Richard Allen Paul needs a Sponsor and Sponcees in Minnesota - Former director of Behavior Services for Essentia Health

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Richard Allen Paul, 57 of Cloquet in Carlton County Minnesota has been mandated to attend three AA meetings a week. He has gone through the elite training of Hazelden on the proper methods to chant the 12 Steps of Bill Wilson and will be back in society soon. He will make a fine Sponcee and Sponsor, so what if he was found outside a teenagers window in a ski mask with a gun peeking in, people change when they become anonymous in the secret society of Alcoholics Anonymous. He may even help in his area with the yearly bidding wars to bring Young People in Alcoholics Anonymous (YPAA) to his fine city when he gets high enough in the cult. Paul was the director of Behavior Services for Essentia Health in Duluth before he was arrested and I am not sure if making him join an Anonymous, secret society is the correct rehabilitation for him.

Published March 14, 2012, 01:29 PM
By: Jana Peterson, Pine Journal

"Sixth District Judge Robert Macaulay quadrupled the recommended jail time Wednesday when he sentenced a Cloquet man who was caught peeping at his neighbor’s juvenile daughters through her bedroom window.

Richard Allen Paul, 57, of Cloquet had pleaded guilty to “interference with privacy” and was sentenced Wednesday in State District Court in Carlton County in front of his victims, other neighbors and his own family.

The charge is a felony because the person whose privacy was violated was a minor.

B.J. Berg discovered Paul outside Berg’s home at 11:30 p.m. on June 14, 2011, wearing a black ski mask, tan shirt and jeans peering into a bedroom window. When Berg confronted him, Paul said something about trying to find his dogs. Berg told him, “Not at my daughter’s window, you’re not’’ and told him to get off his property.

Berg followed Paul to his home and called the police, who searched Paul’s home and found night vision goggles, a ski mask, clothing and a loaded handgun. Paul admitted to police that he had a firearm on his hip when he was outside Berg’s home.

That was nine months ago. Since then, Paul has completed a residential addiction treatment program at Hazelden and is undergoing follow-up treatment, counseling and attending Alcoholics Anonymous.

In his victim impact statement, Berg talked about the close-knit nature of their rural Cloquet neighborhood, and how Paul had built trust with his neighbors and their children over the last 12 years.

“This whole ordeal has been a sad lesson for our kids and family to learn … that you may not be able to trust the people you have grown to respect, and that your home may not be the safe haven you thought it was,” Berg told the court, adding that his children haven’t ventured down the road on their bikes to visit friends since then. “Some of their childhood innocence has been lost and their perception of safety in our home has been diminished.”

Paul, who was director of Behavior Services for Essentia Health in Duluth before he was arrested, made a statement apologizing to the Berg family, his neighbors and the community.

“Not a day goes by that I don’t regret my actions,” Paul told the court. “Not a day goes by that I don’t pray for [the Berg family] that God gives them relief from the pain I gave to them.”

Macaulay noted that Paul appeared to be “genuinely shamed, remorseful and interested in taking his life in a different direction,” but said he agreed with Berg that Paul’s actions that night were “bold, brazen and significantly victimized [Berg’s] family and the community as a whole.”

“I think there should be significantly greater jail sentence [than the 30 days recommended by probation officers], so I am imposing a sentence of 120 days in jail,” Macaulay told the defendant.

The sentence, however, was a staggered sentence. The judge told Paul he was to serve the first 30 days in the Carlton County Law Enforcement Center starting immediately — actually, only 16 days with credit for four days served and time for good behavior. Additional 30-day increments could be stayed provided Paul follows his 21 probation conditions.

As part of those conditions, Paul must:

Enter and successfully complete sex offender treatment.

Enter and complete individual counseling as directed and continue until no longer recommended.

Have no contact whatsoever with the Berg family nor go within 500 feet of their property.

Have no contact whatsoever with any minor under the age or 18 unless it’s approved in advance by his probation officer.

Attend AA three times a week.

Continue treatment program at Hazelden.

Attend weekly aftercare for chemical dependence.

Not possess or access online any pornographic or sexually explicit materials.

Abstain from alcohol or any mood-altering drugs unless prescribed by a physician."

Source: http://www.duluthnewstribune.com/event/article/id/225696/group/homepage/

(reported via nadaytona.org http://nadaytona.org/2012/03/14/peeping-tom-now-a-convicted-felon-mandated... )

JR Harris's picture

or your Anonymous Sponcee.

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Im calling the judge on Monday!

Massive

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Massive, I hope you do. This man never should have been sentenced to AA because it doesn't appear that alcohol played any role in his crime. But, again, I am sure he will tell you that despite the best efforts of everyone to "play up" options, there are not SMART meetings in Duluth and there is only ONE SA meeting.

I wonder if everyone that has benefited from the SMART Recovery program would do as Tom would like (become facilitators of their own group) if the movement might not catch fire. If you aren't doing that, then people are just blowing air. I can't imagine that someone wouldn't want to give back to the movement. Idealy, this man should be put on house arrest and attending online SMART meetings.

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But I may be wrong and this needs further investigation down the line.

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I saw this article this morning at www.nadaytona.org , It was interesting timing with all the discussions we have been having about minors being brought to meetings, and minors being mandated to meetings, and AAWS and NAWS aggressively seeking out teenagers in our middle schools and high schools!

They even got one high school to have a MANDATED NA meeting before Prom Night!

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I'm sure it was a very cold night. The problem is, he wasn't convicted of a sex crime and he will be in the AA system for a long time. Normally it is suggested that people have 1 year before Sponsoring anyone, but that is only a "suggestion" and is often broken. He could move out of the State and no one would know his background. He likes young women, he may eventually try to Sponsor them and there are no checks and balances in place to prevent it.

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This is out of an NA booklet for young people

"Sex, Drugs, and . . .
As young members, coming to terms with our sexuality
in recovery can be difficult. Our experiences with sex
can include anything from our sexual orientation to
break-ups, pregnancy, unmanageability, confusion,
and shame or guilt about things we’ve done or things
that happened to us. We’ll hear lots of opinions and
suggestions about sex and relationships in recovery.
We may not always listen to what others have to say,
but we can make an effort to talk openly with our
sponsor and other members we trust. Sometimes
our feelings about sex and relationships make drugs
start to seem like a solution again. Instead, we share
what we’re going through and ask for guidance
and support. Recovery will help us get through
our feelings clean. When we share honestly about
ourselves, we’re an example for others."

I find this deeply troubling. Considering they are sending peeping toms to AA and NA meetings, and dont forget the level 3 sex offenders!

BY YOUNG ADDICTS FOR YOUNG ADDICTS- NA Approved literature

http://web.na.org/admin/include/spaw2/uploads/files/EN3113_2008.pdf

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To prevent the cult of AA from using the "that's not my cult" excuse can we find something similar in AA cult manual propaganda?

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Again, treating AA like it is an answer for everything. Why not sex anonymous for sex crimes?

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With the current news about Wall Street Stock Manipulation during a 4th step, attempted rapes by Sponsors against Sponcees during a 4th Step, murders cause by information leaked to the wrong people from a 4th Step, etc.... they should just outlaw AA.

I know I will never have a Stock Broker who is in AA, will never allow a practicing AA member in my house or near any of my friends unless I know they don't prospect hunt. If they are currently in hunting mode with "Corrections Committees" they are low life scum that is allowing this stuff to happen. Period.

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There is a 12 step program for sex addiction which seems to encompass sex criminals as well.

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How about jail time for sex crimes? The 12 steps are not the way to address criminal behavior.

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Thank you, GiGi. I get tired of AA being the place to put people just as a hobby.

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for the purpose of going out in search of these people to bring back to the home group, this wouldn't happen? People that join AA go prospect hunting in jails and prisons for a hobby. Can't you see that? You really have a problem with Denial.

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If there is an alcohol component, fine, but that doesn't appear to be the case here unless your reporting has left something out.

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Clara's picture

Fortunately, AA differs from that.

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Clara, how many times do I have to tell you, this isn't a room full of newcomers and AA and NA for all practical purposes are the same. Prospect hunt on e-AA or something, there are lots of gullible people on there.

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Clara- AA differs from what?

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I don't doubt that there are plenty of young people who need guidance and understanding in terms of sex and relationships-but there is no way that this belongs in NA, AA or whateverA. How did the friggin' 12 steps become the answer to all of life's questions? It is so disturbing.

"If I forget who I am, I am myself. If I remember who I am, I am you."

I found this shocking really, that adults are supporting this, and AA and NA feel comfortable enough with it to even put into print. It is basically playing therapist and priest without a license.

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Clara's picture

Anti, you quoted an NA booklet, not an AA. AA is different.

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Gigi, since we don't do it in AA, I don't know. In fact, AAs with sex problems are encouraged to see professionals. See Family afterward... But given your certainty that EVERYone has a trusted person to ask questions, to seek advice... I sure wish I had had that as a young woman, but not everyone has a hip aunt, older sister or a neat mother. I can actually see it more in NA where sex is a common currency for drugs. I worked with a woman once whose real problem was crack. I love Monica to death and that is one insidious substance. If she would service a drug dealer at 50, I don't think it is too unreal to suppose that a younger woman might not do the same.

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I don't know where you get that I am certain that every young woman has a trusted person...hardly what I said at all. I simply said that it does not belong in AA/NA.

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I disagree about NA. There is a sexual component to illicit drug trade. No one needs to blow for booze, yet I've heard many a story about scoring drugs. Having said that, though, our inventories are meant for our own consideration, and to be between us and God. We can share it if we want to, but we would still be AAs in good standing if we chose not to. It is in the BB and the 12/12.

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AntiDenial says: "Considering they are sending peeping toms to AA and NA meetings, and dont forget the level 3 sex offenders!"
Opinion or fact? Please cite a source.

3rd level mentioned again:
http://www.orange-papers.org/forum/comment/17702#comment-17702
http://www.orange-papers.org/forum/comment/22651#comment-22651
http://www.orange-papers.org/forum/node/489
http://www.orange-papers.org/forum/node/544
What's the connection?

Coming up shortly JR!

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I tried to cut and paste, but it would not allow me to. This " Young People and AA" pamphlet starts out with an AA member as young as 13 years old, then they have stories from 14,15,16,17 and 18 year olds.

AA mentions as a plus for people thinking they are too young, that 10% of their demographic is under 30 years old! Wow that should make any parent feel better!

http://www.aa.org/pdf/products/p-4_youngpeopleandaa.pdf

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Clara's picture

I wish this were formatted differently since I cannot get it to print. I sure do like, though, that it points out in short order that after 90 days, you'll at least know what your options are. To think there are those that feel AA thinks it is the only way.

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With all due respect Clara, A lot can happen to a minor in 90 days! The point is that AA nor NA should be encouraging minors, when they do not offer meetings exclusively for minors, like Alateen does. Alateen does background checks too, and you cannot sponsor a minor in Alateen if you are a felon or accused of a sexual offense.

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Anti, in five years, which we can agree isn't a long time, I haven't seen anyone under 21 in the meetings where I have gone. I always thought teenagers went to Alateen until they reached their majority. I know five women that have been in AA since they were 19. Whether we agree with it or not, those are legal adults. I just got back with the young people information, so I have peruse it. But I have to say that I haven't read anything of a sexual nature yet, but I'll get back with you when I finish. The best figures I can come up with are 1% of members are even under 21, but I don't know if these are the most recent studies. I had actually never seen a member survey; neither had my husband.

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Clara, you are not talking around newcomers here, you know that isn't true. Why are you trying to minimize the danger? You don't want to read the Midtown reports, even though it talks about the 17 year old the 13 Stepping happened to by older members of Mike Q's Midtown group. You know that Clancy I tried to minimize it and blame it on the young girls. You also know that male Sponsors with Female Sponcees is just wrong.

Why do you keep trying to defend it?

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JR, I believe there was a 16 year old at Midtown as well, if I'm not mistaken. I've seen kids who looked to be about 15 or 16. One girl I drove home once was definitely 17. To think these kids are being told they have a life long incurable disease, when they are just being kids. It's no wonder if they completely spin out of control.

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Clara, I thought being an AA member you were aware of the fact that Alateen is only for minors that are trying to deal with family members that are addicted, just like Alanon. But I am sure there are some that think it is for drug or alcohol abusing teens, but it is not.

AA and NA does not offer anything for minors, except for the insinuation that young peoples meetings are a place for them. But young people's meetings is deceiving because people into their 40's or older go to them. So there is still no safety guidelines for those meetings either.

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That's what I thought it was, Anti, especially since Lois started it. Then they go on to Alanon, if they want, I guess. As I said, I have never seen people that young in our meetings, and we don't have a young persons meeting. I've never been to one.

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Clara, Clara, Clara, PLEASE dont pull the 'not in my meeting' routine. One never has to step into a meeting to know that AA invites minors and felons to the same meetings with no safety guidelines what so ever or background checks like Alateen does. Actually Clara now that I think of it you HAVE seen minors, because we discussed yesterday about young children being in meetings. Young children are minors too! Yet again one does not have to see it, only know there policies. myself not even being a 12 step member have seen hundreds of times at meetings in the Holly Hill Florida Parks at both Daytona AA and Daytona NA meetings with teens and small kids.

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Yes, Clara, for God's sake get it right this time: ALL AA MEETINGS CONSIST OF NOTHING BUT SEXUAL PERVERTS, CRIMINALS AND MURDERERS. NOW THEY ARE RECRUITING TODDLERS TO CARRY BUCK MARK .22 CALIBER PISTOLS AND BLOWGUNS INTO MEETINGS, AND THEY ARE DISGUISING THESE TODDLERS AS INNOCENT CHILDREN. CLARA, CLARA, CLARA, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE DON'T PULL THAT "NOT IN MY MEETING" ROUTINE!!!!!!!

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Clara = Becket = Marietta Davis

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Clara has lots of material possessions. Marietta has fuck all. It's a function of sitting on your ass all day doing nothing...lol. I reckon Marietta despises Clara, but she can't say so...lol. I think Clara is genuine (like peroxide blond hair is genuine - genuine peroxide...lol). I'm 100% sure becket is Marietta. There can't be 2 people that miserable (and still living...lol)

God damn it, get me a whiskey

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Persephone In Exile's picture

Yep, the carry-over of the anger about the childcare argument into another thread sort of tipped me off. No, it tipped me off yet again. One more blame the victim post and I'll be certain.

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They are the low life bottom feeders that search for them.

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Calm down - they kick in quite quickly...lol

God damn it, get me a whiskey

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Clara's picture

Anti, I think you know very well that I mean that as AA members, not someone bringing their child. Do you want to parse it even further?

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Minimizing is a sign of Denial. What are you trying to hide?

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There are dangers to young children as well as older minors. I don't think a 13 year old that was described in the booklet, should be in adult meetings listening to their stories. They are too young emotionally as well.

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Let's not leave anything out, Anti. She also spoke of being in rehab wards at 11, a bunch of institutions and a group home by the time she got into AA at 13, and that she was younger than most even at YP meetings. Not much more to say. She seemed to have packed alot into few too many years. So, at 13 she'd been in rehabs. institutions, group homes and, finally, AA. Wonder where she is now.

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Shame on you, turn in your sobriety chips, you aren't worthy. You should be ashamed of your actions and your lifestyle in AA. It is a bad, bad , bad example for newcomers.

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Probably drunk off her ass and wondering what her options are.

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I don't want to put words in your mouth but it sounds like you're saying like she was already a lost cause at 13. Please tell me that's not what you're saying.

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Thank you for not putting words in my mouth because that is exacty opposite of what I said. In fact, in one of my posts I said her story reminds me of the oldtimers that tried everything and the only thing that worked for them was AA. I wondered where she is now. You must have missed that post.

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But Clara, in all those rehabs she was in, I bet there were policies in place to protect minors. She would of been in juvenile facilities. AA does not separate minors from adults.

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