Someone posed the question "I don't know why the steppers choose to read and comment on this site ..."
Guess the short answer is "counter speech".
http://www.cnn.com/2012/03/22/opinion/wolf-rutgers-internet-privacy/inde...
"Speak up: Clicking to report hate speech to an online host is not all we can do. Justice Louis Brandeis, in a 1927 Supreme Court case, extolled the virtues of "counter-speech" to address objectionable speech.
That pre-Internet admonition applies full force to online messages today. Hate speech legitimizes discrimination, and many of the people who post it believe no one objects. So object. Speak up to counter the lies of hate speech or the inappropriate online conduct directed at minorities. Just as the Internet provides thoughtless haters with broadcasting tools, each of us has those same tools at our disposal. A little counter-speech can go a long way."
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alkieanon
Sun, 03/25/2012 - 21:50
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Out of Step
BTW, not a stepper.
MaybeDefinitely out of step. Hup, two, three, four.JR Harris
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 04:12
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If you are not a stepper, why do you post?
If you have never partaken of the art of chanting the blasphemy of Bill Wilson in church basements, you are definitely outcast by the fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous who use the "your not an Alcoholic, so you don't know" defense.
This is like someone saying that you shouldn't be saying anything about Reverend James Warren Jones of the Peoples Temple who first started in California and did take "children" to save them and ended up as the biggest mass suicide in recent history when 909 people took their life (or killed if they refused to do it themselves) after congressman Leo Ryan was assassinated when he arrived in Jonestown, Guyana to investigate them.
http://orange-papers.org/orange-effectiveness.html#JimJones
"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.
alkieanon
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 06:57
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Changing the Subject
Very good question, will a person be happier inside the rooms (church basement) of AA or outside the rooms. Looking for compelling reasons to be outside.
Changing the subject again. What the price of tea in China or the price of beer in Germany have to do with AA? Nothing! Just like Jim Jones of the Peoples Temple.
JR Harris
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 06:33
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Obviously the Orange Papers site thinks Jim Jones is relevant
Did you read the link to the main site? This forum is an addon to www.orange-papers.org, not the main site. Have you ever read them? By the way (BTW) why did you have to mention that you weren't a 12 Step chanter in the very first post on this thread?
"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.
alkieanon
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 06:50
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Orange Papers
Read the Orange Papers several years ago. Downloaded the archive. Still have it.
Because:
Someone posed the question "I don't know why the steppers choose to read and comment on this site ..."
Someone chose to slap a label on someone else. Don't agree with the label.
Clara
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 06:55
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I can remember the furor at
I can remember the furor at the time over all of those dead people because one man wanted his daughter out of there... It was interesting to read at the time taht if the Congressman hadn't gone there, those peope might still be alive albeit in a cult. Even other parents that wanted their children home had horribly mixed feelings about it.
But I don't equate James Jones and his cult with AA in any fashion. I have never been forced to do anything I didn't want to do.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
JR Harris
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 07:03
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If the cult had not been stopped, it may have grown
While the "forced" mass suicide by the cult of the Peoples Temple is unfortunate, if it didn't get stopped more people may have fallen prey to it.
Cults always use some form of "scripture" to legitimize there existence and continually quote it and refer to it. Is the "Big Book" used by any European or South American cults following matriarchal and patriarchal manipulation to help cults control people?
"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.
JR Harris
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 12:59
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Interesting you should pick Rutgers as an example
What happened at Norwich University when Bill Wilson was suspended for Hazing?
"Bill Wilson supended from Norwich University Hazing Incident - Was he a perpetrator or just practicing AA type Anonymity? " http://orange-papers.org/forum/node/1030
"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.
avogadno
Sun, 03/25/2012 - 22:55
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In my opinion it is you that
In my opinion it is you that is bringing hate into the OPF. You probably can't deal with the thought of anyone opposing AA and exposing the truth, so you try to deter it.
This latest tactic should be proven. Has anyone been physically harmed by one of us and in the name of exposing AA truth? Has there been a threat or attempt of violence? Are there secret agendas and hidden meetings?
You quoted:
"Speak up to counter the lies of hate speech or the inappropriate online conduct directed at minorities".
The minority is not you and AA. And the real victims are those that AA lied to and failed to protect. There is honor in what we do because telling the truth is never wrong.
Pro Empowerment!
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alkieanon
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 06:35
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Opinions, not facts
Opinions, not facts. You're certainly entitled to your opinions. The question is whether or not you tolerate other people's opinions.
All for opposing AA and exposing the truth. Bring it! No problem here. Just do it in a responsible way.
"Minorities". His word, not mine. Prefer a more generic word, like "anyone". But do have a "minority opinion". Why the ganging up and bullying? That's the point.
avogadno
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 12:58
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If the point wasn't to
If the point wasn't to present AA and supporters of AA as minorities, then it seems to me that clarifying this in your post would be a responsible approach, seeing that you did quote the man. For someone that expects “responsibility” from others and suggests that some haven’t acted accordingly, you should be willing to carry on in the same fashion.
What else was said within what you quoted something you didn't mean? What about that this is "hate speech"?
That was rather bold, particularly misleading as well as an accusatory message. This isn't a fellowship, group, or organization of any kind. There are no rules or "traditions" in which anyone here is obliged to follow. There has also been NO talk of prejudices against any race or ethnicity and there has been no actions or threats regarding any physical harm.
If ganging up and bullying was the point then perhaps that is what your blog should be about. Where did that happen that the tables weren't turned? If I went to a meeting and tried to express my differences there I'd expect that others would speak up in the defense of AA. There would likely be an outcry.
This isn't an organized debate and there is no group responsibility because we aren't a group. We're individuals. As individuals we express ourselves in different ways. Same as AA supporters that come to this forum, you are not responsible for another’s behavior.
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Clara
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 13:57
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I doubt it, Avo. You could
I doubt it, Avo. You could go into any meeting at any time and say what you wanted. Do you really think you could say anything that anyone else AA didn't work for has said? They would smile politely and let you finish. Wasn't that the plan at the ladies halfway house? It's happened in meetings where i've been present, and the person walks out the door, feeling as if he/she "told off AA" when that didn't happen at all. Peope shrugged their shoulders because there is always a malcontent. For that one person that is going to tell off a group, there are many others in that same room that can say it works for them.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
avogadno
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 14:14
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"Smile politely and let me finish"...lol
Ahem. Come on Clara I am not a child and AA is not a Fairyland. I've seen what happens to people that criticize and question AA. Yelling: "Outside Issue!". "Take what you want and leave the rest". "Shut up and listen." I
s that smiling politely? Sure, they are supposed to let you finish but it doesn't happen if you're on the outside looking in.
With approx. 100,000 meetings in the U.S you haven't experienced even 1% of them and now you say that you only go once a week. Don't treat me like a fool that's never attended. What should be happening isn't what is actually happening. If you think we are all lying then say it outright, we can't do anything to stop you. If not, show some courtesy in at least acknowledging that the AA world doesn't surround what you have gotten from it. I've done the same for you..
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Clara
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 14:26
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I only go to one a week NOW,
I only go to one a week NOW, but that wasn't always the case. We didn't talk to people like that. People could share as they would and they did. I've heard criticisms in the rooms, and the only time someone was cut off was when they went past their alloted time to speak. But that would happen to anyone speaking on any subject. And what would be wrong with someone telling you to take what you wanted and leave the rest? I mean, that person had their say, right? What would you expect someone to say to you? We would go on to the next person and that would be it. Were these people that said these things looking for fights? They didn't get them.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
avogadno
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 14:46
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It's particular damning when
It's particular damning when they haven't had their say or when it's being told to shut a person up. Like a newcomer with "not enough clean time".
It isn't about what I expect, it's about what happens. "Smiling politely and waiting for you to finish" is a G rated advertisement of what AA.org and the puff pieces want people to think it's. It's the gurus and fanatics that run the show.
I know you are an AA veteran with many years in the rooms with probably numerous weeks attended. It wasn't today and yesterday though. Regardless, the point is that what you have seen and what you express IS AA, isn't accurate and cannot possibly be indicative of AA on a nationwide or worldwide level. People tell you what they want you to hear, and you see and hear what you want to. It's unfortunate but true.
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Clara
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 15:11
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What do you mean "when they
What do you mean "when they haven't had their say?" If you've gone to the rooms and said your piece, you had your say, didn't you? Or is what yo umean that everyone didn't get up and follow you out, clapping you on the back for enightening them? We hear criticisms often, Avo, and most of them come from mandated people that would prefer not to be there. And we would prefer they not be, too. I would have to ask another question... You mean what YOU have seen IS AA, and IS indicative of AA on a nationwide or worldwide level? Everyone else who has benefited is wrong? When I was speaking with the office in Florida and we pulled up Anti's site together, we noticed that all of the articles that were supposed to indicate the horrors of AA were all from other places than Florida. He wasn't impressed. Even if you pulled up every single negative article you could find about AA, you would still find it to be a teeny bit of a crime stat that would be outnumbered by the 100,000 meetings and their members in this country alone.
I am far from a veteran, Avo.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
avogadno
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 18:07
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No Clara, I’ve never
No Clara, I’ve never interrupted a cult meeting with intention of bashing it during a personal share. It’s because of respect and personal integrity that I’ve let those that want it, have it. But I have witnessed people being “hushed” and other times witnessed people rudely interrupted by an AA bully that thinks they are in charge. In some meetings the entire topic was gurus discussing and deciding for others what was appropriate or not to talk about. Of course, it wasn’t medications or religious shares being quieted but anything that questioned stepping or the disease model.
In case you didn’t realize, I gave AA the benefit of the doubt for many years. I subjected myself to the propaganda and was too scared to speak up because I was all alone, or thought I was. If I could of heard some of the cons and known that it wasn’t all puff like you spout, I could and would have started a different approach and moved on much sooner. As it is, the world doesn’t hear the entire truth because people like you protect it shamelessly and with a ferocity it doesn’t deserve. I’ve witnessed my share of “good” and “bad” meetings. It isn’t beyond the realm of my imagination to believe that there is both, and that both are possible. Including yours.
Bad does not necessarily mean that it’s news-worthy material, either.
Do you know anything about spiritual abuse or what it feels like to have your idea of God manipulated?
I’ve given AA’s way enough of my time and am disgusted really that most claims made in this forum are being downgraded by someone like you. At any mention of a wrong you try and let some AA sunshine through. Hey, not a problem if you’re into promotion rather than attraction, as it appears you are.
When the validity and worthiness of any org or movement is weighed, both sides are taken into consideration. It seems that there is only one side that you want people to see. Every time you share your exp str and hope in this forum, either during or after a discussion about another’s pain, you slap them in the face as if to say it doesn’t matter.... Let’s get down to it.
What do you think of AA’s claims that it is not religious, despite two courts in the U.S. Judicial System declaring that it is? If you haven’t experienced this, perhaps read up on it and let me know.
Do you think it’s quite alright for AA to mislead people into their program just because some might benefit?
Do you think it is alright for them to ignore complaints about abuse that they have received and not acknowledge that it exists? (Let alone do nothing about it and sweeping it under the carpet. They won’t even return a call).
Do you think it is all a big lie?
Do you think that a gal that was raped by a male member of the program doesn’t justify a query by the GSO? What about several rapes in the same group? What if the perp kept “coming back”?
I’m not asking if you think victims should go to the police. I’m asking you the above. Just in case. I was being specific.
What do you consider an AA veteran? 20 years? 10 years?
I was in for the better part of 5 years.
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alkieanon
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 21:49
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The point was "counter speech"
The point was "counter speech".
Some of the news articles posted on OPF have a little "spin" comment tacked on for added effect. Not taken at face value. Hence, "counter speech".
Is "counter speech" allowed on OPF? If it is, then no problem (minority opinion allowed). If it is not, then a problem.
avogadno says: "This isn't a fellowship, group, or organization of any kind. There are no rules or "traditions" in which anyone here is obliged to follow."
It is a blog on the internet, viewed by "millions" as someone else pointed out. That is one of the points of the article. Hence, "counter speech".
Again, is "counter speech" allowed on OPF? If it is, then no problem (no ganging up or bullying). If it is not, then a problem.
avogando says: "... you are not responsible for another’s behavior."
Okay, everyone is responsible for their own behavior. Therefore, no one should be able to pin the blame on anyone or anything else. Hey, wait a minute ...
Clara
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 06:41
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I don't know of hidden
I don't know of hidden agendas or hidden meetings in AA. What do you mean by those, Avo? I suppose the meeting in the Capital in DC that is closed to the public for a variety of reasons could be a hidden meeting, but there is a reason for it.
As for some of the rest of your post, yes, that has happened here on this board just last week, and it did in the hysterical form of a loony woman accusing another of behaviors and motivations she does not have. You wrote a very nice piece about it.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
JR Harris
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 06:47
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"variety of reasons could be a hidden meeting"
Explain "there is a reason for it" when talking about hidden meetings in AA.
By the way, Washington DC is area 13 of Alcoholics Anonymous and the birthplace of Midtown by Mike Q, who was a Sponcee of Clancy I. I think that "hidden meetings" in that context are very dangerous.
Stories of the Midtown Group of Alcoholics Anonymous, Washington DC
http://orange-papers.org/orange-Midtown_stories.html
"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.
Clara
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 06:52
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There is an AA meeting at the
There is an AA meeting at the Capital where house members, their staff and some members of the 4th estate attend. I guess it is the only place in DC where Rep and Dems really can reach across the aisle. I have no problems with this and can see the need for it.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
JR Harris
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 08:23
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I hope they don't "confess" National Policy Problems
I can see it now. Newt Gingrich and his buddies talking about what to do about North Korea because it may make them drink.
"Need to Know News: Health care reform reaches Supreme Court; North Korea moves rocket to launch pad" March 26th, 2012
http://piersmorgan.blogs.cnn.com/2012/03/26/need-to-know-news-health-car...
The existence of a secret society in Congress sitting around "sharing" their experiences is a SECURITY BREACH and should be outlawed.
"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.
Clara
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 08:33
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I think members of Congress
I think members of Congress are entitled to have personal conversations.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
JR Harris
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 08:43
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Not about National Policy and Nuclear Weapons they don't
Next thing your going to tell me is that it is OK to have a mistress like Bill Clinton had because Bill Wilson did it.
"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.
Pennywise
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 09:04
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I can't speak for Clara, but
I can't speak for Clara, but I believe the Stepper response would be that Bill Clinton was not in AA. Usually you have to be in AA to get "Bill Wilson did it" immunity.
"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."
Clara
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 09:34
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LOL! How about the fact that
LOL! How about the fact that I don't care what he does? If Hillary didn't care, why is it my business? I wish he still was in office. We fared very well.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
Pennywise
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 09:43
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Well, I like Clinton. But
Well, I like Clinton. But you could say that if a man cheats on his wife then he'll probably cheat you too if it serves him. I don't know. Are you willing to say that Bill Wilson was wrong to cheat on Lois given the supposed principles AA stands for, or are you going to deflect there as well?
"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."
Clara
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 09:55
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One thing I discovered in AA
One thing I discovered in AA was to accept that I can only choose my own behavior. If Bill had been my husband, I would have bashed him over the head with one of his own bottles long beofre he ver could have started AA. I love the part of his story where he admits that "no real infidelity" took place basically because drink had rendered him impotent.
I've given this advice to people. Many a time I advised my gfs over drinks about their choices in men and why they were making them. And, yes, they came back to the same bar and we drank over the fact that he did her wrong, too. A cheater is a cheater unless he reforms himself, and I do believe that is possible. That is the whole crux of recovery - we can change. I am certainly not pleased with my behavior as a drinking woman and I wouldn't behave that way now. I know people that would describe themselves as good Catholics but that behave is ways I find questionable. You don't have to be in AA to know that no one lives perfectly.
FYI, what is ironic is that Bill is less attractive is person than he photographs while Hillary is much prettier. They used to attend the Methodist Church by the building I lived in DC.
PS. I don't deflect. I simply tell you how I think, and you can take it how you choose.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
btnben
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 10:52
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Those princibles sure do work good...lol
"There had been no real infidelity, for loyalty to my wife, helped at times by extreme drunkenness, kept me out of those scrapes" BB Page 3.
Sounds like when he was drinking his "loyalty" to his wife stopped any infidelity. If it wasn't "real" infidelity then what was it? Synthetic? False? Imaginary?. According to his own words, Bill W kept it in his trousers when drunk. Personally, I don't think he did and any thought of impotence is laughable.
Then what? Bill "sees God", sobers up, writes the drunk bible and proceeds on a lifetime of shagging anything he could get his hands on, completely ignoring his wife's feelings. Gotta love them "princibles"...lol
God damn it, get me a whiskey
Bill W, Deathbed
http://www.youtube.com/watch?source=patrick.net&v=Sdn3O6aaMNc
Pennywise
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 15:16
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Well, that is better than the
Well, that is better than the "Bill Wilson was entitled to side pussy" defense. Still, it does affirm my belief that no matter what the subject, Steppers are constitutionally incapable of making an unequivocal statement that Bill Wilson was wrong about anything.
"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."
Clara
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 15:55
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I thought I did say he was
I thought I did say he was wrong. Did you not read where if he had been my husband, he would have been killed with one of his own bottles before he could have even started AA? Let's not get selective now.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
Pennywise
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 16:14
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See, I agree you would admit
See, I agree you would admit Bill Wilson was wrong about some things BEFORE he started AA. But Bill was banging other broads long after he got sober and started preaching about doing God's will. Here is a test. If you agree with it, cut and past in a new post the following sentence (do not add additional qualifiers or reword it):
"It was wrong of Bill Wilson to carry on extramarital affairs after he started AA."
Can you do that?
"Hokey religions and ancient weapons are no match for a good blaster at your side, kid."
Clara
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 18:00
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Of course I can. I have
Of course I can. I have always felt that way. I don't like much of what I know of him, and I have already posted that I deplored To The Wives. But having said this, Lois would never have divorced him. It's claimed by some that she never knew or looked the other way, but I dated people like Bill Wilson. He needed regular adulation.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
avogadno
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 13:08
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Clara, I was stating that
Clara, I was stating that people in the OPF have not been keeping agendas secretive or having meetings of any kind, and I was defending Alkie's indications about people of this forum. I wasn’t saying that this was an action of AA.
There has been nothing “hateful” in regards to anyone’s conduct here, and certainly no reason to post as if we have a specific itinerary that needs defense from some kind of online cruelty. There is no basis for that whatsoever. If anything, we are all engaging in our constitutional right of free speech.
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Clara
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 14:00
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Precisely and so is anyone
Precisely and so is anyone else on the forum. You might not call it a specific itinerary to go rushing off to another board to "let her have it" but that sure is what I saw. But that is an interesting factor about the first amendment. What might be one person's freedom of expression is bad manners to another.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
Ironic
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 07:59
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Avo
Your statement will never be directly qualified. The trolls know why they are here, and they know we know why, but they'll never admit it. It's much easier on their consciences to think of themselves as the good guys or trying to protect their cult.
That's why I don't come here too much anymore. I can't debate with people who are using made up facts and reject every real study shown to them.
avogadno
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 13:21
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Hi Ironic
I thought that Alkie pointing out it was only my opinion was very unnecessary , lol. Especially seeing that I began my comment by specifically stating such. It was his/her way of saying, "No, that's not true". I never expect any kind of admission, but wanted to express that I knew and I am not falling for most of the offered reasoning behind their presence and behaviors.
I stand by informal commitment to post regularly, even if lately it has been the need to show that I'm not going anywhere, or run and hide out of fear of an argument. However senseless some discussions become.
Ironic, what is your picture of??
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Ironic
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 13:40
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My Picture/Avo
Isn't it a piece of paper from a fortune cookie that says "You love Chinese food?"
avogadno
Tue, 03/27/2012 - 19:13
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Ironi, lol..
Ironi, lol.. I don't know what it is that's why I asked you. I can't see what it says.
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msafrany
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 05:45
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No need to justify your purpose
Funny how trolls always seem to have to convince themselves they are trolling for some "noble" reason. It must be the Marietta syndrome.
It's always good to be reminded that the 12 steps do not make you more spiritual, wise, forgiving or tolerant. It is good to be reminded that 12 step believers really do not practice acceptance, nor do they cease fighting anything or anyone.
Good to know that 12 step treatment is a complete hoax.
And with the help of our trolls, we have it all documented here on the Orange Forum.
JR Harris
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 06:12
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and as an added bonus........
The internet stats for the Orange Papers has already exceed the all time high of last month and we have a full 5 more days left. I am sure that 12 Step opponents on the favorable and unfavorable sides of the controversy are checking in and seeing the tactics of our trolls.The whole world sees the seedier side of the AA faithful.
Oh.... and Google knows....
"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.
alkieanon
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 06:44
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Spiritual, Wise, Forgiving or Tolerant
If one does not find it (Spiritual, Wise, Forgiving or Tolerant) in the rooms of AA, will one find it here on OPF?
Regarding documentation, working on a daily archive. Been steadily increasing in size, but decreased yesterday.
JR Harris
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 07:24
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This is a research site, not a self help group
It is researching the hypocrisy of the 12 Step cult known as Alcoholics Anonymous and various mini-cults it has spawned. The only reason that I can see someone coming here is to deprogram from the Stockholm Syndrome that AA gives its members.
"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.
Clara
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 07:28
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That isn't the case with me.
That isn't the case with me. AA has been very enjoyable for me. I miss it in the form that I knew it and wish it were the same in EP, but it isn't. but OP is a fine forum for me. I wouldn't know how others harrass AA groups had I not come here.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
Ironic
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 08:04
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LOL Clara, stop lying
"i wouldn't know how others harrass AA groups if I hadnt come here."
What a troll mentality. See the difference between most of the bloggers here and you is that we stay out of meetings. We have enough respect to stay away. Not you. YOU are the one who comes on this site with just one aim: to deflect all real discussion about the cult of AA.
Most of us don't talk about AA aside from this forum. We don't troll AA. You troll OPF. You are not here for a noble reason. You are just a troll, you are here to make people who have left AA feel bad. We don't go into your meetings and do anything. We stay away.
You really are deranged.
Clara
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 08:25
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I would disagree with this.
I would disagree with this. I came to an open forum to read a paper and looked around the blogs. I wanted to know why it is that you people came to feel as you do. Some of it is certainly legitimate. I've already said that if I came to AA in EP, I more than likely wouldn't have stayed. It was MUCH different in Myrtle Beach. I don't talk about AA aside from this forum, either, Ironic. I also don't just leap in an attack someone for having a differing opinion. I think you are correct for having left if it wasn't for you, if you didn't get anything out of it, if it wasn't something that appealed to you. Go for something else! There is no one that would want that for someone more than I.
OPF is an open forum and opinions from all are welcome, per the Orange himself. He had to come here to remind people of that fact. As for going to meetings, what I said is a very true statement. One of the most prolific posters here when I got here never went to meetings, wasn't a member of AA, yet she wanted to believe any morsel of misinformation she could because she was trying to close down a meeting. If you go to her site, one that she often linked to here, you'll see photos of people that are minding their own business in a park. It turns out that they aren't going against traditions at all, are not paying for the space because they don't have to pay for it (nor does anyone else) unless you want to reserve it for a specific time and date. Then a great deal of hay was made over that they don't support Intergroup, which is completely separate from AA and a voluntary membership. That's true of every group, and we discovered per JR's research that MOST do not send contributions to Intergroup. But this person was so unhinged that she would lie about someone that wanted to give the group the benefit of the doubt and see it for herself before passing judgment. We went to Truth or Consequences this weekend, and there were a number of bikers staying at the same spa. Some were wearing recovery symbols and they had a meeting in the park by the Rio Grande. No bother to anyone. It can work.
And you have a group mentality of your own. Massive comes over here in a lather because someone on her vanity blog said something about 13 steppers and personal responsibility. Massive wanted everyone to flock over there "and let her have it." The fact is the girl was right on some points, as was everyone else that responded. When I relayed my own experience with it, the looney one screeched that someone in AA should be called. Who are you going to call on someone asking someone else on a date? When someone disagreed with Massive, she screeched that she would call the police, made derogatory remarks and basically looked like a fool. I was embarrassed for her.
Remember Christopher Stevens when you vote.
becket
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 12:09
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We need a new Word For The
We need a new Word For The Day. I'm tired of "deflect".
“The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.”
― Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian
JR Harris
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 12:55
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New words for deflecting from exposing the cult of AA- Pick one
Deviate from exposing the cult of AA.
Avert from exposing the cult of AA.
Block from exposing the cult of AA.
Turn away from exposing the cult of AA.
Avoid from exposing the cult of AA.
Digress from exposing the cult of AA.
Drift from exposing the cult of AA.
Switch from exposing the cult of AA.
Stave off from exposing the cult of AA.
Fend off from exposing the cult of AA.
Dodge from exposing the cult of AA.
Evade from exposing the cult of AA.
Note: No guarantee I will use the one you pick.
"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.
alkieanon
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 08:08
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OPF is a self help group
OPF is a self help group. Bunch of oldtimers biting the heads off of the newcomers?
JR Harris
Mon, 03/26/2012 - 08:14
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No, Alcoholics Anonymous is the cult masquerading as a self-help
group. We do not chant in church basements. We have no main "literature" or "basic text" that we continually quote from. We do not claim to be "Spiritual, not Religious" and have corporate offices at the very religious Interchurch Center on 475 Riverside Drive in New York.
"Welcome to the website for The Interchurch Center, a visible symbol of the oneness of many churches in Christ and reflective of the inspiring growth of ecumenism and inter-religious activity in the United States in the past century."
http://www.interchurch-center.org/
"Tradition 10 - Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy." Please follow orders from the Interchurch Center if you are an AA member and don't comment.
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