renowned researchers.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

JR Harris's picture

Freudian slip? Unverifiable studies conducted by a renowned adulterer by the name of Bill Wilson are what you go by?

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

becket's picture

No slip, certainly not Freudian! Do you know nothing of Freud's theories?

My choice of words is always carefully considered. I said what I intended to say.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

btnben's picture

The metabolism of alcohol is one of the simplest in organic chemistry. Ethanol (C2H5OH) gets oxidised(?) to acetaldehyde (CH3CHO) and then to acetic acid (CH3COOH). Enzymes then convert it to CO2 and H2O. Because ethanol (alcohol) is such a simple compound, there is no other possible metabolic route. Or do you know differently? (My chemistry is nearly 40 years old so there may be couple of mistakes, but the basic idea is correct)

God damn it, get me a whiskey

Bill W, Deathbed

http://www.youtube.com/watch?source=patrick.net&v=Sdn3O6aaMNc

Ironic's picture

Clara, your personal opinion does not equate to anything being "born out by science." We see through your little word games. We are not pigeons that can be so easily deceived by AA's bait and switch tactics.

Clara's picture

I don't consider it to be a bait and switch. I see the effects on the pleasure centers being different on alcoholics than non to be pretty realistic to me. I was asked a question and I answered it.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

btnben's picture

What's the neuro-chemistry?

God damn it, get me a whiskey

Bill W, Deathbed

http://www.youtube.com/watch?source=patrick.net&v=Sdn3O6aaMNc

Clara's picture

You explain it to me, Ben. You seem to want something to do .

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

btnben's picture

Because "alcoholics" aren't physically different from other people. They just abuse themselves to the point of damage. They are not "speshul"...lol

God damn it, get me a whiskey

Bill W, Deathbed

http://www.youtube.com/watch?source=patrick.net&v=Sdn3O6aaMNc

becket's picture

And your endorsement of Billy Bob's Pie Charts on Boozin' and Gittin' Hooked on Dope do not don't exactly carry a boatload of weight either, Ironic.

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

causeandeffect's picture

Actually Pennywise, Stanton Peele addressed that theory here

http://www.peele.net/faq/indians.html

and here.

http://www.peele.net/lib/atlcgene.html

It very well could have more to do with cultural expectations than anything else. I know early in my drinking years before I developed a problem, my mood and surroundings effected whether I would get sick or not more than anything.

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"The good thing about science is that it's true whether or not you believe in it." ~ Neil deGrasse Tyson

Trisha K.'s picture

because they became irresponsible every time they drank. They had/have friends who drink but they don't respond the same way as Penny, ben and Ironic do. Yet these three will argue this until their last breath. Guys you can't drink like other people and never will. We are all the same.
Keep it simple......:)

“The more I traveled the more I realized that fear makes strangers of people who should be friends.”
Shirley MacLaine

Clara's picture

I would STILL drink if I could have drank like other people. Okay, I DID drink like other people because eventually that is all I could befriend. But I would still be drinking if I could have done it like a normie. I love Grand Marnier.

Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.

Pennywise's picture

That's an inaccurate statement. I'm not going to get into a drunkalogue, but I was generally not a falling down wasted drunk. Most days I would start drinking at 7am and drink throughout the entire day. My problem was not so much irresponsible behavior when I drank, but that I drank pretty much all day everyday to the point that my body and mind could no longer take the poisoning.

"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."

Trisha K.'s picture

That's why you stopped drinking. Penny, don't start flip flopping.

Penny, ruminate, on this comment you made, awhile......sigh!!

"My problem was not so much irresponsible behavior when I drank, but that I drank pretty much all day everyday to the point that my body and mind could no longer take the poisoning."

Normal people who drink alcohol don't behave this way. This has been my experince. Yes, Penny, I would have known you were an alcoholic "sitting on that bar stool" because you just described me.

“The more I traveled the more I realized that fear makes strangers of people who should be friends.”
Shirley MacLaine

Pennywise's picture

I stopped drinking because I was dying and fucking up from being impaired all the time. If you drank with me on any given instance you would probably not think I was an alcoholic. Sometimes I got totally wasted, but not usually. If you lived with me and saw that I drank like I did everyday, then you would know I was an alcoholic. If you smelled booze on me all the time, you would know. If you saw me nipping out of flask in the bathroom stall at work, you would know. If you saw me mixing booze in my coffee or juice, you would know. But if you sat with me in the bar or at a party where other people were drinking, you probably would not tell.

"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."

becket's picture

Not snarky: were you a heavy drinker as opposed to one with an alcohol dependence? If you were dependent on alcohol, what characterized your dependence and set it apart from simple heavy drinking?

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

Pennywise's picture

Withdrawals for one. I never had DTs, but I'd shake and puke without booze, at least toward the end. I also had a lot of anxiety about making sure booze always near me.

"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."

Ironic's picture

I can drink just fine. I don't know about Penny or Ben, but I am a cheap date. 3 beers and im already a puke risk. So I don't drink much, but when I do I stop and start just fine and appropriately.

I did a lot of drugs for a lot of years recreationally. My problem was heroin/oxy, not alcohol. I don't understand the appeal of alcohol, its yucky. Possibly since I am so small (5' 98 lbs) I just don't hold it well. Never have. I always get sick before I even feel "good" from alcohol lol I just get the spins.

becket's picture

Most of the drunks I know were indifferent to the taste of alcohol. It was only the ones with money who could regularly afford to spend $150 on a bottle of wine that found booze "appealing".

“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

If alcoholics metabolized ethol alcohol "differently" than non-alcoholics, it would be an easy experiment to prove or disprove. Has any study been done to measure this theory?

Pennywise's picture

If it was true you would know about it already. As you said, it would be an easy study.

"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."

This post is somewhat self-aggrandizing. Does opposing AA, exposing the myriad flaws and nonsenses in the 12-step programme, and objecting to it being allowed to masquerade as any kind of legitimate treatment for addiction, really amount to “hate speech” in the real world? I think the term is more about attacks on and abuse of individuals and groups based solely on their race, sex, sexual orientation, religion, etc. Therefore, TraceLin threatening to rape me and calling me a “little whore” on these pages because I'm female might well count as “hate speech”, and he was subsequently banned . However, arguing with the ideas of the 12-step faithful really is not the same thing, however noble you might consider your “counter-speech” to be.

I don’t personally hate anyone in AA, btw, or anyone who thinks AA is a good thing. I might personally think they are deluded, but they are entitled to their opinions (and I'm entitled to argue with them). What I do hate is an organization that will continue to promote its own religious program and agenda at the expense of genuine people who need real help with a serious problem, and the fact that it is so hugely dishonest about its effectiveness and success rates. What I hate even more is rehab centres making massive profits out of the misery and desperation of others, and playing with people’s very lives by cynically selling an irrelevant, ineffective, and often hugely counter-productive religious program instead of addressing the issue of addiction in any proper way.

I’m allowed to hate that fact. And it doesn’t count as “hate speech”.

live_free_or_die's picture

that quite eloquently.

I agree with everything she said, but, I would add that this "treatment" program of AA/12 Steps is killing people.

Alcoholics Anonymous: MyNotGodHasItCovered®
http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/

JR Harris's picture

Per the LEGAL assignment through the LEGAL tax returns of the following entities:

GENERAL SERVICE BOARD OF ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS INC
475 RIVERSIDE DR
NEW YORK, NY 10115-0002

EIN: 237282071
Ruling Date: 08/1943
NTEE: F220 - SUBSTANCE ABUSE TREATMENT
ERI NTEE: F22 - SUBSTANCE ABUSE TREATMENT

ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WORLD SERVICES INC
475 RIVERSIDE DRIVE
NEW YORK, NY 10115-0002

EIN: 131679617
Ruling Date: 08/1963
NTEE: F200 - SUBSTANCE ABUSE DEPENDENCY, PREVENTION & TREATMENT ERI\
NTEE: F20 - SUBSTANCE ABUSE DEPENDENCY, PREVENTION & TREATMENT

AL-ANON FAMILY GROUP HEADQUARTERS INC
1600 CORPORATE LANDING PKWY
VIRGINIA BCH, VA 23454-5617

EIN: 135636290
Ruling Date: 09/1956
NTEE: F220 - SUBSTANCE ABUSE TREATMENT
ERI NTEE: F22 - SUBSTANCE ABUSE TREATMENT

I think that says it all...............

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

live_free_or_die's picture

The post above indicates each entity's ruling date. Have you seen these rulings (also called determination letters)?

I have still to see the Form 1023 filed for these entity's, which is what generates the ruling/determination letter.

Now I just thought of something, the courts have ruled that AA is a religion. AA/12 Steps are not a "treatment", so how can these entity's be tax-exempt as "treatment" anything? I wonder...

Alcoholics Anonymous: MyNotGodHasItCovered®
http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/

JR Harris's picture

I believe that they are buried deep in the denial of the Corporate offices of Alcoholics Anonymous. If you want ,every Friday at 11:00 they hold open chanting at the Interchurch Center for anyone that wants to go and no reservations are needed, you could ask then. I would like to know where the final resting place and owner of Bill Wilson's Ouija Board is also. that is a very valuable relic of the AA movement that helped to write the "Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions."

"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.

live_free_or_die's picture

Ok. Well, if someone asks to see the 1023 they are required to produce it.

I'll call tomorrow on the Ouija board and ask if there are any home movies of bill w and his girlsfriends.

I am curious now as to how a "hokey religion" can be classified as substance abuse "treatment". This was done back in the early '40's before the court cases.

Alcoholics Anonymous: MyNotGodHasItCovered®
http://www.expaa.org/
http://bereanresearch.com/
http://badrecovery.blogspot.com/
NOT AA:
Rational Recovery, SOS, HAMS
http://alcoholabusesolutions.com/

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